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I'm a younger (52) having a problem with an older (86) friend neighbor


Posted Wednesday February 4 2009, 1:43 am

In my apartment complex where I live for 18 yrs, I met an older lady about 6 yrs ago. I have been pretty close to her...she says friends, I think neighbor. I live alone, divorced, no kids. She was married 46 yrs, 3 kids, doctors etc... she has a good financial situation when her husband passed, I live on ssdi right now. It's not about money...she does alot with her kids, grandkids, I am always alone. I have alot of health problems but she doesn't believe me cause "I look so good".
She demands my time, makes me feel guilty if I don't feel well, basically she doesn't believe me so, again, makes me feel guilty for not being there for her whenever she wants. And when I start spending more time with her, then she says I'm buggin...

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What the heck is wrong with my relationships?


Posted Wednesday February 4 2009, 12:01 am

I've had a lot of boyfriends and I hate it because first of all, I always end up going out with a guy only a little while after I met him, so our entire relationship is based off of a couple jokes we both happened to experience in the same room :/ and I'm not a very good conversation person, so I'm not very good at thinking of how to talk about certain things. And now that I've been thinking about it, anytime I get a boyfriend, I always find some lame excuse to avoid him. Like, he'll ask me to hang out over the weekend and I'll "have to go to my sister's piano recital". I mean, I usually like hanging out with people, but only when I'm actually hanging out with them. Before we hang out, I'm always freaking out about being in an awk...

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Trojan Virus


Posted Tuesday February 3 2009, 11:46 pm

I have a trojan virus on my cpu I downloaded a software to remove it but when I attempt to run it it says I am not the administrator and for me to contact my network admin. I tried contacting my internet company and they cant help me. Is there anything else I can do from home to get rid of this virus.

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Is he worth all this??


Posted Tuesday February 3 2009, 10:57 pm

I am 13 and female. I am sick of this crap but I couldn't be more crazy about this boy... Is that possible?? This boy (I'll call him Ryan) has pretty much taken over my brain. I feel like I'm thinking about him 24/7 but our relationship is so complicated, I will try my best to explain it. I have liked him for about a year but I only REALLY got to know him over the summer, we would talk constantly online or because we hung out with the same ppl, see eachother regularly. He started off by just being a friend I could just talk to... I dont know but I really opened up to him and I learned so much about him, his favorite animal, color, food and his biggest fear. When school started it felt like the only reason to go was to see him ( and my frien...

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My Area! Yoga Room! Relaxing Room!


Posted Tuesday February 3 2009, 10:31 pm

My sister just moved out. Her room was in the basement, and used to be a kitchen so there are cabinets and a sink and a stove. the owner refuses to take it down. I want to make this MY AREA! i plan to put in a futon, tv, maybe my computer and just have it be my "extra" room. The walls are white and the bottom half is light wood. I am not renovating, just redecorating/painting. I want some tips on what color I should paint the top half, the bottom is light stained wood. i want a relaxing but bright tone. It is in the basement with no window! What color do you suggest. Remember warm, inviting color that still brightens up the room?

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Valentines Dayy?


Posted Tuesday February 3 2009, 9:59 pm

13/F
Well Valentines day is coming upp..duhh.
And i have a bf rightt. and i have no idea what to get himm. Because he's likee nerdy and stuff..and i wanna get him something nerdy but cute. haaa.
Well any helpp?

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This Dream!!!


Posted Tuesday February 3 2009, 9:34 pm

Sorry if this is in the wrong category. i had this dream last night. I was sitting on a bed reading a book and this guy walks in. He sits next to me and I put the book aside. I hug him, like to where my heads on his chest and we just sit there for a minute. Then it was like he knew i was tired because he scooted back on the bed and laid down and it was like i automatically shifted with him. Like we were talking without talking or something. then we fell asleep like that. Then, i was in a lunch line talking with friends. I turned around, and saw him a few people behind me. i decide i wasnt hungry and head towards the doors leading to the cafeteria. But hes standing in front of the door and then he hugs me, and not one of those hello hugs it ...

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i dont think im normal.


Posted Tuesday February 3 2009, 9:18 pm

I dont feel the same about guys anymore. And its not guys in general, its guys in my town that are in my grade and age level. I feel like none of them are mature enough for me anymore. I think their cute but i never like any of them. Im just disgusted with just about every one of them. I feel that their all players that want to just play around with girls. They are always making perverted comments, all the time. Always lieing. I want a kinda older boyfriend, like one grade ahead older. or someone my age. just someone that really shows they like me. and doesnt move to fast or pressure me. someone that hugs me tight for no reason. things like that... i just hate it because im not normal.

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Failing


Posted Tuesday February 3 2009, 9:13 pm

Hey , im 13 yearsold , well my moms currently disapointed & upset with me because im in 8th grade and i am failing atleast three clases and shes affraid i wont pass high school , in english i have a 66 in math i have a 56 and im not sure what the heck i have in spanish but that's besides the point, i don't wanna be looked at as the flunk out of school loser who does absoulutely nothing
with her life , i don't wanna be stupid forever , what should i do ? Help me please =(

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Giving head


Posted Tuesday February 3 2009, 9:11 pm

I recently just started giving my boyfriend head. I know what im doing for the most part, but what are some things that will really spice it up? I don't want to bore him but i'm not so sure what to do besides the normal sucking and that stuff. HELP!

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what to do/valentines day


Posted Tuesday February 3 2009, 9:09 pm

Okay so no suprise, valentines day question. I have NO idea what so ever to do for my boyfriend. We've been dating about 4 months but we've been like best friends for over 2 years. We're really close but our relationship is what most would describe friendly, theres the "i love you" and stuff but its not all mushy mushy if ya know what i mean. Anyways, what should i do? we're sexually active but i think i'll have my period then. I have lingerie that he wants me to wear so i was thinkin' maybe something with that? He smokes, drinks(bad habits i know), dresses kinda gangster/skater. I want to do something taht means alot but at the same time not too much for the little time we've been dating. any advice!?

THANKS!!

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A Midsummer Nights Dream


Posted Tuesday February 3 2009, 9:00 pm

im writing a paper on a midsummer nights dream. it has to do with the theme of dreams, the dream realm, and how to dream realm mixes with the real world and causes confusion and misconception.. things like that. what are some specific examples from the book i could use? quotes would be great too, if you can think of any. thanks!

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how to show that I like him?


Posted Tuesday February 3 2009, 8:47 pm

So I've known this guy since 8th grade when he moved here. We're in 11th grade now and I still like him (yeah, sad, I know).

I don't have any classes with him this year but I see him occasionally in the hallways and I frequently tend to hang out in one of his classes. He's been flirting with be pretty obviously, and I guess I've been flirting back? However, today I realized that he thinks I have something going on with another friend of mine (we don't but people like to assume otherwise). He asked today, "What's going on with you and him?" I told him nothing and that we have never and are not going out.

How can I show him that I'm interested in him as more than just a flirt without looking like a hopeless girl clinging onto him?

16/f

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so i want to lose weight before june 13 and


Posted Tuesday February 3 2009, 8:19 pm

im 13, turning 14 on april 21, weigh about 173.

how do i lose weigh without excersing.
and will it look gross if i do lose weight without the exercising


i want to get skinny before swimsuit season or at least before my class and i go to seaworld in the summer


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Help please


Posted Tuesday February 3 2009, 7:49 pm

does anyone know where I could go to school online for free by the way i'm in 8th grade please help me

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Youtube/blocking


Posted Tuesday February 3 2009, 7:28 pm

So there's this girl that does makeup videos on youtube. She has lots of them and she has lots of viewers. And I used to watch her.. and I thought I was subscribed to her.. and I dont remember commenting her but I might have. So today I found her again, and I tried to subscribe but it said 'you may not subscribe to someone who has blocked you' and I was wondering about Youtube and Blocking. Could she have maybe blocked a group? Or would she had to have specifically blocked ME for this to happen? Or what else could it be?

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Should I?


Posted Tuesday February 3 2009, 7:24 pm

Okay so heres the deal, im 17, female, and my boyfriend of 5 months is 18. I'm a virgin and he's not. I get so happy when we're togeher, and I mean happy, like I have mini orgasms and I get very wet. He makes my stomach lurch so much, like butterflies. He said that he would wait for me until I was 18 but he doesn't know if he can wait much longer then that. We don't see eachother much, it's a long distance relationship, and I actually haven't seen him since November. We talk about sex all the time, mostly teasing eachother. I wanna do it so bad, but I'm so self-concious, he doesn't know that though. Like I said, we don't see eachother much and when we do, its like heaven. Last time I saw him, we made out for 7 hours straight and I let him f...

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Posted Tuesday February 3 2009, 7:16 pm

I met this guy and we've only hung out twice. he totally came off as interested in me and acted like he definitely wanted to see me again. after we hung out, which was such an amazing night, he hasn't really been talking to me? i mean, we dont go to the same school and we've texted a little bit, and hes been really nice and friendly in the texts, but so far ive been the one who has started the texting and we barely text anyway. the last time i saw him was a week ago. what should i do now!?!? my friend knows him and she said that he is a huge compliment to me that he even wanted to hang out with me let alone kiss me because he is really really hard to get and apparently every girl wants him. i really want to see him again and know if he is s...

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Valentines/anniversary gift?


Posted Tuesday February 3 2009, 7:16 pm

So, I've never really had a boyfriend before so I'm not very good at this whole gift giving thing. Our one month and valentine's day are both coming up and i have no idea what to get him. I was thinking of making him something but at the same time I kind of want to buy him something. I'm sure that he would like anything that I give him, but I want it to be something creative. Any suggestions are appreciated. Thanks :)

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im kind of really grossed out =/


Posted Tuesday February 3 2009, 6:32 pm

15/f

okay, so today my friend jon (who is my ex-boyfriend also; we broke up about a month ago) told me that he is basically addicted to internet porn and that he masturbates all the time. and that he actually did it so hard that he hurt himself to the point where he couldnt walk, and that's why he missed school yesterday. when we were going out he seemed to rush things alot and now im so relieved that i didnt really do anything with him (we only kissed).

now im really, really grossed out and i dont really know how to act around him. part of me is extremely grossed out that i even went out with him, and the other part of me wants to try to be friends, even though i sort of know it will always be weird. what do i do?

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