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Okay so heres the deal, im 17, female, and my boyfriend of 5 months is 18. I'm a virgin and he's not. I get so happy when we're togeher, and I mean happy, like I have mini orgasms and I get very wet. He makes my stomach lurch so much, like butterflies. He said that he would wait for me until I was 18 but he doesn't know if he can wait much longer then that. We don't see eachother much, it's a long distance relationship, and I actually haven't seen him since November. We talk about sex all the time, mostly teasing eachother. I wanna do it so bad, but I'm so self-concious, he doesn't know that though. Like I said, we don't see eachother much and when we do, its like heaven. Last time I saw him, we made out for 7 hours straight and I let him finger me and he always feels me up and he love to suck on my boobs. I've felt him up(down & inside) and he's so big! My bestfriend keeps telling me I should do it and I want to do it.
I guess the question is, after all that, why should I be embarassed about my body and should I just do it?
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basically if he cant wait till your ready like if its 19 years old or something then he is not the one
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dont give up your virginity unless you really think he is the one. i know you're young and horny but if its a long distance relationship, and it sounds like most of the time all you do is mess around, could this really be "love" or lust? it sounds like you're 2 horny teens! i gave my virginity to a boy i dated for a year when i was 17 young and thought i was in love but around this age boys and girls are both changing and you dont want to give away something special like your virginity to him unless you realllllly think you're in love. your virginity really is special because if you and this guy break up, what do you have to give to the guy you marry? just think about it long and hard. i mean you havent seen him since november, do you really think its going to last?
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you're right, you shouldnt be embarrassed about your body. if he likes your body, you should too. but you're young, and its really unlikely for a teenage girl to be comfortable with her body. :) but just remind yourself that you need to love you as much as he does.
and if you refer to sex as "doing it" then maybe you shouldnt "do it" until your comfortable with the expression "having sex", "making love", etc etc. and having sex because you want to is not a good reason. you guys may have talked about it, but have you given thoughts to anything else besides losing your virginity?
for instance, pain? pleasure? protection? condoms cut down on the pleasure a lot, but they protect against STDs and unplanned pregnancy. and if hes about to ejaculate, dont even let him do it in he condom. make him pull out. you can ask him what that means.
and since you're still a virgin, it might hurt. A LOT. i know my first time, i couldnt even walk, it hurt so bad. i know one girl who said it hurt her first 15 times. it only hurt me the first 3 or 4 times.
but, its your choice, its your life, and its your body. do whats comfortable, but just be sure to use protection. you can find condoms at any store, almost. id try your nearest pharmacy or walmart or something. :)
take care!
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