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second time.....but clingy?
so I dated this girl for a month.(im a chick as well). We broke up but now are maybe getting back together. She said I was too clingy. We just started dating so we was hanging out a lot and I was staying. So how can I not be clingy this time around?
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if you are so clingy and she didnt like it then why is she wanting to get back together with you. it sounds like she likes you the way you are. so stay that way. thats just who you are.
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Well did you ask her in what way were you clingy? Maybe trying not calling her as much maybe give it a couple of days and let her contact you. Another thing is you don't always have to hang out with her maybe try to plan a date night with ehr and than hang out with your friends on other days. You had a life before you met her so try not to think too much. Believe me I know what it feels like to always have someone on your mind 24/7 but you need to think about other things as well. Good luck and Happy Holidays!
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Hm, it would help alittle better if you could give me some reasons of why she thought you were clingy; like what exactly did you do to make yourself seem clingy?
I guess this time you can just be more laid back. Don't always try to be around her; let her have her space. I mean show her that you care, but don't be smoothering. If you guys text, don't send it more than twice; give her a chance to text back before you send a new text. If you guys talk on the phone, don't be mad when she wants to get off; or try to keep her on longer than she wants;
When she goes places, don't ask her a million questions- I mean its okay to ask the typically, where ya going, have fun kind of thing; but don't make her feel like she has to check in with her "mother"
I'm not sure if this helped at all, because like I said, I don't know how exactly you were clingy, but if you wanna detail it for me, just write something to my inbox.
I hope you guys work out this time!<3
Good Luck
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