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why did he lead me on?
There's this guy, who moved to my school not long ago. We started talking as friends and we exchanged numbers, we still continued to talk as friends until our conversations got abit more flirty, he would call me “princess” he basically made me feel really special. I started to really like him, so I told him. His repsonse was “I'm too busy for this” and when I asked him what it meant he would say “I'm just too busy for all this, I can't be bothered” so I was left confused, he told me to meet him to speak face to face but then said something came up. I left it for about 2 weeks, then I sent him another message, asking him why he had made me feel special and then just dropped me all of a sudden and how much he meant to me. He replied with “I feel the same, we should be together” I replied saying “I really want to, but I'm scared” obviously I was scared in case he led me on again, then he replied saying “that wasn't me that was my mate” I continued to send texts after texts after texts and he wouldn't reply, but he would smile like nothing happened at school when I saw him :( and he still does now. I left him too it, weeks went by and he still always glanced at me from across the room and gave me a smile, some days I would smile back and some days I would be that angry and upset on what he's done to me, I looked away. I sent him another message the other night over the interent because I've just left school and I obviously won't see him as much, I may probably bump in to him around, but I said “I probably won't see you again, or as much anymore so I thought I'd just tell you that I do have feelings for you” he didn't reply, but definitely was online. I don't know what to do, this guy means so much to me and it really hurts. How should I react if I see him again? I've not seen him since that message the other night, what happens if I bump in to him? I can't honestly confront him to his face, I just don't have the courage and it's really really hard. Please help! Thanks.
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thats easy if you really love like crazy then you ignore him if you dont lay off then soon you'll problably be a little obsess with him but ignore him completely soon or later hes going to talk to you but youll problably over him thats pretty much it
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Sweetheart, it's clear he's only playing with your emotions. I would steer clear of him. Delete him off your social networks and everything. You deserve better.
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You're only making it harder for yourself. This guy doesn't want you. He clearly doesn't know what he wants. You just keep going back for more and more. You're making yourself seem very desperate. He ignores you, and you keep sending him message, after message. Trust me, guys don't like a girl who can't take a hint.
If you know that he is leading you on, than leave him alone. Obviously his intentions are completely different from yours.
If you were to bump in to him again, than ignore him. Sure your heart make sink, and you may feel like you have to throw up, but ignore him.
I've learned from past experiences, that the SECOND you stop acting like you want someone, is the SECOND they want YOU. Act like you don't care anymore, and he may come around. I'm not promising anything, because all guys are different.
He just isn't ready for a relationship.
Leave him alone, and find someone worth your precious time.
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