Question Posted Thursday December 8 2011, 11:02 am
hello, what makes a straight boyfriend go to a gay pub with his gay mate? why does a straight men go to gay pub or club? does straight men go to gay club, EVER? is it NORMAL or should i be warned? thanks.
Xui answered Thursday December 8 2011, 10:35 pm: If this was a gay strip club, Then I might tell you to be concerned but this is just a pub.
Your boyfriend may just be tagging along with his friend. Maybe he doesn't see the big deal of going? A pub is not a strip club, They don't have any dancers, bouncers or strippers. Just relax, Remember you are his girlfriend and he is with you. A pub is just a pub and he may just be going because of his friend. As long as he doesn't go to clubs then I wouldn't worry about it. [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
thelaura answered Thursday December 8 2011, 5:47 pm: There's nothing wrong with gay pubs. I've ended up in a few gay bars myself and I'm straight. There isn't a strict code where you must be gay to enter.
I think you're over thinking and worrying for no reason.
Maybe he goes because his gay friend feels more comfortable in there.. or maybe it's actually enjoyable in there.
Either way, don't stress about it - it's just a pub. [ thelaura's advice column | Ask thelaura A Question ]
Ashok-UK answered Thursday December 8 2011, 2:56 pm: Why did my boyfriend go to a gay pub with his gay friend? Are you serious? Lots of straight guys go in gay pubs and clubs with or even sometimes without gay friends - it's not compulsory to be gay to go to a gay pub /club and going there does NOT make your boyfriend gay! If your boyfriend going to a gay pub with a friend of his who is gay makes you uncomfortable then you might want to have a think about how grownup you are! Ashok [ Ashok-UK's advice column | Ask Ashok-UK A Question ]
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