Ok, so there's this guy I have a crush on...
and I've had a crush on him for almost a year now. I think he likes me.
-keeps on sneaking peeks at me
-always borrows my things
-asks me questions
-budges in my conversation, looks directly into my eyes and smiles
-finds excuses to stay near me, is always really close to me
-picks me for teams
-tries to impress me
-tries to make me jealous
-flirts on facebook
-sits close to me all the time
-talks with me alot
-I asked him if he wanted to go to the movies with me and my friends and a couple of other boys,and he said yes
-his eyes say 'I know you like me'
does he like me? I don't know. sometimes we don't talk for a whole day. We kind of ignore each other. Then we flirt with other people.
I don't know. Is he playing hard to get or does he think of me as a friend?
And look at it this way: if he rejects you, you will know how it feels when a guy who asks you out gets a negative response. So at the very least you will learn something out of it. That makes taking the risk worth it. [ VoiceofReason's advice column | Ask VoiceofReason A Question ]
Hollywood22 answered Monday December 5 2011, 6:41 pm: I think this could go two ways: either he's playing with you just because he knows you like him, or he actually likes you and is trying to play the "cool guy" dismissive role (which seems more likely from what you've said.) A poll I read recently said that 89% of guys want girls to make the first move, but it seems like you've dropped hints to him, which is good enough in my book. One time when it seems like you're being really close, just start to flirtily talk about liking him in a coy way and see if he picks up on it. Let me know how it goes! :) Hollywood22 [ Hollywood22's advice column | Ask Hollywood22 A Question ]
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.