i think i liked him... now he is with someone else and I am crushed
Question Posted Thursday July 12 2012, 7:00 pm
this guy, everyone said he liked me and we would be cute together. I think it was messing with my head because i started to form feelings for him. i quickly brushed them away because i didn't really think i was attracted to him that much. it's been a few months and now my best friend and roommate likes him and he likes her. i feel crushed. but no one knew that i actually had feelings for him in the end. how can i cope with this?!
xx-me-xx answered Saturday July 14 2012, 4:32 pm: I went through this. Almost exactly like you described, except he had a twin and my best friend liked his brother. Anyways, you don't cope with it. Luckily, after all the drama had happened with me I went on vacation with my family which I had not seen in a year. I tried forgetting it, we went to the pool and other places where there were other people. Try not to think about it, it'll just bring more stress that you do not need. I don't talk to him, I mean not like ignore him but if he doesn't talk to you, don't talk to him. If you're best friend knew you had feelings for him, I advise you get better friends. Do other things, go out and play with you're other friends. Anything, just don't sit and cry with a bucket of chocolate ice cream. It doesn't help. You're probably a beautiful girl, with an amazing personality who can get someone even better down the road. Best of luck! {: [ xx-me-xx's advice column | Ask xx-me-xx A Question ]
annabanana answered Friday July 13 2012, 10:07 am: sorry!!! i am in the same situation and i feel so terrible!!!!!!!!
i THINK its we want to want something...
when we have it we dont like it
when we dont... were looking for it and regret...
im sad tooo.....
just gotta move on and remember your feelings in the first place... why you were not THAT attracted to him... that would ground you...
try to look for other amazing guys out there...
keep on investing in yourself, find a hobby, a new sport, read... just focus on yourself and before you know it a guy will appreciate you..
sorry!!! good luck to us! [ annabanana's advice column | Ask annabanana A Question ]
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