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I'm cheating for the first time and I don't feel bad about it. I don't feel the need to tell my boyfriend, either. Why?
I cheated on my boyfriend today, i really dont feel bad about it though. i dont know why i dont feel the need to tell him, the only thing i did was make-out cuz and he fingerd me only cuz he didnt have a condom. i sound so stupid i have no clue what is powering me to do this and i feel like i just wanna be bad and its not like this my bf treats me bad he actually is amazing i just feel trapped like i had a 4 year relationship 7 months ago and another one 2months ago. this guy is perfect like too perfect to let go so help me make sense of myself!
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you probably don't feel bad because you feel freedom from what you are doing and you feel like you deserve to experience what you are experiencing especially since you have been in long relationships prior to your cheating. It feels good to have your cake and eat it too and that is exactly what you are doing. it feels amazing to you because you have a great bf who fulfills one side of your needs and you also have the guy who full fills your desire to cut loose and be wild by cheating with him. but sooner or later someone's feelings are going to get hurt bad so if you want to be a person who is worthy of respect you need to choose to either have a bf or just hang loose and find guys to party and have sex with. but beware just partying and having sex with guys could give you a bad reputation and leave your future cold and empty. Email me at ericsmith689@yahoo.com and let me know what you think of my answer. thanks
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You don't feel bad about it? Then have you thought about leaving your boyfriend and letting him be with somebody that actually does CARE about him because it doesn't sound like you do. If you don't care enough to feel guilty, to feel remorse, to feel regret, then you're wasting his time. And you saying he only fingered me because he didn't have a condom is just stupid....you have a boyfriend after all. Rate me low, whatever, you're just a horrible person!
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Think about how you would feel if your boyfriend did that to you. Think about how crappy and hurt you would feel that the person you are with is hooking up with someone else. It sounds like you really don't have the feelings for your boyfriend like you say you do. You need to tell him what happened and maybe considering moving on. Being in a relationship is between two people. It's meant to be faithful and you have to have trust.
I'm telling you right now if my boyfriend ever did that to me it would break my heart. Mind you I don't even have my eyes on any other guy but him. Of course I thought some guys were cute but I knew nothing would come of it because I love my boyfriend. My boyfriend knows me like no one else does. It sounds to me like you don't really want to be in this relationship that you would rather be single. If that's the case you need to be honest with yourself and with him and tell him what happened. Good luck!
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