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knowing i should move on but i cant :(


Posted Saturday July 21 2012, 1:32 pm

The guy I've been off and on with for 3 years (mostly on with a few breakups)is not the perfect guy for me in just a few ways. All these ways have nothing to do with personality. He is addicted to rescription pills and just about any drug when he gets in his lows. I've constantly tried to help him but he always pushes me away and then comes back.Fact is, I was probably enabling him more than helping him back then.
Last time he relapsed (a month and a half ago) after going 90 days clean and being in rehab, I figured enough was enough and ended it. He keeps coming back here and then saying he still loves me. And it sucks cause I still am SO in love with him but know I can't be with him.
I'm just hoping for some advice on moving ...

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alll abouuuutttt mee143


Posted Saturday July 21 2012, 10:50 am

hi my name is ashey im a girl im 11 and i was wondering what should i do i wanna hav sex so badbut i dnt wanna get pregnant, i no ppl say use condoms but they still get u pregnant.. and i dont find any lesbians to do it with...... please help me......

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alll about meeeee


Posted Friday July 20 2012, 8:16 pm

hi my name is jazzy im 12,im a girl, and i just wanted to no wat should i do because i am anxious to have sex but i think im under age also i think i am a lesbian wat should i do please give me advice also if there are lesbians out there chat me ;}

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Do couples HAVE to have sex?


Posted Friday July 20 2012, 12:39 am

Hi, I'm an 18 year-old female, fresh out of high school, and I've never dated anyone. Ever. Never had a boyfriend, never been kissed, never been on a date even. I've been asked to a couple dances, but that's about the extent of it. And that's sort of on purpose. See, I never wanted to date anyone, firstly because most of the guys at the schools I have gone to have been complete jerks, but mostly because I'm very serious about relationships. Most middle school relationships last about a month max. Plus at the time I wanted to focus on having fun with school and friends, and sports. High school relationships have a bit more potential than middle school ones of course, but they're so drama-filled, time consuming, and just plain stressful. Plus...

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Can you be a lesbian and not be turned on by girls?


Posted Thursday July 19 2012, 11:43 pm

Im 14/f Who is gay but lately I really kinda don't feel turned on by girls even when I fantasize about them. Ive never been kissed by a girl but have by a boy but didn't feel a spark, Also with boys I'm not attracted at all. Is this something lesbians go threw. Also I don't know if it's because Ive loved my BFF for two years and we just ended our friendship. Could I be asexual? or I've never kissed a girl and don't have much experience.

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boyfriend


Posted Thursday July 19 2012, 7:20 pm

im 9 years old and im a girl i have a boyfriend and i dont know if i should tell my parents if you think i should how?

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Help! I'm uncomfortable with my.boyfriend taking to other girls.


Posted Thursday July 19 2012, 7:00 pm

I'm uncomfortable with my.boyfriend taking to other girls. What should I talk to him about to let.him know I don't want to be controlling , but I would rather he didnt talk to other girls that he use to talk to?

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my depression


Posted Thursday July 19 2012, 4:37 am

hello everyone. i'm 17 years old and i just dont seem to be happy anymore, i can't feel anything around me, i dont feel like talking to anyone and i cant even remember my old life. i feel sick and worthless, i always ask myself, whats the point of life? whats love? whats me?!! my thoughts scare me sometimes. i broke up with my bestfriend and he's a guy though. but i just cant feel it. sometimes i say maybe he's the reason of my depression.. but i dont really know.. im very tired of this, i forget how it feels to be trurly happy, sometimes i ask myself maybe the problem is with me? i cant even trust my parents, i always feel like they are hiding something and they lie to me. i cant feel anything and its killing me. whats wrong with me? how can i deal with this? is this normal?

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im nine and wants sex bad


Posted Thursday July 19 2012, 3:33 am

im 9 and wants sex.

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Broke up and was fine but now I'm confused.


Posted Thursday July 19 2012, 12:25 am

14/f
Okay a week or so again my boyfriend broke up with me. I didn't see it coming til that day. We were at our local county fair and it was so much fun and I wrote him a letter that had the reasons why I liked him so much because he kept saying I had to prove how much. That kinda scared me cause I had a feeling I new what he ment but I really didn't want that. Then all my friends were telling me all these bad things about him( I really didn't want to believe) He didn't come to the last two nights of the fair because he and his cousin (I have a bad feeling about him i don't know why) went to Iowa for there cousins party up there. Then on his way back he broke up with me. I had mixed feelings about it. Part of me wanted this and part ...

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is it wrong to hug my married co worker when I am also married?


Posted Wednesday July 18 2012, 10:07 pm

we are both in our 40's. we are both married to other people but have this strong attraction to each other. Am I playing with fire? All we did so far was hug each other but express feelings towards one another. Please advise.

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Good luck chuck


Posted Wednesday July 18 2012, 8:58 pm

Ok this may sound a little weird but the other day I saw the dane cook movie good luck chuck. It got me thinking and every girl that I've been intimate with has gone on to marry, or get engaged after breaking up with me. A friend of mine went through a yearbook even and looked up my prom date from senior year that we haven't seen in years it turns out she is also happily married with a young child. Ok soo is this just a strange coincidence or do I really just have the worst luck ever and pass on good luck I really don't know.

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Girl Relationship Watch porn Educate self is this cheating?


Posted Wednesday July 18 2012, 8:04 pm

Is is cheating if you watch porn only because you want to educate yourself (not trying to cheat)& when u watched it you were thinking if that was me giving my bf what he needs & wants for example how to give a blo job? I'm in my late teens and don't have a clue. I've read articles with mixed reviews which left me quite confused is it cheating or not?? Also if i wanted to cheat i would have gone out and psychically cheated.

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He was cheating........:(


Posted Wednesday July 18 2012, 5:28 pm

Well, I have a previous post about this same issue wondering if he was, It turned out he was cheating ;( He said that he only did it cause I argued with him everytime I saw him in the past few months...this is very true. I did do that A LOT. But most of our arguments stemmed from him not introducing me to his friends--I felt, even though he spent money on me and took me on dates, that he excluded me from his life--that I didn't feel like a part of it...that's where most of my upset stemmed from. I'm not perfect. There were times when I acted a little bipolar and wouldn't just get upset too often. But he said the cheating is "my fault" now I feel like it is:( I feel like if I didn't push him so much he wouldn't have done it....he s...

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lesbian sleepover


Posted Wednesday July 18 2012, 5:01 am

okay. so me and my best friend are both bi. The last time we had a sleepover we ended up making out and feeling eachother up, I loved it, but the thing is is that that night she said, okay, never again. but then the next morning we were making out even more. I just want to know is what can I do/sat to get her to want to do it again. ps I DO NOT JUst like her for her body, i like her 1. because shes nice and funny and 2. shes one of the only lesbians I know.
we are both 14 but VERY mature for our age. Please answer soon as our sleepover will be in 1 or 2 days. Thank you for taking your time and reading this. other info if it helps- we are both white, petite, GIRLS :), im bi I think shes either bi or lesbian because she has a boyfriend.

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Ex problemsss!!!


Posted Wednesday July 18 2012, 1:22 am

Im 17 years old, I haven't been on here in atleast 4 or 5 years and I decided to make a new account and start fresh! Ok, so here is my problem. I dated this guy, Mike, for 3 1/2 years about 2 years ago. I was younger and he was 4 years older then me, but thats beyond the point. He was my first love, and I was his first love. Things were kind of shaky in the relationship, but we were both really immature and new to the whole "love" thing. We broke up a few times a week, but it was almost to the point where we were expecting it. Eventually we broke up for good but it was almost impossible to stay away from each other. We'd talk about getting back together all the time but it would never fall through because we knew we needed to end ...

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jokes becoming serious


Posted Tuesday July 17 2012, 2:31 pm

I got dumped when my Friend made a joke and said "you got Dumped bye your gf" And he said "ok then" we keep on telling him it was a joke he says I don't care. My friend is such an idiot.

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Webcam help!


Posted Tuesday July 17 2012, 1:07 pm

what's a good way to turn a boy on while on camera?he's my boyfriend and i wanna give him a treat?

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boys, boys, boys: i see how happy my sisters are with their boyfriends and i want what they have!


Posted Tuesday July 17 2012, 9:13 am

okay so I'm a 14 year old girl. A guy and i have had a thing for each other since 6th grade. recently things have been getting a lot more "relationship status". We talk 24/7 via text and he is always saying how he wants to hang out with me, so we're going on a double date with my friend to the movies but i dont know if this is a good idea mainly because the other day i was driving with my sisters past his house (we're like neighbors but we live out in the county so a mile or two apart) and a girl that "gets around" was riding on the back of his quad with him and hung out with him all day. this has happened before but every time i ask him he always says that they're just firends and that he likes me. plus he always says s...

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I like this guy and don't know wat to do. Read more to help. Please!!!


Posted Tuesday July 17 2012, 7:32 am

Hi so I really really like this guy. He is crazy hot and is really sweet but he hardly ever notices me. I really want him to notice me so we can start getting to notice eachother but we are both the real quiet type and he is always in a big group. Just never talking that is. So how do I get him to notice me and start talking To me with freaking him out?please help!!
Ps I'm thirteen and don't tell me I'm too young cause I've had three boyfriends since I was 11. I'm obviously female and I have the ability to change my personality to suit if need be.

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