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kissing. is this normal?


Question Posted Wednesday June 15 2011, 9:54 pm

is it normal for a 13 yearold girl to not have had her first kiss yet? cause I haven't and idk I feel pressured to and like a prude just because I'm nervous too. it's okay to be nervous for your first kiss, right? how old were you guys when you had your first kiss?

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JesseVai answered Sunday June 19 2011, 12:29 am:
Yes its normal, take you're time if you're not ready. My first kiss was when i was 12. im 13 now. me and my friends had a sleepover the other day and someone asked the question when was your first kiss? i answered when i was 12. some of my friends that were there said they haven't had theirs. your not the only one who hasn't. i remember i felt the same way as you do now. its ok to be nervous for your first time. when it happens it happens. mine was very simple. a quick peck on the lips. yours can be as simple as that. doesn't matter. don't be worried to much about what its gonna be like. you'll know when it happens. in my 13 years of life i've only kissed 3 people. and they were people i really cared about. one was actually today, 6/18/11. it only lasted a second but it felt natural. you don't have to go all out and make-out with the guy. it can be as simple as u want it to be! i hope this helped! if you need anymore help or have anyother questions feel free to message me. im glad to help! Good Luck!!!!

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Icanhelpyou123 answered Saturday June 18 2011, 8:08 pm:
Oh my haha, of course it is normal.

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itdependsonyoux3 answered Thursday June 16 2011, 3:31 pm:
Yes, it is totally normal for a 13 yeart old not to have had a first kiss yet.
dont feel pressured, everyone goes at their own pace :] i have a friend whos almost 19, and she still hasnt kissed anyone. so dont worry ! youre not a prude. let people think what they want to think. youre still so young.
and yes, its okay to be nervous for your first kiss, i was TERRIFIED. honestly, i freaked out. i had my first kiss around the age of 15/16. im 18 now, so really.. youre fine and normal.
when you feel its right, youll have your first kiss.. whether youre 13 or 30 :]
good luck ! hope i helped and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me. xxo.

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AlPal answered Thursday June 16 2011, 10:20 am:
I am 13 and had my first kiss when I was 12, I always felt pressured, but when that time came, it was awesome! It totally felt like a dream. But to answer your question, no, this is not uncommon, I know only a couple of people who have actually had their first kiss. Just make sure you actually like that person before you go off kissing him! And don't just kiss the first guy you go out with on the first date or something because if you guys don't end up as friends, then he may ruin your reputation.

(I hope this helped and sorry if it didn't,)

JUST HAVE FUN WITH IT!
:)

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Teen2TeenHelp answered Thursday June 16 2011, 10:20 am:
Not at all, my 19 year old friend hasn't had hers either. I was 15 when I had mine.

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