Ok so I really like this guy he's a freshman and I'm a sophomore. We all know summer is coming up and I know I wouldn't see him till the next school year. Which is really hard on me. I'm kinda shy so it's not like I can just go up and ask him it's not that simple. The guy I like is this girls brother which the girl is a junior and she's on my sport team( which I likeher we cool but she can be intimidating and I dont want that side of her) I dint have any classes with him but I go to his class sometimes to talk to people and sometimes him. Please help I'm kinda desperate bc I'm fragile
Xui answered Saturday May 5 2012, 8:55 pm: Are you friends with this girl? I'll give you my two cents on asking someone else..
The most attractive thing men find in a woman is confidence. Asking his sister for his number isn't really the smartest way unless you and her have some sort of friendship. Randomly asking is awkward.
As hard as you find it just try to get to know him. Find out what his interest are and try to small talk. I am pretty shy myself but someone once told me that it is only uncomfortable if we make it out to be. If you don't know what to say then try "hey whats up? I like your shirt" compliment him and start off casual. There is nothing to loose but I would never do it through someone else. [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
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