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ok so my friend is 12 (im 13 we're like 3 months apart) and today she was going on about how this boy, lets call him O and her D, wants to have sex with her. you know what? here's the REAL conversation.
D:omg O wants to have sex with me!!
me: but eww you guys r too young and noones gonna sell condoms to you guys!
D: O has pulls, duh.
me: no D its a really bad idea youll be known as a slut.
D: WHO CARES ive liked him for 5 yrs.
me: so? you arent even dating him!!!!
D:what ever you dont get it.
me: yeah i do.
D: at least ive had a one night stand.
i havent replied to her yet but i dont want her to screw up :( i want to email it to her parents soo bad but i dont know what to do. and i really want to reply, THATS NOT A GOOD THING. i think you are screwing up your life and i swear ,D if you do have sex i think ill just breakdown because i just cant deal with the fact that one of my friendds has had sex 1. because your gonna screw up your reputaion and your gonna get in trouble for sure.
2.i cant let you. (link)
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wow wish i had a friend like you well if i were you i would talk to her one more time and convince her thats its a bad idea. if she doesnt listen then tell her parents she might not want to talk to you anymore but trust me she will. she ll still be your friend she is just going through a phase.
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(I'm sorry, this is going to be long...but I appreciate anyone who takes the time to read it)
I let myself develop deep, deep feelings for someone...who already has a girlfriend...normally it would have been , "Oh well, he's taken. Next!" but not this time. This time, my feelings took over me. Whether or not I was going to try to break them up was never an issue, and still isn't. That's not who I am, and I will never attempt such a selfish act. So, I told him how I felt, but also told him that I'm not looking to sabotage anything and then we continued to be his friend as usual...
But here's where it gets a little trickier...I'm very, very sure that he has strong feelings for me too. And I'm not saying this because of how I feel for him. There are definite signs. (before I go on, I want to say that I have NOT 'thrown myself' at him or anything like that...in fact, I have told him again and again that I want him and his girlfriend to remain together) He wants to spend a lot of time with me, he's always texting me, sometimes late into the night, he is playful, flirtatious and subtly touchy feely with me, (not like "groping" or anything) and tons of other basic "he likes you" signs...plus, he has dropped several hints that his relationship has been on the rocks and that he is unsure of how it will go...he has said that he loves his girlfriend, but has never once mentioned that he is *IN* love with her...now I'm not saying that automatically means that he's not in love with her, it's just a possibility is all...but there are just so many possibilities right now, and it's been emotionally draining...and believe me, it's not like I haven't tried to look for other men, and I've definitely kept my options open, but it's pretty slim pickin's where I live...that's not me being picky, either, it's just how it's been luck-wise...the man I currently have feelings for is quite rare, in that we have so much in common, and the fact that he is a good person.
I have such a strong, strong connection with this man, and he has even agreed with me on that. Now, I know a very easy answer to this for some people might be, "he's a player" blah blah blah...but I don't believe that is the case...again, another easy answer from me because of my feelings for him. We've known each other for quite awhile, and he is a very, very caring, compassionate person, and he has never once made an actual "move" on me...he's just not the 'cheating type'...I think if that is all he wanted, or if he were the type to "cheat", he would have tried to do it with me by now.
I'm so confused and emotionally exhausted...There's part of me that wants more with him so very badly, then there's another part that feels guilty and selfish for doing so, because I don't want anyone to get hurt in any of this...so what am I asking in all of this? I don't know...I suppose part of me is venting and just wanting someone to listen...
I do ask that people be kind in answering...I'm NOT looking to be coddled or have sugar-coated answers, but please, no mean, smart-ass remarks or unnecessary pessimism.
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its going to be hard because the more you talk with him the harder it'll be to stop thinking about him the more he is in your head the more stressful you'll be.what I would do is take a break from each other just to relax for a while. if they ever end up breaking up because you love him then things will only be awkward between you and him trust me this happened to me before and my relationship with her was well awkward she knew it too
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I'm from Canada. Anyways there's this guy in one of my classes and I really like him and I don't know how to act around him and make it not so obvious that I like him... So how do I act around him so it's not that obvious that I like him? (link)
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fight the feeling and act the same as would with other guys or you could either tell him how you feel. get him alone and talk to him
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Just so you know, I'm 15. I really want to make new friends, but the problem is that I live in a small town and by now everyone at my school knows everyone else and has formed their own cliques and aren't interested in being my friend. I don't want to be friends with these people anyway, because they really aren't very good people. So I don't know how to make new friends, what to do or where to go. Advice, please. (link)
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sports if thats not your thing then clubs at school not into that then go out make a friend find people that are like you and as, them if can hang with them or go solo and make friends hang out with different people everyday and move on to the next. in time youll make friends quick but join clubs get involve with the community
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There's this guy, who moved to my school not long ago. We started talking as friends and we exchanged numbers, we still continued to talk as friends until our conversations got abit more flirty, he would call me “princess” he basically made me feel really special. I started to really like him, so I told him. His repsonse was “I'm too busy for this” and when I asked him what it meant he would say “I'm just too busy for all this, I can't be bothered” so I was left confused, he told me to meet him to speak face to face but then said something came up. I left it for about 2 weeks, then I sent him another message, asking him why he had made me feel special and then just dropped me all of a sudden and how much he meant to me. He replied with “I feel the same, we should be together” I replied saying “I really want to, but I'm scared” obviously I was scared in case he led me on again, then he replied saying “that wasn't me that was my mate” I continued to send texts after texts after texts and he wouldn't reply, but he would smile like nothing happened at school when I saw him :( and he still does now. I left him too it, weeks went by and he still always glanced at me from across the room and gave me a smile, some days I would smile back and some days I would be that angry and upset on what he's done to me, I looked away. I sent him another message the other night over the interent because I've just left school and I obviously won't see him as much, I may probably bump in to him around, but I said “I probably won't see you again, or as much anymore so I thought I'd just tell you that I do have feelings for you” he didn't reply, but definitely was online. I don't know what to do, this guy means so much to me and it really hurts. How should I react if I see him again? I've not seen him since that message the other night, what happens if I bump in to him? I can't honestly confront him to his face, I just don't have the courage and it's really really hard. Please help! Thanks. (link)
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thats easy if you really love like crazy then you ignore him if you dont lay off then soon you'll problably be a little obsess with him but ignore him completely soon or later hes going to talk to you but youll problably over him thats pretty much it
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17/f
i was born with a penis and ive never had a bf cause i dont want to be embarassed.
pleeeeeeeease help, i want to be a regular girl!?!
any advse will be very helpful!
thanks in advance!!
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uummmmm:) i think thats cool. dont be embaressed about that some people would go for someone like that. in bi and i wouldnt mind have a girlfriend like that i still would treat her like queen, but to have a sex change might cost alot . i rather be happy with i am im here if you wanna tlk oky.
by me jr246
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Am a lesbia have been on it about 5 year ago I have a child with is about 5 year too start been lesbia after
I had my bady am 26yr now I want to marry and setle down I don't how to do it am so inlove with my partner. I want to stop it please help (link)
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ok you should go find someone who catches your if you start to feel something then keep going at him from time 2 time you'll be be thinking less lesbian and more straight in your relationship make sure he'll be good father your baby
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We broke up a while ago, and he hooked up with another guy (Bi) a day afterward. Literally. A few months went by, and when I felt I was truly recovered, I found someone else. But this person happened to be a good friend of both of us--I know that wasn't wise, but I really liked her (also bi)--and he didn't react very maturely. He's threatening not to be friends with her anymore, and I'm concerned because it's really upsetting her.
I don't even understand, since he seems happy with his boyfriend, never contacts me and ignores me, makes fun me when he doesn't and overall just seemed over me up until now. (link)
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im bi i think you should do what he does to you back to him because if you dont then its going to be like for awhile till he gets under your skin. dont let him tell you who you shouldnt be with if you love her then tell him to mind his own business
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i really like this guy and my friend askes if he liked me he said idk. now it seams kinda akward. how do u get over the akward moments (link)
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dont let taker you just try to block from your mind and think of other things or you can go to him and ask him if he likes you just so you feel akward anymore
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What does the saying "are you wet" mean???
I'm asking this because last week I was watching 2 broke girls and this guy came up to this girl asked her if she was feeling was feeling wet...my dad started laughingg...I don't understand why...:-( (link)
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well for guys they jizz in thier pants whenevr they're turned on or teased against thier will
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whats are good ways to turn on a guy? (link)
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well there a few ways find out wat he really likes like some guys have a sweet tooth or some guys might have a fetish ask him wats his favorite part or i would recommed a sweet tooth theme cover yourself with candy look hot and the mood sit him down a chair and dance for him with all that candy on you
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Hi. At the beginning of this year, my best friend went to another school. She won't answer my messages, texts or calls (or anybody's in my class, for that matter.) I also told her I liked her and i'm just really depressed. Plz answer. Thanks. (link)
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maybe you just surprised her i think you should talk to her online but better face to face ask her how shes been then later on the conversation ask her why doesnt want to talk to anyone ..or maybe she doesnt have her phone anymore either of the two
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soon is a very hard choice in my life, i'm unsure whether to go to college next year, as i'm almost 17 as i stayed in sixth form for a year
im unsure whether i should go to college (unsure what to do) for 2 years or get a job for a year and then do an apprenticeship in something once i have a better idea. the only thing is, where will i find a job? there is hardly any here and my parents do not listen to me and just get angry at me because i'm not doing well at sixth form therefore im going to have to leave
i am feeling very stressed out and bored in my life at the moment with my gf dumping me almost 3 months ago now all these hard choices and pressure with driving and deciding what to do. (link)
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dont tell your parents wat you want to do they dont realy listen you do wat you want and go for it go to college dont worry about your break up your still young go out and have fun
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So I Was In The Store Yesterday And This Boy That Used To Talk To My Cousin Started Hugging And Touching Me. I Pushed Him Away And Asked Did He Still Talk To My Cousiin And He Acted Like He Didnt Know Her. When He Was Leaving He Wanted Me To Text Him And he Asked To Come Over My House. My Question Is Would It Be Right To Start Talking To Him If They Have Stopped Talking (They were friends with benefits) But Would It Still Be Right..?? (link)
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nope not rite not unless u want ur cousin to hate you or unless she doesnt care but i would ask her just bring him up in a conversation and see wat she says about him . if she sounds mad towards him then dnt talk to him
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My boyfriend rubbed his penis on my vagina but did not go inside of me and did not ejaculate. Is it possible that I'm pregnant? I don't know if he precummed. (link)
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nope because the penis has to reach a point in that vagiana or however you spell also um... it has to inserted to work so nope i dont anyone can get pergnant like that:p
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Hey would anybody like a one night stand? (link)
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i agree with this person below me or above.
WHY A STRANGER
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Ok so I really like this guy he's a freshman and I'm a sophomore. We all know summer is coming up and I know I wouldn't see him till the next school year. Which is really hard on me. I'm kinda shy so it's not like I can just go up and ask him it's not that simple. The guy I like is this girls brother which the girl is a junior and she's on my sport team( which I likeher we cool but she can be intimidating and I dont want that side of her) I dint have any classes with him but I go to his class sometimes to talk to people and sometimes him. Please help I'm kinda desperate bc I'm fragile (link)
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just find a time to be alone with him at school and open up to him i know if your shy then try turning all those butterflys in tummy into hyper energy confidence yes i do that:D dont be shy
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how can i drive myself to move on and be motivated to reach my dreams when no matter how good i become i'll just be alone. doesn't matter if i get straight As or fail. i want to help others, because i think i am good, but why should i feel like helping others when they don't even truly care about me? always alone, while everyone else hangs with their friends, sharing fun high school memories. and then when i don't do anything, and don't reach my high expectations, because i don't have the fuel to progress, the guilt wears me away until i dissolve. and then everybody acts like they didn't see it coming. i only find true love, understanding, and acceptance from music, but i can't take a record out for a movie. if friendship is so difficult how could i even find romantic love, when i crave that also. crushing on a guy everyday, but not being able to do anything about it. he wouldn't really want someone like me. i guess if you saw me you wouldn't know what's hidden under my plastic smile, and nice clothes, cause if you did you'd probably just run away to someone else not as f***ed
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oouuu i can help i in high school i look at everyone to see the people who are loners or pick on i helped them alot also i was just like that as well if want me to help let me know :D
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Okay, well me and my best friend told each other that we were bi and then she asked me out I said yes, but I warned her if we did go out it would ruin our friendship. She promised it wouldn't and then there is this girl in our life that we haven't liked since the beginning of the school year her name is Laizza. I told her me and Alyssa were going out and she just wrote me a message on Facebook saying that I ruined her life and that shes sure her life will be better without me in it. And that hurt me sooo bad to the point where I went in my room and cried for 3 hours straight! So uhm... After she told me soo many times she loved me and all this she goes and tells me I ruined her life. And I don't know what to do at all. I just am heartbroken I still love her to the most of my heart but I think she hates me. And uhm... I don't know how I'm supposed to get over it? It seems like I'm going to cry for the rest of my life? I don't know what to do anymore?!!? But I cut myself as soon as I read that! I just loved her soo much and she just left me! (link)
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thats sad im a guy also bi okay she broke up with you because you were talking to that girl? i had a similar problem but i didnt cut myself when nathan broke up with me i didnt know what to do 3 days i went to art class i went in and i saw him in the other side of the room usually we together but what was just sat crying i turned around and gave a bad look my friend jessica told cheer up so i did for a bit when it was break nathan hugged me from and pulled me back in the class and told that he was sorry and i started crying more after that things got better == so try to or pretend to ignore her and cheer up a bit i mean its just person yea she might be perfect but thers always girls just like her
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I am a teen ager, i'm 16 turning 17 this june and my shoulder is small it doesnt broad and my bones are small size like for children,, lastly i think my penis isn't growing,,
im kinda worried, im aging but got this problem .. (link)
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well :p have you puberty because if you havent then panic just a late bloomer
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