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I met this guy and we've only hung out twice. he totally came off as interested in me and acted like he definitely wanted to see me again. after we hung out, which was such an amazing night, he hasn't really been talking to me? i mean, we dont go to the same school and we've texted a little bit, and hes been really nice and friendly in the texts, but so far ive been the one who has started the texting and we barely text anyway. the last time i saw him was a week ago. what should i do now!?!? my friend knows him and she said that he is a huge compliment to me that he even wanted to hang out with me let alone kiss me because he is really really hard to get and apparently every girl wants him. i really want to see him again and know if he is still interested.
1. how long should i wait to contact him?
2. how should i get in touch with him? should i text, call, facebook message?
3. what should i say to him when we talk???
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alright, first of all DONT be like the other girls. if they all like him they probably always text him or stuff like that. let it be for a little while, a week perhaps. if he doesnt text you by then, then call him to hang out. if he doesnt seem interested then hes probably not interested in you. sorry.
and youre friend should be congradulatin you! jeeez.
best wishes!
x sweeethoney
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ok first off, you shoudlnt want to see him just because everyone else likes him. and the way your friend said that sounds rude to me, for some reason. im sure a lot of guys like you.
ok moving on. what i would do is not contact him at all. let him know that you're not desperate to talk to him. i had an ex who cheated on me and dumped me twice, and i never contacted him once, no matter how much i wanted to. now we're going out again and i only call or text when its an emergency. my policy is, i just dont call guys or text them at all. i let them text me first. that way, if they text, i know they arent just talking because they feel obligated, you know?
i know it sounds old fashioned and such, but if he knows that "all these girls are after him" and that "hes such a huge compliment" and hes not getting any attention from you, he'll text you soon. especially if he likes you. just be patient. :)
when he does contact you, mention that you're REALLY bored. if he wants to hang out, he'll take that as a sign that it'd be ok if he asks you to hang out.
but if he doesnt talk to you for a while, (as in, you havent contacted him once, and he hasnt contacted you, in say..a week.) then just send him a quick text saying "hey stranger, what have you been up to?" or something like that. if all his responses are short, sweet, and to the point, then hes probably lost interest, in which case, im sorry :(
im way hyper cuz i just took caffiene pills so im typing a lot here, so ill shut up now. and sorry if i scared you. :) he probably still likes you. and he'll contact you if he doesnt feel appreciated. in which case he'd be self absorbed and shallow. -.-''
....ok well good luck!! :)))))
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