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He is going to talk with his ex... and they were together 5 years. I am worried.
Posted Tuesday May 24 2011, 3:28 am
im 18/f and my boyfriend is 19/m
my bestfriend that ive liked for months and months asked me to be his girlfriend only 2 days ago.. and now that im in the picture as his girlfriend, it would seem his ex wants back in too.
Him and his ex girlfriend were together for 5 years, and im worried about her coming over and catching up with him, just cause im scared that his feelings will come back and he'll return to her.
she also has a boyfriend, but that doesnt stop her from being flirty with him
he asked me if it was okay that he catches up with her, and that he promises nothing will happen. and although i trust him that he wont DO anything, im scared that he WILL get stronger feelings for her, then what he...
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How to approach your boyfriend if your shy
Posted Monday May 23 2011, 10:00 pm
Im a shy girl and so is my boyfriend. We hug at school and we text eachother 24/7 and we talk on the phone. But when we are with eachother we are both too shy to start a conversation. It really bothers me but im just so shy because i really like him and i dont want to say the stupidest thing. We both want to kiss but we dont know when to, and we only can at school. Im 13 as well. Help asap?
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My girlfriend is scared of thunderstorms ?
Posted Monday May 23 2011, 9:53 pm
It's raining and thundering and lightning at our house and my girlfriend is terrified of thunder and lightning. She scared she can't stop shaking and she's crying she keeps saying she's scared. What can I do to help her ?
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Shy about calling him.
Posted Monday May 23 2011, 9:48 pm
I have been talking to this guy for a while now, and he is extremely sweet, funny, and charming. I really feel like we connect. He and I share this same level of sillyness and quirkiness and I really like that. He is different from every guy I have known, although I am aware I have to be in his presence to really know him. Recently, he told me he really likes me a lot. And I feel like I like him a lot too. But there's a catch. He lives in Minnesota and is about three years older than me.
I think we have become very close since we first started talking. But I really wanna hear his voice. I really wanna call him. But I feel like I would bore him to death, but I also wanna learn not to be shy, too. How can I be a flirt in askin...
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love her ,yet still unsure
Posted Monday May 23 2011, 8:23 pm
18/m
Hello there
Iv been going with this for just over 9 months and everything is just perfect. what started off as just friendship has turned into a crazy love for each other such that I can't see my life without her. I care A LOT about her and these feelings are mutual.
This all sounds good but then I just can't help thinking to myself, I'm 18 years old, I'm young, how can I possibly be in love,where could this relationship be possibly going. I feel at times that I should rather be living that commitment free life and that I'm missing out on a certain part of my life that I would never get back.
I'm just confused,love her,want to be with her,but yet still unsure
Help x|
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wrong to go further with girlfriend?
Posted Monday May 23 2011, 8:12 pm
Hi
I've been going out with this girl for a while now, 8 months+ , and things are great, she's 16 and I'm 17, though I just like to know if its wrong to want to go further, we kiss but that's about it, I feel like perhaps its wrong to just ask her to go further or even like feel her up coz she's 16 and dnt wana be forcing things on her..I'm just not sure.
Thanks for the help :)
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Should I stay with my currnet boyfriend or go go back to my ex?
Posted Monday May 23 2011, 7:28 pm
Well my ex bf broke up with me about a month ago. Before we started going out we knew each other and he liked me once b4 (which was about a year ago). We went out this year for 44 days. I fugured out the real reason he dumped me is cause he wanted me to do it with him and I'm not like that at all and he knew that. Well and now I have a bf who i have been rele good friends with since the begining of the school year. Well i went walking on the beach and i went there with my ex and all the memories with him came back to me and i think i might still love him but i dont want to go back to him and having him try raping me but he can b rele sweet and just a great guy and i dont want to ruin the great friendship i have with my bf i have right now. Please help!!!
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Is it normal to cry over celebrities ?
Posted Monday May 23 2011, 6:43 pm
My girlfriend is obbsessed with these actors that she really loves. I don't know who they are but she cries when she watches them on tv. Is it normal that she's obsessed with them ?
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I don't want to lose my friend but i hate being the other woman?
Posted Monday May 23 2011, 6:18 pm
there's this guy i met on a penpal site last summer in July; he's from Jamaica and when we started talking; we just clicked; we had so much in common especially since my background is jamaican as well. we talked every single day for hours on the site; we eventually started talking on the phone too almost every night. our relationship became flirty and intimate. we would talk sexual to each other; exchanged pics ; he even calls me his gf and he tells me that he wishes that i was his gf;we write letters to eachother and i started developing feelings for him and he told me he was catching feelings for me too.
The messed up thing is that he has a gf in the States who went to spend time with him in Jamaica last summer. they've bee...
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My girlfriend thinks I'm gonna leave her ?
Posted Monday May 23 2011, 3:35 pm
She thinks I'm gonna be mean to her and leave her like her ex did. What can I do to make her feel better ? What should I say to her ?
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Closet Crisis.
Posted Monday May 23 2011, 1:39 pm
hi everyone. I have a bit of an issue. Im gay. and i like this guy. he is about everthing i could want in a man. Tall, charming, and cute. We have been talking for about two weeks or so. There is only one problem. He is still in the closet. Big time. He is a member of the christian organization at our school ( im not religious), and is part of the track team. So i can see why he has never told anyone. But my question is, Should i continue with him, or should i not. I dont want to be in a relationship that i cant talk about, and be honest about, but i like him,
and i want to be with him, i just dont want to have to hide a relationship. So any advice would be helpful, because im so confused O_o?
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He doesnt want me at his shows!?
Posted Monday May 23 2011, 1:35 pm
I've been talking to this guy.. We hang out a lot.. we like eachother.. we have sex... were getting to know eachother before make a jump into a relationship. Anyway he's in a hip hop group and they travel everywhere and do shows. The other day ago they had a local show and I asked if I could go and he told me it wasn't a good idea. He likes to keep his personal life and music separate. What do you think of that?
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Should I continue to talk to him or not?
Posted Monday May 23 2011, 1:31 pm
I've been hanging out with this guy for a month and a half now he's 26 so it's not like he's young and immature. We really like each other and yes we have sex. Basically I want to be together and he said that we need to be patient and just get to know each other. I don't really know what is a good time say take it or leave it. I don't like this false hope stuff and the longer we wait the more I'm gonna have feelings for him and get hurt if we don't start dating. I found out that he talks to 2 ex girlfriends he said they are just friends but he said they are unresolved situations. I kind of feel like they might be having an influence on our situation he said no but I mean what do you think of this hole situation?
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Boyfriend stressed and distant. Help?
Posted Monday May 23 2011, 3:15 am
So, everytime my boyfriend is stressed or dissatisfied with his life, he goes into massive escapism mode. That means I can expect him on fanfiction or video games when he gets home till we go to sleep. We always end up not having sex during these periods, and when he'll express a lot of interest in doing just that, he'll bail out or I will because its apparent his mind is elsewhere. I dont know how to get him to focus on the present instead of constantly being dissatisfied with what he dosent have. He wants to make more money, hes stressed about finance. I am too, but I also know that if you live in the future and the past you will destroy the present, and never be happy. I'm tired of his constant dissatisfaction with his life when I give h...
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snm
Posted Sunday May 22 2011, 10:45 pm
what does snm mean
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how to let go the one u r inlove with and get them back
Posted Sunday May 22 2011, 5:37 pm
i love this girl so much,i have been with her for a year and 5 months.i ended it today because she it does'nt seem to be working out with us.Yes she love me alot and i do too but she seems to want more and it seems like i cant do more so she wants us to be with over people to see how we feel and then if we want we can go back, i never wanted to end it with her cause i'm in love with hero be together for a , i really want us to be together for a long time but its over.i think she may find someone that she may fall so in love with and i will not and she will move on and i will hurt even more, i really want this to work out but i ended it so she can make up her mind on what she wants. i want her to come back to me but how can i do this? and i...
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I'm just tired of it.
Posted Sunday May 22 2011, 4:07 pm
Okay, so I'm 15.
I've been in a relationship with my boy friend for a year and 5 months. I love my boyfriend, and I admire him. He's caring,smart (even though he doesn't think so),talented and he is an amazing friend.
We've had SO many issues though, with him falling for his best friend, and him developing feelings for someone he use to like in the past. When he has done something wrong, he will admit to it, but I'm so paranoid about things.
Just recently him and I broke up twice, over stupid arguing. Were back together things were going great until one of his friends Joanna was talking to my friend saying my boy friend "loves her" My friend deleted her for all of it.
My ...
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How do you make a long distance relationship better?
Posted Sunday May 22 2011, 12:04 pm
i am in a long distance relationship and i wanted to know how can i spice up our talks. we know so much about eachother and talk about the same stuff it seem like. what are some things i can say or ask him to start or keep a conversation going. please help me
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By three months, what should i know about my boyfriend?
Posted Sunday May 22 2011, 11:59 am
i wanted to know, what should i know about my boyfriend by our three month anniversary.
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Friends became love and now I am 30 and she is married
Posted Sunday May 22 2011, 6:50 am
Dear Sir,
Iam male from India age around 30 years.Today am in a great problem , what it was is ,i have a friend in the earlier after along time it is converted in to love , when we are friends at that she is married , but unfortunately it was converted in to love , actually the problem starts know ,Iam getting matches to me , she was worried and told not to marry anybody , because she unable to digest the situation,she want's me iam in a confused manner.what i have to do .she is very nice person and she don't want to take divorce with her husband, she want to continue the relation like this .what i have to do know ???????????
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