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Dating a guy I'm not super attracted to? bad idea?
So I recently started dating this guy. He is the sweetest guy I have ever met and is a true gentlemen. And I know that in a relationship he would be everything a good boyfriend should be. The only problem is i don't find him very attractive. Don't get me wrong when i first met him at a party i was defiantly interested in him. He is just a bit heavy set and not my type at all. I don't want to be shallow and i feel like i should give him a chance. But would it be wrong for me to lead him on if I'm not even sexually attracted to him at all?
thanks to anyone who takes a minute to read this and give me some advice :)
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
What've you got to lose? And who knows? Maybe you'll slowly realize how lovely he is on the outside as he is on the inside, but if it really bothers you that much, enough so that you just feel uncomfortable or not willing to put too much effort in, maybe it's best you guys don't date.
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I was reading an article in the July issue of cosmopolitan magazine, saying that it's okay to have a guy like you a little more than you like him. you're less likely to get hurt by him. It's an interesting read! You should check it out if you can :)
But if your second guessing being with him, then maybe he's not the one. You don't want to be stuck in a relationship and get nothing out of it. Be honest with yourself :)
Xoxo
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