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Friends became love and now I am 30 and she is married
Dear Sir,
Iam male from India age around 30 years.Today am in a great problem , what it was is ,i have a friend in the earlier after along time it is converted in to love , when we are friends at that she is married , but unfortunately it was converted in to love , actually the problem starts know ,Iam getting matches to me , she was worried and told not to marry anybody , because she unable to digest the situation,she want's me iam in a confused manner.what i have to do .she is very nice person and she don't want to take divorce with her husband, she want to continue the relation like this .what i have to do know ???????????
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Dude, you are the only one who can live your life. 30 years on, you have to think about your own happiness. It is too bad that you guys were such good friends and didn't get hitched (missed opportunity). But you would be compounding the error by forsaking other opportunities.
If you can find someone who you would really be happy with then go for it. Pursuing a married woman or holding out for her just never ends well.
Look, it is a rule of life that you don't get everything you want. So you're just going to have to learn to cope with this situation and move on to bigger and better things.
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I think that you should not let this go one. It's considered adultery, and extremely frowned upon especially in Indian society. If she really loves you, then she'll divorce her husband. She shouldn't force you to sneak around like this. You're a 30 year old man, not a child! If she chooses not to divorce her husband, leave her, however hard it is. I only state the bitter truth.
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