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My girlfriend thinks I'm gonna leave her ?
She thinks I'm gonna be mean to her and leave her like her ex did. What can I do to make her feel better ? What should I say to her ?
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I had doubts once. My boyfriend sat me down one day by suprise and presented a list. a 50 reasons why I love and will never leave you list. It's sweet and meaningful and shows its well thought out and you took the time.
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In my last relationship, I was always afraid I would be abandoned like the past ex's have done to me. I was insecure and scared. But patience was the best medicine. My current boyfriend at the time was extremely patient and loving.
reassure her fears. Comfort her when she is scared. Tell her you love her and she deserves to be loved without the fear of being left alone. Let her know that you love her and you really care, but most importantly: be patient. No matter how much she gets afraid, be patient. Sticking around and helping her work through her insecurity will ultimately show her you take the relationship seriously. Surprise her and care for her. Do little things you know she'd love. Be there for her and make her laugh. Do something special! There are many brilliant surprises and special things you could do on top of being patient. I hope I helped! Xoxo. RomeoandRebecca
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make sure she knows you love her. make sure she also knows that you're a completely different person.. that you are NOT her ex.
Do something sweet for her like buy her a rose :) surprise her by putting it somewhere she might find it like her school locker or in her room or on her car. Take her out to dinner and let her order whatever she wants- dessert is a must.
Make sure you spend enough 1 on 1 quality time with her, like watching a movie in the basement. or going for a walk outside and talking, or having a picnic, going swimming etc.
Smile a lot and have fun around her. Tell her she looks beautiful (not hot or sexy) and that you are madly in love with her.
What my boyfriend did for me, was he bought me a diamond ring for my birthday :) It was sooo sweet! It wasn't too expensive, but yet it let me know he is serious about me and our relationship.
Kiss her like its the first and lass kiss ever. And just tell her you love her!! :)
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