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should i be worried?
Me & and the guy that i have been dating have been going strong for a good 7 months now. We are in love and we trust eachother and haven't had many problems in our relationship. There is one thing i am uncertain about though. After 4 months into our relationship, i seen where he wrote on his ex girlfriend of 2 and a half years facebook wall and said "Thanks for logging off during mid conversation." I wasn't really worried about it when i first saw he posted that but now that i have come to think of it, i really want to know what they were talking about and why he was so worried that she logged off. I know that he would never cheat on me and that he loves me. He's not a bad guy. It just makes me worry a little because they dated for so long. Should i be worried? I feel like its to late to say anything to him since it happened about 3 months ago.
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Its understandable that you feel uneasy, but unless you've seen other signs that make you uncomfortable I wouldn't worry about it. Who knows what they were talking about. they could have been just putting some closure on some unresolved issues or talking about a mutual friend. Maybe it really wasn't anything that important, just two people who have a history catching up. Whatever it was, it didn't end well obviously, so that's something. Try not to worry about it. You seem to indicate he's great in every other way. 2 1/2 years is a long time to be with someone. It will take a while for him to cut all ties with that person. That's totally normal and doesn't mean he doesn't care for you.
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Forget it. Its not a big deal,and it happened three months ago. A lot of times if something is going on, you'll be able to notice several instances in a short time span. Yes, they did date for a long time, but it's clear that you're not a rebound because he's been with you for several months.
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