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Dating a guy I'm not super attracted to? bad idea?
Posted Thursday July 5 2012, 7:21 pm
So I recently started dating this guy. He is the sweetest guy I have ever met and is a true gentlemen. And I know that in a relationship he would be everything a good boyfriend should be. The only problem is i don't find him very attractive. Don't get me wrong when i first met him at a party i was defiantly interested in him. He is just a bit heavy set and not my type at all. I don't want to be shallow and i feel like i should give him a chance. But would it be wrong for me to lead him on if I'm not even sexually attracted to him at all?
thanks to anyone who takes a minute to read this and give me some advice :)
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regarding what to talk with my boyfriend on phone
Posted Thursday July 5 2012, 3:08 pm
hi.... i am a 24 yr old girl. I've been dating this guy for three years now. we don't live in the same country i think our relationship is getting worse as he thinks that i don't talk much... see.. there's nothing much happening in my life and i don't have much to speak about.. he understands this and tries to adjust but sometimes get irritated... please suggest me how can i improve my conversation on phone and keep him happy.. he gets depressed by my behavior.. i don't do it on purpose... i don't know what to do..
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What to do about it ? its freaking me out :-( my sex urges
Posted Thursday July 5 2012, 1:35 pm
HI,uhmmm I am a 20 yr old guy and this is most important year of my life, I am an udergradute and preparing for entrance for masters in physics,the problem is I am noe able to study because my gf is always on my mind,she is studying in my college only,here holidays going on we cann't meet as parents doesn't let her go outside much. She can'nt attend my call as anyone and everyone is arround her everytime, her two brothers(twins) born last year so there is a lot of work to do for. Many times she caught talking to me and i really don't want to loose whatever i am getting,not her sweet voice not her soothing words,that why i doesn't call her much neither she pick it up as it would result in that her parents take her cell away from her.
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personal q. GIRLS ONLY PLEASE
Posted Thursday July 5 2012, 1:25 am
13/f
ok so i was taking a shower and i noticed that there were small spidery red veins on my boobs.
i know veins are normal,but these were small and red and i never saw them before so am concerned.
what should i do?
any advise will be very thankful!!
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Heart Broken And Ready To Die
Posted Wednesday July 4 2012, 4:03 pm
Why is it so hard too kill yourself?.... I've tried it soo much . I can never do it! Ive puttin soo much knives to my throat i even asked people if they would do me the favor. I offered a couple grand. Just im sooo depressed ! The love of my life is in mexico visiting family! Im just soo sad cause out of no were she calls me and i barely wake up and she says i cant deal with your bullshit anymore, soo i say what ?? Whos this ? She says yesenia and i was like wasup babe?? She says she doesnt wana talk toe anymore. She clicks and i call her aunt and says she doesnt want to talk to me ever again! Soo i gave her time to think a couple of days and i call her again and she dont answer her aunt says shes busy or do something! You know what i thin...
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Things moving too fast
Posted Wednesday July 4 2012, 1:32 pm
Hey there, I posted here a few weeks ago about my boyfriend and I. He's 20 and I am 19.
Well the other day we both had the day off and on that specific day he picks up his little girl from daycare, I had yet to meet her because he wants to make sure he doesn't bring just anyone around her. He said he wants to make sure I'm not gonna go anywhere first. Well, the day before hand he suddenly asks if I wanted to meet his parents and sister, I said sure and we had dinner with his family, I was really nervous and shy the whole time I was there. Well the next day without even asking me, we're driving in his car, and he just stops in front of this building and he gets out of his car and a few minutes later he is at the car again holding his ...
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What should I do about a 19yo dating a 15yo just to get back at me?
Posted Wednesday July 4 2012, 12:11 pm
My neighbor is dating my ex-boyfriend.I dated this guy for a really long time. He even stalked me for awhile, and hes only dating her too upset me. I don't care what he does anymore, Ive moved on, but it kills me to see her get used. Ive told her everything but shes 15 and wont listen. My ex however, is 19. I'm not comfortable seeing the two of them together.
My question is, how can her to realize he's only using her?
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Dating a very busy girl and other reasons I can't sleep at night
Posted Tuesday July 3 2012, 11:39 pm
I would like to start by thanking anyone who takes the time to read this multi-part question. It is as much the result of a need to vent as it is a sincere request for a second opinion in a time in which the rational part of my brain seems to have abandoned me.
I am a 23 year old (male) that moved half way around the world about five months ago on a whim. I have had dates since I got here, but nothing was all that impressive until a few weeks ago. There is a tiny shop tucked away in a mall that I frequent. Around the second or third time I passed through the shop, a girl that works there casually started talking to me. I had to leave, but she asked for me to come back and talk to her some other time. A week later I returned a...
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Struggling with the truth and not being good enough.
Posted Tuesday July 3 2012, 8:42 pm
My boyfriend who lives far away (5 states) was talking to me by IM and he said he was really angry. When I asked him why he said that he asked one of his friends a question and she said that she would give him an answer but before she did she wanted to know why he was asking. He proceeded to swear and call her names (to me) and said he blocked her on facebook. He asked me what I thought and I didn't know what to tell him, he said she was lucky he didn't go and kick her a**. I was sad because i thought he was overreacting but I didn't want to tell him that... I'm afraid of hurting his feelings and him getting mad at me. What do I do? Also, he is kind of a secret, my mother is really strict and If i don't do something good enough she yells at...
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Boyfriend
Posted Tuesday July 3 2012, 4:43 pm
I recently started dating a guy. I have known him since I was little but we starting becoming friend about a year ago. We texted everyday talked every night he called me beautiful and things like that. I found out he liked me asked him about it and we ended up dating but now I feel different. I feel like he'd more of a friend then a boyfriend. I've never been physically attracted to him but he had a great personality. I feel like if were going to kiss I won't want to do it. Can you have a relationship without physical attraction? Also Im not very good at complimenting people. I can be mean but I just joke around. I feel like as his girlfriend I should be all "aw you're so sweet. I love you" blah blah but I cant. With all my past b...
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i want to know wheather i am right or wrong
Posted Tuesday July 3 2012, 2:46 pm
i am a female and 24 yrs old. i am in a relationship with a boy from last one and a half yr. he was my classmate and we were very good friends for two yrs.the problem is that guy i love was into a relationship before we met...and that relationship was going well. i was secretly in luv with him during our studies bt never let him know about it...but later on aftr one and a half year he jst realised it that i loved him. i don't know how bt he also started liking me. we knew dat we like each other but didn't talked much about it because he was already committed to someone else. when he got job after studies and we departed.. he called me on phone and cried that he loves me alot and cannot live without me...i also luved him but told him that he...
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Should I just end this now before I get hurt?
Posted Tuesday July 3 2012, 1:55 pm
This guy I've been talking to recently is absolutely amazing! We have this great connection and it feels so right when I'm with him. We love spending time together and have so much fun when we're with each other. He got out of a 2 year long relationship about 2 months ago, which is not long at all, and I feel he is not over his ex at all and just trying to jump into this very fast. I'm all for starting something up with him and seeing where it goes, but I don't just want to be the rebound girl. I'm not trying to push anything on him or make him commit to me in any way, I just want to see where this can go because we have such an amazing connection but I want to be sure I'm not being made a fool of. Unfortunately, I live 2 hours away from hi...
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Confused if I still have feelings for someone
Posted Tuesday July 3 2012, 12:40 pm
13/f how do you know if you still have feelings for Someone? Cause I used to like this guy then he crushed my heart and I'm having dreams now.
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not wanting a relationship
Posted Monday July 2 2012, 8:34 pm
is it normal to be totally in smitten with your best friend but not want to be with him? I don't really believe in monogamy or traditional relationships. I have no desire to pursue that kind of thing, and sometimes I wonder if that means there's something really wrong with me. I don't know if I ever picture myself being someone's 'girlfriend' again.. the future could hold anything but my feelings would have to change greatly and it's definately not something that I can foresee right now. so I just have this great person, who everytime he visits (we grew up in the same town but he lives elsewhere now) we stay up all night talking and drinking and.. well, having sex of course, but that's not the point. long before we started having sex he wou...
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Complicated love; boyfriend in military
Posted Monday July 2 2012, 7:55 pm
My boyfriend just left to basic camp training and he has been away for about 4 weeks now. The problem is that he broke up with me before he left because he thought that it would be better for our relationship. I really do not agree. He wants to keep our communication going even though we are not really "together" and it is making me emotionally unstable. How can I deal with this situation when I love this person so much that I don't want to lose him? He will be gone for a 1 year and about 7 months after Basic Camp Training but he still wants me to visit him and still talk as if nothing has happened. What should I do? I need help!
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Mad at a guy and helped another guy cheat :(
Posted Monday July 2 2012, 6:28 pm
So I'm 17/F and the other night I was at a party on a college campus and it ended up ending a lot sooner than I thought. I was supposed to be spending the night with one of my friends but she went off with her boyfriend because they were in a big fight and basically ditched me... This guy that I kind of have been having a thing with that was there (we'll call him Matt: 19) was like "hey we can just chill in my car and figure it out" cause we were both too drunk to drive. So we're walking to his car and this dude starts yelling stuff at me and I don't really remember what he said lol but I think it was pretty sexual/rude cause it pissed Matt off and Matt was trying to start something with him cause he gets like that when he's drunk...
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How should I handle this?
Posted Monday July 2 2012, 12:30 pm
So I've been talking to this guy for a while and we've been getting a lot closer lately. We both feel like amazing connection with each other, or at least he says he does, but we just feel right together. We skyped a few days ago and and were going to again today. I texted him at around 3 and he didn't text me back till 8 asking me if we could skype. I texted back and said yeah let's do it, he told me he was going to call in a little bit but never did... I kinda of just shrugged it off but still wondered why he blew me off. I didn't say anything to him about it though because I did not want to feel clingy or anything like that. A few hours later he called me while I was out and I didn't answer. He texted me after with a sad face and I didn'...
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Is this real or is a summer fling???
Posted Monday July 2 2012, 1:26 am
Hi Im new here but I really like this guy and he's now saying he likes me but before school ended he said he didn't like me that way and we're really close friends and I dnt wanna risk that. I asked if he still liked his ex and he said he's and that he missed her. And now for me he's saying he misses me and he didn't realize how much he likes me Soo help Please
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How do i tell my mom i want to date someone?
Posted Monday July 2 2012, 12:36 am
ok i'm 17 and i always told my parents i didn't want to date and they always told me to tell them when i wanted to start to date, so you know they can meet him an all. the problem is that i want to tell my mom because my parents are divorced and i trust my mom more but when i tried to tell my mom that this guy liked me and that i liked him too her reaction was happy only cause i told her i didn't want to date. so i had to lie because i was afraid pulse my mom has been feeling stressed with work and all the issues we have that i feel i shouldn't say anything but i feel bad for the guy i like hes very nice and is willing to meet my mom.its not his fault i'm too afraid to say anything! someone give me advice i dont know what to do....thanks
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My dad cheated on my mom, and now I have trouble trusting men! How do I get past this?
Posted Sunday July 1 2012, 6:21 pm
Hi everyone!
I'm with this man now, we were on and off for about a year, but for the past month and a half we decided we cared for each other too much and really got serious. And I can honestly say I love him, which I've never felt before, he's my second serious bf but the first who ever took me out and introduced me to his friends. To me he's perfect! (though 5 years older than me, which occasionally causes trouble but we usually forget about it)
Anyway, my problem arises more so with my father, my parents never were very faithful to one another but I believe they loved each other, about 2 years ago my father cheated once again and my mother had had enough of his betrayals so wanted a divorce... This was a messy, angr...
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