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I feel very attached to, and envious of a new friend


Posted Sunday May 10 2015, 9:17 pm

Is it normal, when you are making a new same sex friend, particularly someone you look up to, to always have them on your mind and feel sad when you have to leave them? I don't mean in a romantic or sexual way; no physical attraction, just emotional. I'm not writing this because I'm worried that I'm gay or anything. I just worry that I'm overly vulnerable and get too emotionally attached to people I'm in the beginning stages of a close friendship with. The thing is, I'm pretty reserved and hold back in showing someone how much I like them because I'm worried about becoming clingy or whatever. This happened to me once or twice before and every time, it's a girl friend who's older or more experienced in life and I find myself wanting to be h...

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Does long distance relationship last?


Posted Sunday May 10 2015, 9:15 pm

Details:
We've been friends for two months before we got together
When we got together, we were separated after two weeks
We are now 5000 miles apart
We always talk and text
We get to see each other only once a year
We love each other so much

Do you think it'll last?

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Daddy issues.


Posted Sunday May 10 2015, 12:42 pm

I need whoever is reading this to keep an opened mind about how im feeling and why im feeling this way. Ive had daddy issues growing up, my dad is emotionally shut and doesnt really talk to me, infact he doesnt really talk to anyone in the house. He doesnt even know how to give us a proper hug without it being awkward, he doesnt ever tell me he loves me or that he wants the best for me. Never taught me how to drive, never helped me much in life. Never pays for anything, I work and am completely dependent on myself. I realized this starting to become an issue when I started getting into relationships, at first I didnt want it to affect my life in such a terrible way. I thought to myself that its okay that I dont have a good relationship wit...

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Why do people do PDA?


Posted Sunday May 10 2015, 12:32 pm

It's gross, especially when it's overt and/or persistant. I thought a relationship was meant to be between 2 people? Why do some couples try to get other people's attention? I noticed yesterday at the mall. There was this interracial couple all over each other, as we stood in line at this food place, and i'd focus on other things but they'd sometimes look back with this look on their face line they want their relationship to interest people, incite anger or jealousy, etc. it was awkward for me, directly behind them, and others in line. I have no problem with any couple, interracial, gay, lesbian, transgender, one young and one old, etc. I'm happy others can find love and be in relationships. I'm not jealous either, it's just uncomfortable ...

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why dont i have nippels


Posted Sunday May 10 2015, 12:15 am

why dont i have nippels


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My husband and porn.


Posted Saturday May 9 2015, 10:37 pm

I have never had a problem with my husband watching porn. We have watched it together multiple times. Recently though, we were having sex and he was haveing trouble staying hard. He blamed it on being to hot, but that has never been a problem before. Afterwards he went to take a shower, with his phone, "for music" , but when he came out and I hit the home button twice, there was porn up. I feel helpless, betrayed, and jealous. Oh and to beat it all it was porn about step sisters and brothers, and he has a step sister, who I believe is more attractive than me, and we were seperated for about two months a while back and he lived with his step siblings. They were "rumors" of the two sleeping together, which they both denied...

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My BF's best friend hit on me while we were drunk


Posted Saturday May 9 2015, 6:28 pm

I'm 21/F, my boyfriend is 22 and his friend is 21.

Ok, Story time.

So last night I hung out with my boyfriend of 6 years and his best friend. We played some video games and then started drinking...a lot. At some point during the night, my boyfriend passed out in his bed so his friend and I went back to playing video games for a while. I felt like passing out too but he kept talking to me and shaking me so that I would stay awake. So yeah, at this point we were both really drunk and I was laying on the couch so he sat next to me and told me I could put my legs in his lap and I did (huge mistake, I realize that now). So we kept playing and drinking and I noticed that every time I put my legs on the ground or move...

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how can i be happy?


Posted Saturday May 9 2015, 4:59 pm

please don't tell me to see a counselor, because ive got two right now who are not helping at all, and ive seen so many damn counselors. counselors are absolutely useless. and im seeing a psychiatrist who prescribes me medication. and all the medication he has prescribed me has never worked.

nothings going right:

my parents and I are always getting into fights over nothing.
I want to kill myself.
my boyfriend is not helping my happiness, but it literally kills me to have the thought of him being with another girl because I love him with all my heart, but everyone around me says hes part of the reason for my depression.
I want to overdose on medication.
spirituality has always interes...

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Indy Pop Con


Posted Saturday May 9 2015, 3:51 pm

I just learned that Markiplier and Jacksepticeye ( my idols) are going to Indy PopCon. I really want to meet them and Indy is about and hour away from me, but is it really a place for kids? I am female and 13 years old. I really want to go but can I? Will I look weird, do I have to wear a costume? So many questions! Please help!

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a Lizard is scaring me. How to get rid of lizard


Posted Saturday May 9 2015, 1:05 pm

a Lizard is scaring me. How to get rid of lizard? This baby lizard comes out during midnight when I'm on my chair in front of my desktop. I see it like every night. It's still a baby lizard. I'm really afraid if lizards. I have lizard phobia. I can't get rid of it coz when I throw something on it it'll just crawl to another place. Please help me. I've been depressed every night for several weeks after this lizard. I'm afraid It'll get into my face. I don't know if it can crawl to bed. It causes me paranoia because everytime I wake up during sleep I would think of the lizard that it would come to me. I even had several tactile hallucinations about lizard after it had once accidentally crawl to my foot. I don't know how to get rid of it. I tr...

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end of school talent show is coming what do I do


Posted Saturday May 9 2015, 9:32 am

Well the end of the school year talent show is my friends and I don't know what to do we are girls

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Crushes


Posted Saturday May 9 2015, 4:29 am

20/f

So I'm starting to develop a crush on one of my co workers.

I'm not sure how to go about it. We talk on facebook almost every day, he usually initiates it which I think is a good sign.

I don't hang out with him outside of work. I did invite him to my party tomorrow and he said he'll probably be able to come.

We're pretty cool, we talk normal, tease each other at work and online.

My friends/coworkers all say he likes me. I haven't said anything about me liking him. They said because he messages me often and he doesn't message them.

He hasn't given any hints if he likes me or not. Usually a guy will start calling me pretty and talk about hanging out...

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be a good christian


Posted Saturday May 9 2015, 2:43 am

hi hope you can help me i'm a 15 year old male i'm a devout christian i love god with all my heart and i wanna be a better christian and devote my life to god i want to help people to get closer to god i wantto start to spread god's word i'm a bit nervous not sure where to start but i want to start talkinhg to people about god maybe start with people that i know not sure how do i go about it?

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Internship Interview - Forgot to Mention a Project


Posted Saturday May 9 2015, 1:27 am

I recently had an interview that I thought went really well, at a smaller division of a company that is very successful. This is a position that I really want.

One of the questions that I was asked involved any projects that I may have worked on. I mentioned two of them, but forgot to mention another one that I think could be really helpful with me getting the job.

They already seem mostly impressed with me, but I am nervous because I am about to graduate college in another year and I have never interned before. It seems like, even if I think the interview goes well, I never get the job. So, who I am to say that they're going to offer the position to me?

All of these people seem very friendly, l...

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How could he do this to me..


Posted Saturday May 9 2015, 12:34 am

My best friend of 11 years decided to start dating each other 2 years ago. I love him so much it hurts. Well he's left me two other times to start dating someone else and then comes back. I think he's doing it again.. I can feel the distance and he's finding ways to blame everything on me and get mad at me for everything I do or don't do. This is exactly how he started acting last time he left me, he makes me feel like it's my fault and idk why.. Why can't he just be man enough and say that he found someone else? We've been best friends since we were kids.. don't I deserve that much? I don't get why guys do this.. I know it's not just him my past boyfriend did the exact same thing to me.. He doesn't break up with me he keeps it open but jus...

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how to die


Posted Friday May 8 2015, 11:00 pm

I'm tired of loving. Simple as that. I wish I was dead.. All I ever do is cause problems... I just want my life to be over. I don't want to take my own life though. I wish for someone to do it for me... Can someone help me? Please... Living is pointless for me. I can't escape the pain.... And now.... I'm completely... Irrevocably numb.

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UK Equivalent of Ranch Dressing


Posted Friday May 8 2015, 7:03 pm

Hi!

What is ranch dressing called in the UK? I have looked in stores, and for the life of me, I can't figure it out.

Can you help me find it, or something like it?

Thanks~!

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I got disvirgin


Posted Friday May 8 2015, 2:47 pm

Am from nigeria, Am a virgin I got disvirgin last two weeks and I had sex today buh I felt pain and saw blood pls am confused am I still a virgin or what

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University Plans


Posted Friday May 8 2015, 2:01 pm

I'm from Malaysia, Junior university student and I wanted to go to Italy to study medicine. However, I don't know what to start and how. I have some plans as well. First, i need to take IMAT but I don't really know what to do when I get there i Italy and how to start a life there. Please help me. I don't really know what to start to plan. I'm graduating next year. My family lives so far from me and my friends don't know as well about on helping me on how to start planning. I've asked some of my teachers and they just keep on saying that I must contact the school. And what about after it? so sorry for my unclear statement but I'm just really confused and I felt like panicking already. Please let me know about the steps in planning on how to ...

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Serotonin reuptake inhibitor causes suicide attempts


Posted Friday May 8 2015, 1:52 pm

Why does the Selective Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitor SSRIs which is an antidepressant could possibly cause suicide? I've been diagnosed with depression and I've been taking seropram(SSRIs) for the past 6 months. I haven't asked my doctor about it yet I've read a black warning that it says the possible suicide attempt. I'm 17 and I don't know why it does cause suicide attempts when it is an antidepressant. I'm afraid I might think of it. I'm confused. Please do help me and let me understand. thank you.

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