|
Viewing QuestionsLove Life
Romance a mess? Welcome to the club! Ask your question here.
Oxytocin Questions
Posted Sunday May 6 2012, 5:20 pm
My boyfriend and i have been together for 18 months so far, and we've been so happy. Although we are both content with each other, for some reason i feel more emotionally attached because I am a girl and I read that females release oxytocin while having sex..
i don't want to change him or anything but is there anything i can do to help him get emotionally attached like me? maybe he is, but i want to do something that will increase it.
I don't want to just ask him if he's attached to me. haha i mean, if we've been sexually involved for 18 months would you think he is? and is there anymore i can do to help increase his oxyticin?
I read that giving him a back massage could do the trick
...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (1) ]
Completely embarrassed myself!
Posted Sunday May 6 2012, 9:33 am
21/f So yesterday for cinco de mayo I went out with my boyfriend and his friends and we went to a bar to drink and then to a daytime club. Long story short I got out of control and drank way too much, apparently got wasted and his friend had to pull over for me to throw up (luckily I didn't in his car). Point is I embarrassed myself and feel terrible about it. I'm not one to do this often or at all really the last time it happened was last year in like October. And every time it does I feel so terrible my boyfriend doesn't drink so he was soberly noticing of it and when we got home he told me he was disappointed in me, made me feel so much worse, and then I cried tked to him for like 2 hours and it's just a whole mess. I know I was drunk b...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (1) ]
Nicknames
Posted Sunday May 6 2012, 1:49 am
What is a good nickname to give to your boyfriend?
[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]
How to get his number
Posted Saturday May 5 2012, 8:17 pm
Ok so I really like this guy he's a freshman and I'm a sophomore. We all know summer is coming up and I know I wouldn't see him till the next school year. Which is really hard on me. I'm kinda shy so it's not like I can just go up and ask him it's not that simple. The guy I like is this girls brother which the girl is a junior and she's on my sport team( which I likeher we cool but she can be intimidating and I dont want that side of her) I dint have any classes with him but I go to his class sometimes to talk to people and sometimes him. Please help I'm kinda desperate bc I'm fragile
[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]
We broke up... but I am not sure we should have
Posted Saturday May 5 2012, 3:10 pm
Me and my 'ex boyfriend' broke up a few days ago. We're both fine with it but I still love him. Over the summer he's moving to Georgia and I wont see him so is it better that we broke up now? Or should we have waited? And he's mad at me cause my friends are always around..what do I do? Tell them we he's around not to come by me? I'm just so confused...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]
Do you think he likes me?
Posted Saturday May 5 2012, 1:26 am
14/f
About a month ago, I realized that I had major feelings for my very good guy friend. We've been friends for about a year, and I never liked him as anything more than a friend...but that changed radically and now I have a huge crush on him. So anyway, I told my friend who proceeded to tell about fifty people, and I ended up admitting to the guy that I liked him. He told me that he used to like me but then he stopped, but now that I told him he's not sure. He said he needed time to process this and think.
So that weekend he kept texting me, and he said that "there was a chance that he might like me" but he didn't want to say anything definite either way because our friends were being so annoying ab...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (1) ]
If I keep looking at our old conversations together..what does that mean?
Posted Saturday May 5 2012, 12:37 am
My ex and I have been separated from since the beginning of the year. I am slowly staring to get over him and I am so proud of myself for making progess. Anyway, lately I can't help but re-read our old conversations (I saved some for memories, I tend to do this with guys I've really liked, I have some saved on my computer, e-mail, tumblr, etc), I even re-read the questions I posted on here about help I needed with him. I just want to reminisce on what we've had and establish that all of it is down the drain but realize that I did learn something. It hurts to read it sometimes though because I just can't help but miss him...Well im not sure if i miss him but i miss being happy knowing that I had someone and someone had me. But from what I've...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]
Conflict, concience, and my attraction to a man who is taken...
Posted Saturday May 5 2012, 12:13 am
It's finally happened...for my whole life, I have been very very good at respecting the "off limits" zone when it comes to guys who already have a GF...but now, this guy has me absolutely smitten with him...it just kind of happened, without warning...and I can tell, and so can my friends, that he seems to be smitten with me too...but he's taken. Naturally, I am compelled to get him out of my mind as far as becoming a boyfriend goes, but my heart longs for him. I am so, so ready to love, having had my heart broken my whole life, and this man is someone who I could easily see myself falling deeply in love with...
And again, he's taken! X( His girlfriend seems nice, and we are nice to each other, though there is much g...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]
I feel horrible and I know its wrong.
Posted Friday May 4 2012, 8:23 pm
A guys that has a girlfriend hits on me and I sort of let him. Hell walk by my lunch table stare at me for a couple of seconds and come over and give me a hug. At first I was like ok hugs aren't a big deal just friends. Today though, I was walking with my friends and he came up behind me and gave me a really tight hug. I turned around and told him "I didn't give you permission to hug me" and then he said " but now you do" and he hugged me really tightly again and picked me up and spun me around. Also today someone at hid lunch table asked if we were dating. He told me to sit with him for a second so I did. I know his girlfriend and they've been dating for 8 months. At one point I starts becoming her friend and then we st...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]
I really like this girl
Posted Friday May 4 2012, 6:45 pm
OHaithere!
I am a boy and I am 13 years old. I am doing grammar school too. In my class, there is this girl I really like, but I am having troubles getting to know her properly, because we almost never talk ;(.
She is quite popular, and the guys and girls that she is befriend with, I like them as people, but they are not my friends. I always TRY to talk to her, and man up, but when I see her, I melt. Literally.
Help?
[ Answer Question | View Answers (3) ]
I still like him but i cant tell if he likes me!
Posted Friday May 4 2012, 5:37 pm
Last year I met this guy in one of my classes and he was everything i look for in a guy. We flirted alot and we went out twice. We always talked about getting together but i had surgery over the summer and he just stopped talking to me. I was mad and depressed because i liked him sooo much. I deleted him off facebook so i could forget about him but this year he is in 2 of my classes and i see him everyday. Now we barely talk and i never found out why we just stopped being close. I thought about talking to him about and ask him what happened but idk if would be awkward after...i still think i like him, any advice on whether i should pursue him or not?
[ Answer Question | View Answers (4) ]
i hate facebook and my curiosity.
Posted Friday May 4 2012, 5:09 pm
my boyfriend of two years and i have had a couple issues with him messaging girls on facebook. i found a conversation once of him telling her he'll send pictures if she does of her boobs, it was graphic and i was upset, yelled and left the house and he came out (after going upstairs to see what i was upset about, i told him to read his messages) and told me that it was an old message that popped up and it was before me (he was a sort of man slut when he was younger, we're both in our early 20's, by the way) but when i wanted to bring it back up to clarify the date he said he had deleted it cause he didn't want to re-read it all, it was embarassing.
other situations have just been smaller things like calling girls pret...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]
Am i pregnant
Posted Friday May 4 2012, 10:59 am
Im pretty young female teen and Well i have a boyfriend but we never had sex and i didnt have sex with no one im still a virgin. But i have sex by myself and i was wondering if im pregnant cuz i am getting fatter and some pains in my stomach once in awhile. Can it be real if im pregnant yes or no
[ Answer Question | View Answers (5) ]
does my dad effect my current relationships?
Posted Friday May 4 2012, 2:43 am
21/F
My biological dad never really wanted me and growing up he never really paid me much attention especially once my parents got divorced. I was lucky if I got a call on my birthday/Christmas/holidays and as soon as I turned 18 I was lucky if I got a phone call once a year. I have an amazing stepfather who I consider my dad now. But it feels like I'm always getting into relationships with guys who never really want me either. I'm well aware that I seem to be most attracted to guys who end up disappointing me yet the guys who are constantly stable in my life I have no interest in them. It's like I purposely get into these relationships knowing very well it's not going to last and they're just going to leave me. It's weird how I can ...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (3) ]
Best way to get over someone.
Posted Thursday May 3 2012, 11:31 pm
I know getting over someone takes lots and lots of time but sometimes in order to move on we need to actually know that there is someone else out there for us. Anyway, I can't help but get angry over my ex's new girl in his life. The reason for our separation is a long confusing one which isn't even worth the discussion because I have faced the fact that it's over. But yeah, I don't think she likes me very much, I don't know why. But it angers me that she doesn't like me for some reason. I just don't want drama with anyone. I, at least, have a right to be angry at her, it's natural jealousy. And yes, I do still have feelings for him, but I can't and shouldn't anymore but I just can't help how I feel. I want to be over it and I want to move...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]
I'm cheating for the first time and I don't feel bad about it. I don't feel the need to tell my boyfriend, either. Why?
Posted Thursday May 3 2012, 11:27 pm
I cheated on my boyfriend today, i really dont feel bad about it though. i dont know why i dont feel the need to tell him, the only thing i did was make-out cuz and he fingerd me only cuz he didnt have a condom. i sound so stupid i have no clue what is powering me to do this and i feel like i just wanna be bad and its not like this my bf treats me bad he actually is amazing i just feel trapped like i had a 4 year relationship 7 months ago and another one 2months ago. this guy is perfect like too perfect to let go so help me make sense of myself!
[ Answer Question | View Answers (3) ]
"poping your cherry?"
Posted Thursday May 3 2012, 11:04 pm
Ok so my boyfriend is wanting to finger me... and I have a few questions about him "poping my cherry" 1. How many times can it be poped? 2. Where is the " cherry thing" located? 3. Dose it hurt when it gets poped? 4. What should I do to prepare? 4. What should I do when it gets poped? And last but not least,how much blood comes out? Thanks, oh and also he is 15 and I'm 14
[ Answer Question | View Answers (1) ]
Should I be mad over something that happened 8 months ago?
Posted Thursday May 3 2012, 8:50 pm
Tomorrow is my boyfriend and I's 9 month anniversary. He's my best friend and I have never felt this way about anyone! Sure, we're in high school and we have our share of rough times, but we get along so well. He's really sweet, funny, and he treats me so right. Before we were dating, we gave each other our FB passwords because we would hack each other and write funny stuff. We've been close since my freshman year and his sophomore year.
Today, I was on his Facebook profile. I was just looking at his pictures, and a message popped up. It was an old message from a few months ago but I guess he stopped reading it. It was a message from one of his ex girlfriends. She is fifteen... and clearly immature..because I know her and she...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]
tonight it happen
Posted Thursday May 3 2012, 3:03 am
The guy that i have just seen around well we was talking tonight and he asked me to come over so we can just talk. So we just talk and what not and listen to music and got to know each other some and He is 16 and I'm 21. We live in the state of south carolina. Is that wrong? We both are gay. But our parents kinda sorta know. But he says he trusts me and I trust him. He asked for cigarettes and should i get if for him? He asked me out tonight. I really like him and he likes me. I'm not sure what to do. help please.
[ Answer Question | View Answers (5) ]
Just need opinions
Posted Thursday May 3 2012, 12:06 am
19/f, I've been in with my boyfriend for a year. We used to send each other cute texts almost every night and it of course lightened but now I feel like it has stopped. We still love each other, and I brought this up to him asking if he still feels the same way about me, then sent him an old cute text and told him how we haven't exchanged any of those in a while. He reassured me that he feels the same way, and ended up sending me a cute text that night. But it has stopped again. I guess I'm the type of girl that needs reassuring? opinions? am I crazy for this?
[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]
|