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Best way to get over someone.
I know getting over someone takes lots and lots of time but sometimes in order to move on we need to actually know that there is someone else out there for us. Anyway, I can't help but get angry over my ex's new girl in his life. The reason for our separation is a long confusing one which isn't even worth the discussion because I have faced the fact that it's over. But yeah, I don't think she likes me very much, I don't know why. But it angers me that she doesn't like me for some reason. I just don't want drama with anyone. I, at least, have a right to be angry at her, it's natural jealousy. And yes, I do still have feelings for him, but I can't and shouldn't anymore but I just can't help how I feel. I want to be over it and I want to move past it. I want to be like those other girls who can move on and not think about their past truly. I want to be able to not feel sad or mad whenever I hear about them or even see them, either together or separately. Please tell me something! Anything! Anything that will help me get over him. I'm leaving my hometown, where he stays permanently in a few months and I know I'll be rid of him then, but until I go... I just need something to help me get over the feelings I have inside. I just want to feel happy again and I can't because I keep thinking of how happy he seems to be and how unhappy that it's not with me!
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You're right getting over someone takes time and there's no way of rushing that. The reason the ex girlfriend doesn't like you is probably because you're a threat to her. You had a relationship with her boyfriend and that scares her and makes her jealous. When we get boyfriends we become very territorial. My boyfriend and I have been together for a long time and there are two exes that I'm not crazy about. Now in the beginning of our relationship I use to worry about the two of them trying to contact them. Later on I realized that he was with me for a reason.
The girl is most likely jealous of you and there's really no way you can change that.
What helped me get over my ex was to think about all his bad qualities that things that pissed me off. And now I can't even stand talking to him he kind of annoys me at this point. It takes time...just starting thinking about YOU more than him. Good luck!
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Its never easy getting over an ex. Its hard the best thing is to know that your life is not over. And moving away should be for you to start fresh and new not to run away from your problems because they may follow you. Its over the hardest part is the fact that you have to live with that. Now is not forever . Don't feel like its the end of the world and you can't do better because you can and you will. The sooner you put your heart in to not thinking about him and move on you will feel great. I hope that this has helped you in a way I hope that your new life is everything you want it to be good luck!
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