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Struggling with the truth and not being good enough.
My boyfriend who lives far away (5 states) was talking to me by IM and he said he was really angry. When I asked him why he said that he asked one of his friends a question and she said that she would give him an answer but before she did she wanted to know why he was asking. He proceeded to swear and call her names (to me) and said he blocked her on facebook. He asked me what I thought and I didn't know what to tell him, he said she was lucky he didn't go and kick her a**. I was sad because i thought he was overreacting but I didn't want to tell him that... I'm afraid of hurting his feelings and him getting mad at me. What do I do? Also, he is kind of a secret, my mother is really strict and If i don't do something good enough she yells at me. She is always comparing me to my 22 year old sister who got straight A's in school and college. She says if she had it her way she wouldn't let me date until 50 years old. What do i do to gain her approval?
Thank you! I'm sorry for the long length of this question!
P.S I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 15 (16 in October)
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first off its hard to understand your first part of the question like what did your boyfriend ask the female..and if he didnt like her answer why ask ha in the first place you know.. as far as your mother situation i believe if you show your mom that you is mature enough to have a boyfrind she wouldnt mind but the comparing that she does with you and your sister isnt right you cant acheive the same things that your sister is yall are two completly different persons your mom need to understand that plus your only 14 your still young you have time to approv, in whatever you want dont let nobody tell you different .
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I'm going to be blunt
You are young, At 14 years old you aren't going to be marrying the boy you meet over the internet. Not only are long distant relationships hard to keep in general but even adults who have been together for years have trouble managing long distance. It's just how it is
Frankly, I don't really know how to give you advice on this one but too tell you the truth, It sounds like a bunch of drama. I would suggest just meeting someone in person and not over the internet that lives 5 states over. Fact is, It's not the relationship for you.
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