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straight boyfriend and gay pub?


Posted Thursday December 8 2011, 11:02 am

hello, what makes a straight boyfriend go to a gay pub with his gay mate? why does a straight men go to gay pub or club? does straight men go to gay club, EVER? is it NORMAL or should i be warned? thanks.

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Does he like me?


Posted Thursday December 8 2011, 1:26 am

Well after school one day i went to my locker (that is right next to my crushes)and it was jammed so i kept trying and trying to open it but it wouldn't give then my crush came down and saw me dropped his stuff and said "i will help you whats your combo i swear i wont steal anything" so i told him it and he couldn't get it to open ether so i got the custodian and my crush stayed after school with me for like 10 more minutes trying to help out but then he had to go - so what do you think ?

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second time.....but clingy?


Posted Thursday December 8 2011, 12:35 am

so I dated this girl for a month.(im a chick as well). We broke up but now are maybe getting back together. She said I was too clingy. We just started dating so we was hanging out a lot and I was staying. So how can I not be clingy this time around?

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2 guy Confusion


Posted Thursday December 8 2011, 12:18 am

I was close friends with this guy, and we took the 1st step to be BF/GF. It went fine, after a month went by he suddenly became very agressivly mean. He called me a pathetic little loser and dumped me.It Hurt me So bad I couldnt eat or sleep or basically function for days. 2 weeks later I started talking to an old male aquaintence...and he asked me out. My new ex hadnt known about the date, and wanted to start a friend relationship. This aquaintence wants me to be his girlfriend, I dont know whom i love more though. My ex is a jerk, but i care about him. and my aquaintence is very nice and respects me. Also I still feel like i'm a cheater when i hang out with him, even though im single?

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Ex issues: We have a lot of chemistry and i don't see why we're not friends.


Posted Wednesday December 7 2011, 6:49 pm

Okay, so i started to think about my ex and the good times we had because honestly we have a lot of chemistry and i don't see why we're not friends. So i started to talk to him and when i first started to talk to me he was asking me advice about his girlfriend. He kept throwing things in my face like, "Shes the only girl that i loved." "Shes the only girl i was faithful too." The worst thing he said was "I had sex with her last week." I mean that's personal? Why is he telling me. Out of all people, why me? I have a feeling hes trying to make me jealous. I don't know im kind of confused. I need someone else point of view on this. Ridiculous.

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I always have to go and blood comes out


Posted Wednesday December 7 2011, 2:24 pm

Ok im 18 in january.
I just had sex with my boyfriend last nigh and it felt kinda weird after.. I dint got to the bath room because i waz tired.. When i got up this morning it felt like i had to go so i went.. I peed and i saw a lil blood but i thought i started my cycle... Then like 3mins later it felt like i had to go really bad again so i went to the bath room and i peed a lil and it was more blood.. Again like 3 to 4 mins later i went agin but i looked down as i peed and i seen just blood cum out... Also it kinds of hurt when i peed... What could this be and do i have to see a doctor to cure it cause i really have no way at all... So could this be taken care of at home

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Cutting down


Posted Tuesday December 6 2011, 6:40 pm

I've been with my boyfriend for two and a half years, and our relationship has been through various things (We got together when he was in his final year of high school, I was in my second last) As you can see, this meant that our relationship went through seeing each other almost every day, to once or so a week once he graduated and started working and now we see each other whenever we can, as I am in university and he is still working (but starting university next year).
The thing is though that I get clingy. I know it myself, and I've been trying to work on keeping the distance. My boyfriend would really like to disappear for a day or two every now and then. But I somehow always get the feeling that if I didn't initiate contact, i...

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Should i stay with him just cause he is a good guy and we have a 1 year old together?


Posted Tuesday December 6 2011, 3:04 pm

i am with a very very good guy. perfect in most peoples eyes. For me there is alot missing. emotionally we dont connect for. for him everything is perfect. i dont feel he is the one. but every adult ( i am 22 he is 28) in my life is teling me u can learn to fall in love. is it true? should i stay with him just cause he is a good guy and we have a 1 year old together? am i crazy for feeling that it just isnt enough?

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Why does he act immature and disrespectful?


Posted Tuesday December 6 2011, 2:51 pm

Hello everyone,I love my boyfriend(well i just broke up with him yesterday) very much and i believe he loves me too.

I fight fair i don't say hurtful things,if i am the one at fault i apologize but i have never not even one said anything disrespectful to my boyfriend.Because i believe in respecting others and let them hold their dignity. My boyfriend on the other hand, he says mean things and does disrespectful things.For example he will answer me " what is it you wanted to say yesterday that was so important you cant repeat it now?" (If i ask him why i called him several times but he didnt pick up the day before), or "stop right there you are so annoying me right now,you can be mad all you want i dont care&quo...

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My crush is confusing me :( advice


Posted Tuesday December 6 2011, 12:14 pm

So i met tis guy and i never thought i would like him..but as i got to know him i reeaallyy like him(: so i told him i did and turns out, he feels the same way..yestarday he told me he loves me for the first time!! I was so happy. We started talking about a relationship but he told me he isnt sure because he dosent want to "f up" the friendship we have :( i was sooo upset. U cant tell someone u love them and not want to atleast try a relationship. I was heartbroken and ow i dont know what to do.. i only like him and i dont want to just act like friends wih benefits. I want to be with him...its just to weird saying "i love you too" when we r just friends.

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is my past holding me back??


Posted Tuesday December 6 2011, 11:15 am

i have had a really bad love past. my first boy friend i dated 15 times, he cheated in me 3 of those times with more then one girl. My 2 boyfriend is just a sex feind he was exactly interested- i was the one that escaped his trap (didnt have sex with him) my 3rd broke up with me over some fake crap. and anyone else i've been interested in simply didn't want me or used my attraction for their own benefit.
i just started dating my newest boyfriend and he is thgee purest bf i've ever had....
he says he loves me but ive heard that so many times that i cant believe anything any guy says anymore.
is this normal???

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he's a virgin, and im not


Posted Tuesday December 6 2011, 11:05 am

me & my boyfriend brian have been dating for a month. My parents met him, and i've met his parents, and everything is good and well. before we started dating, i was a new friend of his, sense quite frankly he almost kinda scared me in his appearence. Soon i grew attracted to him as the beautiful person he really is.
anyway, as we were getting to know each other, he told me he was a virgin. And for some reason i found that totally adorable and cute and it made me blush.
And although is till find it so cute, i;m starting to worry the tiniest bit. Because i want to keep him a virgin for as long as i possibly can, when and if the moment comes to having sex, would i be in charge of that? i was mever a dominant person, im actua...

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he say that he straight but i think he gay


Posted Tuesday December 6 2011, 12:59 am

Well im falling for this guy at work
but he say that he straight but i think he gay. Im gay and he wants to hang out all the time
we going to movies friday, he poke my side alot. We act like we dating HELP I NEED SOME ADVICE WHAT DO I DO

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Posted Monday December 5 2011, 11:56 pm

I meet this guy a month ago. he is very nice and very outgoing. the past few days he started changing, he tells em im going to call you but he never does, i invited him to a party but he never went. he decided to go with his friends somewhere else. i wrote to him telling him how i dint wanted to see him again because he is a lier. he told me he wanted to see me tonight to talk things out but guess what? he never called me to hang out and talk. I came to a point where i cant handle this anymore. I was catching feelings for him but i guess that's going to start fading. Im so dissapointed tho :( I don't know what to do. what will you do in this situation? (by the way he is a taxy driver)

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I'm confused about what to do and what to think!


Posted Monday December 5 2011, 8:46 am

Ok, so there's this guy I have a crush on...
and I've had a crush on him for almost a year now. I think he likes me.

-keeps on sneaking peeks at me
-always borrows my things
-asks me questions
-budges in my conversation, looks directly into my eyes and smiles
-finds excuses to stay near me, is always really close to me
-picks me for teams
-tries to impress me
-tries to make me jealous
-flirts on facebook
-sits close to me all the time
-talks with me alot
-I asked him if he wanted to go to the movies with me and my friends and a couple of other boys,and he said yes
-his eyes say 'I know you like me'

does he like me? I don'...

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Horny 24/7


Posted Monday December 5 2011, 2:21 am

Hay I'm looking for help I met a girl shes very nice but she doesn't want sex I don't mind that but she is also a nudes doesn't where any cloths i went to sleep there and i cant stop having a boner. Is there something i can do at least not have a boner because its embarrassing. Any help will be nice.

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Does he like mee??


Posted Sunday December 4 2011, 7:52 pm

So this guy and I are friends...I think ill start from what happened today...

I went to his house....we first sat on the porch and then a few minutes later, he invited me inside. So we were in his kitchen talking and I was wearing a lot of bead bracelets. So he decided to take one (because we were freakishly bored), put on some music and throw it at me.. so we sat down at his kitchen table and started sliding it back and fourth over the table. We soon got bored of that so we went into his 'room' and I layed on his mattress on the floor. He just kept circling the mattress (walking around it) and kicking it. I told him I was going to grab his leg if he kicked it again...and he said "oh really??" And kicked it agai...

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my fiance doesn't want me to go to any of his band's shows for a very odd reason?


Posted Sunday December 4 2011, 7:47 pm

so my fiance paul is in a band and he said i cant go to any of his shows cuz of this girl emily. apparently paul reminds emily of her ex and seeing him happy with another girl will male emily sad. but paul said emily is gay ans she is married to a women but i found her bra on his floor. what do i do? i love paul so much and i dont want to lose him but i dont know if he is cheating

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Is he breaking up with me? What else could "I'm sorry for all this?" mean?


Posted Sunday December 4 2011, 6:08 pm

I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months however, I don't know where I stand right now. Since he got a job (about 3 weeks ago) his been distand because he starts at 7am until 7pm at times and he's always tired. First week I realised he wasn't making time so I said some thing whilst we were on the phone he said "I dont choose mates over a girl" When I saw him that day he said he didn't mean it like that all he meant was he tells everyone he'll see them on the weekend and he has to try and make time for everyone. Anyways recently last Wednesday he went out of state for work, wednesday we msgd and Thursday he called me and told me he missed and so forth. Friday he was meant to come back he didn't msg i msgd him saying "I miss ...

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asking about someones sexual orientation


Posted Sunday December 4 2011, 4:28 pm

hi,
i was wondering if it is alright to ask someone who you are acquainted with their sexual orientation because you are interested in them, and are not sure if they 'swing that way'. cause i'm a bisexual and want to know about a girl in my classes orientation but do not want to offend her in any way or cause her unnecessary trouble. Should i wait until we hang out more or? thanks! 16/f

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