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We broke up... but I am not sure we should have
Me and my 'ex boyfriend' broke up a few days ago. We're both fine with it but I still love him. Over the summer he's moving to Georgia and I wont see him so is it better that we broke up now? Or should we have waited? And he's mad at me cause my friends are always around..what do I do? Tell them we he's around not to come by me? I'm just so confused...
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I think that it's a good idea that the two of you broke up, Zane's right long-distance relationships are hard and very rarely work out.
The best thing that the two of you can do is to stop contacting each other. You mention how he has a problem that your friends are always around you, so I assume that you are still talking to him. I know that it's hard right now but the two of you are not together anymore, and depending on how long the two of you were together for you still have feelings for each other.
I also find it easier when I meet someone that you are interested in, to get over the person. I am not telling you to randomly fall into a relationship but start talking to other guys, and keep your options until you meet someone that you feel is special enough to get into a relationship with.
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Assuming by Georgia you mean another state? Long distant relationships are nearly impossible to maintain. There is a old saying 'do what you must but don't prolong the pain'
If he is moving away then it was probably best to call it off now then wait to the last minute to part ways. I am sure you know that too. I was in a long distance for a few years and the stress was unbelievable at times. Gas, Bus, Train can all be costly after awhile and trying to keep a strong bond between one another while your apart is mostly based on trust. That trust sometimes fades away and we get tierd of holding on and before you know it a long distant relationships turns into nothing but a fantasy. This guy is mad because your friends are around? You both are no longer together and he does not have a right. It is controlling to tell someone who they can and cant have around. A quick answer? Yes I would say it was for the best. If he is surely moving it wouldnt matter much whether you waited or not the difference if you did? You would of made the moving on process much harder then it has to be.
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