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invited to party but dont wanna cause a scene.
Posted Friday July 13 2012, 5:30 am
Okay. Well i really dont know where to begin but im gonna try my hardest to not make this long.
For the past 3 years, i have been head-over-heels for this guy. Long story short. Im practically in love with my step-brother. please dont judge me i have only known him for 4 years. Anyways, last year i was told by his mom, my stepmother, that he had a gf. O.o what? I tried to play it off because 1)they, she & my dad, didnt know how i felt, & 2)we were in a restaurant. So when she told me this my eyes started swelling up with tears & i ended up running to the bathroom. Okay i get it. You know at that time we havent seen each other for a year & now 2. I eventually ended up telling them & they were okay with it. Recently...
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my bf doesnt like to talk bout our future anymore
Posted Friday July 13 2012, 3:12 am
HI pls help meh out .. i have a bf n we have been dating for bout 9 months ..at the beginning he used to talk bout all .. how we should have kids n we should marry ... n then .. after we had sex .. not saying only after sex .. but for a month .. its been weird ... everytime i talk bout that he is like .. we ll c .. dont know ... dont think too much .. n then i was like so ur not planning to marry meh n he said i ll be bored to death if we talk bout this .. so i cant talk bout anything i like ... since we r going to uni in bout a month in completely different country .. do u think i should break up with him or should i try to continue it with him? i cry sometimes .. cause wat he says just hurts meh sometimes .. n i m a vry emotional girl .....
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Relationship comitment/trust issues
Posted Thursday July 12 2012, 7:46 pm
I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months...One month of which was when he broke up with me in late March and we got back together in late April.
When I first met him, he said something along the lines of "Girls are LUCKY if they ever meet my friends and family." I didn't give much thought to it, because I thought, well, maybe he's just saying that.
When we broke up in March, he dumped me saying I had too many demands and he couldn't provide the love that I needed. When we got back together in late April, it turned out that he said he did a lot of thinking and couldn't let me go because he "saw me in his future." Still in love with him, I got back together with him.
Well, one day, I was cleaning ...
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does he like me or what?
Posted Thursday July 12 2012, 7:11 pm
19/f
he is 22.
I've liked him since last august. i see him maybe every other month. but in the summer it's more like every few weeks. everytime i'm with him he gives me so much attention, hugs me first, walks me out, etc. he loves Jesus and i love that about him. he likes my statuses and pictures all the time.
but we don't text for fun or anything, maybe a little if he has a question. what does this mean?! does he even like me? why does this happen?!
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i think i liked him... now he is with someone else and I am crushed
Posted Thursday July 12 2012, 7:00 pm
this guy, everyone said he liked me and we would be cute together. I think it was messing with my head because i started to form feelings for him. i quickly brushed them away because i didn't really think i was attracted to him that much. it's been a few months and now my best friend and roommate likes him and he likes her. i feel crushed. but no one knew that i actually had feelings for him in the end. how can i cope with this?!
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me talking about his ex would split us up, my boyfriend says?
Posted Thursday July 12 2012, 2:25 pm
hi, we have been dating for almost 3 years now and we live together. we love each other and we're saving up but he's a single father and his ex seems to be very manipulative because they have a kid together therefore he lives quite close to his kid. sometimes she asks for a money quite early before his actual pay day and we always have to take money out from our savings for his ex which i don't like coz it has happened couple of times. it's always something. i told him next time she has to wait until he gets paid, that's where he said if i keep talking like that about his ex then that would split us up, now guys, what does he actually mean? does he still loves his ex or what is it? does he still care about her? i'm a possessive person but i...
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I cheated 2 years ago. should i tell him?
Posted Thursday July 12 2012, 1:40 pm
it all started having sex on day two after we met. it was all fine until i cheated for a whole month with my best friend. i got pregnant by my boyfriend but i had been stopped seeing my best friend. My boyfriend and i have a daughter, he doesn't know about me and my best friend having sex after me and him got together. I think he cheated also because he is super jealous, cant even go outside with my daughter without him doubting. Should i tell him? (about me and my best friend) hoping that he tells me why hes so jealous? (maybe he cheated too)!. i want to get over this because now theres screaming and hitting going on in the house. when we wake and and we go to sleep its juszt argue and argue
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:'( this is breaking me apart
Posted Thursday July 12 2012, 6:35 am
well im a female, 18.
me and my boyfriend broke up around 3/4 days ago, well he ended it :'( he ended it cause he says he don t trust me any longer..
we were dating for like 1 year :(
the reason he ended it with me is because i forgot to mention one detail that happened to me when i was 14 ... he says he cant trust me anymore that im a liar.
well my point is , when a guy shows he doesnt care anymore , is that when he still cares the most?
+ im his first love, like inside me i know he cant forget me , and i honestly dont want to move on , when my heart feels something like this for him..
we all make mistakes and choices.
ah this is so harddd:'(
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Love: Is it possible to end up with someone if it started out with sex?
Posted Thursday July 12 2012, 2:38 am
Is it possible to end up with someone if it started out with sex?
I know it's always better and relationships work out better when you take it slow. But what if it was the total opposite? Do you think it could still work?
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i get nervous around him
Posted Wednesday July 11 2012, 7:58 pm
ok, i like this boy but i get way to nervous around him. i start sweating, stuttering, and i cant stop staring at him. i really dont know what to do and i cant avoid him because he comes over my house sometimes. someone please help me?
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I lost my lover because of my family dignity, now iam boozing a lot
Posted Wednesday July 11 2012, 7:47 pm
My parents are worried about me but i don't care bcoz i suffered a lot when i conveyed my love life with my lover to them. they dont even cared to listen to me.
Iam having 10-12 large of whisky daily to get sleep
I had tried even with call girls to get satisfied but it doesn't work. to forget my love life.
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Do you think he's WAY TOO old for me??
Posted Wednesday July 11 2012, 1:39 pm
So, 13/f and I met this dude. 16/m and I haven't really met him offiicially or seen the guy. I just try to imagine him. Lets just say his name is Mike. When I think about his REAL name the thing that comes to mind is blonde hair blue eyes and let the rest fall in place. Well, we talked over the power of the internet and he sounds really nice and harmless. I don't know who he really is or what he looks like we met by chance on this really cool website and happened to hit him up about it. I think I like him, he sounds pretty harmless to me, but that's just the internet, he might be some homeboy trying to get a life. Who knows he might even a 50 perverted year old dude who is lonely and stupid. So, how do I get to bring up the subject of what ...
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Should i get married?
Posted Wednesday July 11 2012, 12:35 pm
I'm a single dad with custody of two kids 8 and 9. I met a woman over the internet, let's call her Carol, and I love her very much. She has everything that I want in a woman except she has little money, and a tiny bit overweight (I can handle with the weight issue). We both want to marry. Carol is divorced, she has two daughters 14 and 5. She lives in the Caribbean and we talk almost every day on skype.
I told her many times that I cannot afford a family of six on my salary. She tells me that if we love each other it doesn't matter b/c we can solve any problem. She's willing to look for a job to make it work.
Carol is not a skilled worker, she didn't finish college, and I can't imagine how she can contribute a...
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Cheating: I cheated on my boyfriend but it means nothing... it was just something to do
Posted Wednesday July 11 2012, 11:27 am
I have been going out with my boyfriend since 4 . 20 . 2012 Our relationship hasnt been all that perfect the two things is were in a LDR & He's type boring . Plus , I dont even love him I just have a feeleing when I see this month for the first time all the feelings I dont have for him will bloom. My ex came over and spent the night because hes my brother friend and we end up making out . But no feelings are there for him at all . It was just something to do . He has an girlfriend and I have a boyfriend .
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:( need someone to understand..
Posted Wednesday July 11 2012, 9:10 am
Hello im 18, female. well me and my ex boyfriend dated for around 1 year, and we had a break like 2 weeks ago, then we got back. but he finished it with me :(
Basically i always tell my boyfriend everything, and on saturday night he found out something about me from when i was 14, (sexual) and well i didnt tell him, he got really put off and told me that im a liar, he said that he dont trust me.
Yet i tried to explain myself and nothing, he said that it 'grim' being with a liar :( how without any trust we wont work. But honestly theres just certain things i cant always tell people.
I love him, im his first love our break up has been so hard when he said 'were finished' :'( i dont know whether he regrets it or not. Bu...
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Why do they expect you to give up so easily just because they did?
Posted Wednesday July 11 2012, 6:38 am
Why when you love someone so much and you and this person have been through just about everything together do they just expect for you to just give up so easy bc they did? How do you give up on the one person you love most?
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Dating a Military Guy?
Posted Wednesday July 11 2012, 2:55 am
So I met this guy in the Canadian Forces. We met randomely, but our personalities clicked instantly. The first night he initiated sex. Then, we spent every night together that week getting to know eachother. He would kiss me, we'd hold hands, he would flirt (still flirts) with me and we'd cuddle - he is so sweet. This is now a week since he's been gone to his next destination and knowing he was in the forces for 3 years straight, there were some personal questions I had wanted to ask, such as: if he had ever been in a serious relationship over that 3 year time period and if so, how did it turn out :s it never seemed like the right time to bring the topic up...
I know this is his full time job, so it'd be a full t...
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Is it possible to make yourself jealous?
Posted Tuesday July 10 2012, 4:57 pm
Hi, I'm 14/f
I've had a huge, and I mean HUGE crush on this older guy for years now. We're talking I forget my own name around him! Now he has a girlfriend and he really likes her. They're long distance, so he calls her every night & he always has this huge cheesy smile every time he's on the phone with her. I am, surprisingly, not jealous of her at all. It's normal to be at least a little jealous when I think about something like that, right? But all I can think of when I think about him with her is happiness for him & I'm glad that he's happy with her. That's all I seem to care about. I don't like being so calm about all of it. I don't want to cause problems either, but it drives me insane that I'm not at least a little jea...
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He Broke up with me for his ex. Now he doesn't want his ex.
Posted Tuesday July 10 2012, 8:14 am
He broke up with me for his ex girlfriend and then yesterday he told me he left his ex girlfriend because she is too up tight for him. He wants to be friends now. But I still like him... A lot! I don't know if I should be friends with him because he doesn't feel the same way. What do I do? Be friends with him or don't? P.s we were friends before we started dating and personally I thought we got along better when we were dating.
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I don't know what to do.
Posted Tuesday July 10 2012, 1:16 am
Okay, I'm 13/f and I have a Best Friend, 12/M and he's my only Best Friend. I know some of you guys might expect I need a girl friend, but I don't. I really don't like having girl friends because it causes drama, and fights and I can't stress myself over that. Anyways, I kind of have this thing where every girl says, "OMG, you're so popular, pretty, you have it all, every guy likes you, and you're so perfect." I know I'm not those things. I don't like hearing those. I mean, sure guys like me even older ones and they all hit on me. I don't appreciate it when they do that especially if they have a girlfriend of their own!! I mean it's very flattering they like me, but I don't know what is it I'm doing to make them hit on me. So, I t...
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