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my fiance doesn't want me to go to any of his band's shows for a very odd reason?
so my fiance paul is in a band and he said i cant go to any of his shows cuz of this girl emily. apparently paul reminds emily of her ex and seeing him happy with another girl will male emily sad. but paul said emily is gay ans she is married to a women but i found her bra on his floor. what do i do? i love paul so much and i dont want to lose him but i dont know if he is cheating
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Confront him about it see what he says and go from there.
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Wear a disguise and GO TO HIS SHOWS!! You need to see for ourself what is going on. ou cant just break it off with him without knowing for certain. Yes, the strange excuses and the bra are sure signs he has/is cheating on you... But you need closure. Go see for yourself!
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Put the clues together, He is obviously cheating on you.
You are his fiance wouldn't you think that if you meant so much to him that he would want you there?
You found this girls bra on the floor the obvious is right under your nose. Other than the fact that this guy Paul came up with a bogus lie on why he didn't want you there. The guy is cheating on you and yes, He is lying about it. Dump him and get over it
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Paul is cheating on you. You already know that. You can stay and be used or go and spend some time figuring out why you are attracted to guys that put your feelings last.
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Is this for real!? Who cares if Paul reminds Emily of her ex. To put it bluntly, Paul is NOT her ex, so she really has NO say in the matter - and definitely cannot stop him from having his own partner there.
I think there's more to this story which he's not telling you. It sounds awfully dodgy and to be honest, if I were you, I just wouldn't put up with it. Have a serious talk with him about it and if he still doesn't care about your feelings as much as Emily's, you might want to reconsider who you're going to marry.
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Why does your fiance care more for this girl's feelings than for yours? If she is gay and married then seeing you two together should not be a problem for her at all. This sounds very suspicious to me! Call him out on it - ask him whose feelings are more important here, hers or yours. Tell him you would like to support him at his shows - obviously it's a big part of his life and you want him to share it with you.
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