me and my boyfriend been together for 9 months. we love and care for each other. we'll be living together soon. months ago he wanted to come in me, i disagreed coz i didn't to get pregnant and afterwards i wanted him to come in me he disagreed. recently, it's been a while that he says he wants to come in me. is he hinting me to get pregnant? he also knows that a i want a baby. thanks
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Friday June 17 2011, 8:24 pm: You really need to put your age in this question. I am 20 I have 2 kids. My first when I was 15 my second when I was 18. Its really hard and your lose a lot when you have children. Go to college have good jobs so that you and your boyfriend. Maybe husband before you have kids can really give your child what they deserve. When you struggle fiancely, your relationship struggles, and everything just falls apart. plus if you dont live with your boyfriend yet. living together can make things totally different. really think about your decision. I want another baby but im not ready for any more at all. so ill just deal with the baby blues. [ Sweet_LiL_Angel's advice column | Ask Sweet_LiL_Angel A Question ]
Xui answered Friday June 17 2011, 1:00 pm: If you aren't living together, You aren't ready for a baby. Also, Are you and your boyfriend financially stable? If not, You are not ready.
I'll be blunt: 9 months is really quick to be considering children in the relationship, I would personally wait until you and your boyfriend are settled down in your new place and you know that you can afford to provide for a child. From the sound of it, You both are not ready. Start using protection it is better to be safe then sorry. [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
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