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I feel horrible and I know its wrong.
A guys that has a girlfriend hits on me and I sort of let him. Hell walk by my lunch table stare at me for a couple of seconds and come over and give me a hug. At first I was like ok hugs aren't a big deal just friends. Today though, I was walking with my friends and he came up behind me and gave me a really tight hug. I turned around and told him "I didn't give you permission to hug me" and then he said " but now you do" and he hugged me really tightly again and picked me up and spun me around. Also today someone at hid lunch table asked if we were dating. He told me to sit with him for a second so I did. I know his girlfriend and they've been dating for 8 months. At one point I starts becoming her friend and then we stopped talking. I feel like a horrible person. I know that if he does this now then he would obviously do it if we ever dated. I want to stop it but I cant the attraction we have is so strong. I feel like im being used but at the same time I dont have an emotional connection with him its all physical attraction. I feel like his girlfriend doesn't deserve this. How can I stop it without ruining our friendship.
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You are right. You nor her deserve a guy like that because if he is doing it to her he will do it to you talk to her let her know what happening. And its gonna be hard but leave that guy alone. He hot but there's no feelings. Talk to him to let him know how you feel. And if his charm and looks get the best of you think about if you were his girlfriend and he was doing the same thing with someone else. Be strong! Good luck
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You need to be straight up and tell him the way he acts makes you feel uncomfortable because he has a girlfriend. If you keep leading him on, he's going to keep doing it. You know its wrong because as a woman you know it would hurt if your boyfriend did this sort of flirting with another girl. Next time he tries something say something like "I don't think your girlfriend would appreciate you hugging me this way, maybe you should stop". If he says no & tries to continue doing it just tell him you're the one that doesn't feel comfortable. Just be honest! Goodluck.
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