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Should I continue to talk to him or not?
I've been hanging out with this guy for a month and a half now he's 26 so it's not like he's young and immature. We really like each other and yes we have sex. Basically I want to be together and he said that we need to be patient and just get to know each other. I don't really know what is a good time say take it or leave it. I don't like this false hope stuff and the longer we wait the more I'm gonna have feelings for him and get hurt if we don't start dating. I found out that he talks to 2 ex girlfriends he said they are just friends but he said they are unresolved situations. I kind of feel like they might be having an influence on our situation he said no but I mean what do you think of this hole situation?
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Dude is a player.
You like the challenge of trying to get this guy to commit to you. When he resists, the difficulty only fires your ardor even more. After all, often times the best thing a guy can be in order to pull chicks is difficult, enigmatic and even jerky. In the meantime, you reject the legions of nice guys who would treat you like a queen. Typical woman.
Meanwhile, to him, you are only a party favor for his penis. And what makes him holding the power in the relationship even more is that you know you are in competition with other women for him and you don't want to lose.
So, in short, you're being worked. Either leave him and find someone more sincere or stop complaining because you stayed with him even though someone told you what the score of the game is. Learn from this and move on.
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It sounds like he's leading you on..
He's interested in you, but at the same time still talking about his ex's and might get back with them??
Thats a red flag right there.. If I were you (since you said you don't want to get hurt), I would stop talking to him for a while and if he makes an effort to talk to you, then ask him why.
The way I see it, you should make him work for your trust and your love. Don't give it out so easily. Don't talk to him for a while and once he starts chasing you, then you can talk to him. But make sure he's already committed to making it work, instead of just leading you on and "testing the waters". That means danger because you could get hurt in the long run.
good luck and inbox me if you have more questions!
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