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Why does my boyfriend do this with texting?
Posted Friday June 17 2011, 11:08 am
Ok so me and my boyfriend live about 40 min apart and he has a job. Needless to say, we only see eachother like once or twice a week. Anyway, that leaves us texting pretty much everyday throughout the day. I'm just wondering why is it that, when texting, if I happen to text back slow (10-20min) he gets pissed at me, yet, he sometimes takes up to an hour to text me back and always says "i hope your not mad" or something like that. So, it's ok for him to do it but I can't? What is that about?? He told me flat out that he's the jealous type of guy, does that have anything to do with it?
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Is he trying to get me pregnant?
Posted Friday June 17 2011, 7:48 am
me and my boyfriend been together for 9 months. we love and care for each other. we'll be living together soon. months ago he wanted to come in me, i disagreed coz i didn't to get pregnant and afterwards i wanted him to come in me he disagreed. recently, it's been a while that he says he wants to come in me. is he hinting me to get pregnant? he also knows that a i want a baby. thanks
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how to let go of a bad relationship?
Posted Friday June 17 2011, 2:50 am
I am currently in a bad relationship and have been for two years now. This is one of those first love high school sweetheart relationships that wouldve been awesome if it lasted forever. To make a long story short the fling began in '09 at the time he was cheating on his girlfriend with me and thats how it stayed for a year then they broke up and we got together and hes been doing the same thing(lieing and cheating) on me for a year. I knew i had it coming and i know what i did wad wrong so i accepted my karma but with that being said i dont think anyone should have to be punished for the rest of their lives but he just wont stop he always says he will i always believe him and he always does it again but i love him more than my own family m...
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Why is my ex treating me so strangely?
Posted Friday June 17 2011, 12:02 am
My exboyfriend (who broke up with me about a month ago) and I spent some time together recently and his behavior was very strange. First of all, he literally shot me with spitwads like he was a little kid teasing his sister. Also, he was very reserved. Not rude or quiet, but very solemn and maybe even bored. I tried to act casual and behave the way I do when I'm with any other friends, but he didn't ever let down his guard to even smile at things that normally would have made him laugh. He was a complete 180 of the guy I used to know who was enthusiastic and fun. To top it all off, when we hugged goodbye he kept poking me in the back with his car keys. Now I can't tell what's sincere and what's him just being weird. I don't understand why h...
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Does it count?
Posted Thursday June 16 2011, 10:09 pm
If you get itchy "down there" does that count as masterbating? cause I get itchy sometimes, but I don't masterbate. just saying.
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Guy friends u love
Posted Thursday June 16 2011, 7:39 pm
My best guy friend and I were planning to go out after summer ended, but he just told me that he doesn't want to anymore. How do I get over him because everytime I see him I want to cry.
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need to pick a guy
Posted Thursday June 16 2011, 5:57 pm
im 15 almost 16 and im a girl and i been dating this guy for about a few weeks now and i dated him 3 times.a few days ago i started talk to this guy who is 16 almost 17 and he has liked me since he was in the 7th grade and we been talking and i never dated him and im really starting to like and i dont know if i want to stay with the guy im dating cause i wanted it work with and i dated the last time and break up with him for other guys and this new guy i known forever and i really like him but i dont know if i should break up with my boyfriend for him and my best friend whos like my sister hates the other guy and likes my boyfriend as a friend and she wants me to stay with him but i dont know what i want to do i want to be with both of them but i dont know what one to pick...
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friend's insane mom keeping her from contacting me ever since she found out
Posted Thursday June 16 2011, 2:35 pm
ok so after she kept begging and begging, i finally told my bff (who is a straight girl and who i really like as more than a friend) that im bi but when she got mad at me she told another girl and her mom. when we made up i wanted her to come over but she said her mom wont let her call or text or have any out of school contact with me. so one time i decided to text her anyway and this is what i said: i just wanted 2 say i love you. you dont have 2 text back but i just wanted you to know that" i figured she would take it as a friendly "i love you" but i guess she didnt. . .so i guess her mom read the text and my friend came into school and she goes "my mom is scared that you r gonna screw me and eat me out" so i sai...
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he said he lost feelings
Posted Thursday June 16 2011, 12:20 am
Me and my boy had been together almost 1 year and a half... we did long distance for 9 months while i was away at school. he started to act different after christmas... like a little less caring. He told me thats just how he is he's not an emotional or expressive person. We ended up breaking up after he forgot our one year... he told me at that point, after i told him im done with not being cared about, that he is not ready for commitment and he needs to experience things in life (hes 20) because now is the time. He cried to me saying how amazing of a wife id be and how he hates himself for feeling this way.. then two nights later he called back and said he made a mistake.. he sounded sincere. Well now here i am. ive been home frmo school f...
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I don't have to have sex?
Posted Thursday June 16 2011, 12:00 am
16/F
Okay, my friend always asks me how my boyfriend and I are doing and I always just reply with 'fine. After all, I like to keep my relationship with him between us, that and we're both too shy to start gushing about how we cuddle and stuff. Not to mention, our relationship involves mostly talking to each other. I like this relationship and it's my longest and best so far. Well, my friend exploded one me the other day about it and she asked what the sex was like and I was like what the heck?! She's younger than me by a few months and she already has weird problems of her own. Yet, she kept saying that I should've had sex with him by now, three months is enough. Uhm, nooo, I'm only sixteen and he's younger than me, so there'...
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kissing. is this normal?
Posted Wednesday June 15 2011, 9:54 pm
is it normal for a 13 yearold girl to not have had her first kiss yet? cause I haven't and idk I feel pressured to and like a prude just because I'm nervous too. it's okay to be nervous for your first kiss, right? how old were you guys when you had your first kiss?
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i think im scaring my boyfriend away :(
Posted Wednesday June 15 2011, 9:30 pm
im female/18 and my boyfriend is 19
Me and the guy i absolutely adore have been dating for the last 3 weeks. it seriously feels like we've been dating for months. Even he agrees.
the only thing is, hes started to get a bit weird after the other night, when i stayed at his house like i normally do. We were in bed being intimate (not intercourse though), when he pulled away from me and told me " I think i'm falling for you" i responded with "i dont think..i KNOW im falling for you too" and we were both smiling. then he says "but im scared, ive never ever fallen for someone so quickly..." and i assured him that there was nothing to worry about, that i wasn't going anywhere.
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considered some type of abuse?
Posted Wednesday June 15 2011, 8:59 pm
my bf and i are a very happy couple. however, on the occasions that we do fight, his anger gets awful. when we first started dating, it wasn't that bad (he'd yell and things like that). over time, it's gotten worse (punching walls, calling me names). he's never hit me, but today we got into a fight and i admit (i smacked him and things, but i only do that if i felt like he was crossing the line). and although i'm wrong for doing it, he called me things like the 'b word', and he even shoved me violently and pinned me down on the bed to get in my face. also, he threw something at me. every time we reconcile, he keeps saying how he knows how angry he gets and he tries to calm it. but then he blames ME for getting him that angry and that's why ...
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i love him but he keeps hurting me.
Posted Wednesday June 15 2011, 7:23 pm
So ive been in love with this guy for over a year. we have dated a couple times, but have always stayed involved. we are pretty good friends and he knows im in love with him. and i dont think he loves me back. which is fine with me, he doesnt have to love me back. but he told me he wanted to go back out, and was really sweet about it and everything. but i told him to give me a few days to think it over. so while i was thinking he went and slept with some chick i hated in the first place (i despise her now). hes always doing stuff like that. like hooking up with me then asking someone else out the same day. i know it would be smart to stop trying and give him up for good. but i love him with all my heart. hes the only person who makes me gen...
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should i be worried?
Posted Wednesday June 15 2011, 5:21 pm
Me & and the guy that i have been dating have been going strong for a good 7 months now. We are in love and we trust eachother and haven't had many problems in our relationship. There is one thing i am uncertain about though. After 4 months into our relationship, i seen where he wrote on his ex girlfriend of 2 and a half years facebook wall and said "Thanks for logging off during mid conversation." I wasn't really worried about it when i first saw he posted that but now that i have come to think of it, i really want to know what they were talking about and why he was so worried that she logged off. I know that he would never cheat on me and that he loves me. He's not a bad guy. It just makes me worry a little because they date...
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Why's my ex treating me so strange?
Posted Wednesday June 15 2011, 9:08 am
TR (21) and I (19) dated for 7 months. I've always been crazy about him. And he loved me too. Then 3 weeks ago he ended it rather abruptly saying that he was tired of walking on eggshells (I have BPD), that he's not happy, and finally "I don't love you. I did... but I don't know what happened." I made him promise not to disappear out of my life and he agreed to be friends. So I let myself be heartbroken for a couple weeks and now I'm more numb than anything. Meanwhile, he quit his job he's had for four years and got a new one. Then shaved his beard that he loved. So I started wondering if maybe the break up has less to do with me and more because he was just unhappy in general and was trying to change EVERYTHING he has control ove...
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Relationship: What does it mean if a guy looks you in the eyes?
Posted Tuesday June 14 2011, 11:45 pm
If a guy looks you in the eye, what does it mean?
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Making outt. (;
Posted Tuesday June 14 2011, 10:01 pm
I'm a 13 year old girl, to some it may sound too young for making out but ive never made out or kissed anyone before. I'm also very self conscious, and I have had boy friends and guys that I have liked that have liked me back. but when the time comes (I hope it comes soon even though I'm nervous) I want to no how to do it. Any advice helps :)
Thank you ! (:
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I love him, I love him not.
Posted Tuesday June 14 2011, 9:24 pm
so I'm a 13 yearold girl and ive had boyfriends and guys that have liked me, not sounding concieted or anything but I liked a guy named Reed and he liked me back but then we both stopped liking eachother,and I started to like one of my other good guy friends who liked me but then got a girlfriend. I know no one but me can tell me who I like but if anyone has advice to help me our with this situation, please feel free to do. (:
because I'm not sure which one I like. there both my good guy friends, I just don't know which one I like. neither does anyone else but please help. :)
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Fingering
Posted Tuesday June 14 2011, 8:03 pm
I got fingered for the first time a few weeks back and it really hurt :( is this normal?
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