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Broke up and was fine but now I'm confused.
14/f
Okay a week or so again my boyfriend broke up with me. I didn't see it coming til that day. We were at our local county fair and it was so much fun and I wrote him a letter that had the reasons why I liked him so much because he kept saying I had to prove how much. That kinda scared me cause I had a feeling I new what he ment but I really didn't want that. Then all my friends were telling me all these bad things about him( I really didn't want to believe) He didn't come to the last two nights of the fair because he and his cousin (I have a bad feeling about him i don't know why) went to Iowa for there cousins party up there. Then on his way back he broke up with me. I had mixed feelings about it. Part of me wanted this and part didn't want it to happen. When we first started dating he said he wanted to be in a long relationship with me ( that scared me a little) but when he broke up he said he didn't want to be in a committed relationship. Then accused me of playing him. I did play guys but I had accually stopped before we even started talking because I had let one guy get under my skin. I tried to tell him that he didn't listen.Then he posted this on Facebook "why do they call it a heart break, when your whole body feels like it hurts" part of me didn't want it to be about me another did. I thought I was fine then I couldn't fall a sleep last night. He was never that bad guy all my friends said he was he was always so nice and sweet. He would always ask if he had gone to far when he kisses and he was always protective of me to other guys I'm so confused. I know relationships at this age aren't suppost to be a big deal but I can't stop thinking about him. I have all these questions and things I wanna say to him. I always prepare my self for the brake up but I never let a guy in so close before and lowered a lot of shields to let him in and know I'm so confused
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You stated that he broke up with you again, Which tells me that you both have broken up before.
Really, You need to move on from him. Except that the kid is bad news and meet someone who will treat you right. If he was pressuring you into doing sexual things with him while you weren't ready then it's his loss. Guys that manipulate girls into having sex with them are jerks.
Why are you still looking at his facebook? This isn't going to help you move on from him. It will make the process much harder for you. People do not like being dumped and the fact is the more we are dumped and get back together with that person the more you break the bond with that person little by little.
Maybe he wasn't always a bad guy but the truth is people change. Sometimes we don't always want to believe it but they do. While I'm sure you know you are young, This isn't the end for you. There are going to be more guys that come into your life and hopefully they are the right kind of guys. I'm not sure if his facebook status was directed towards you but please don't let someone manipulate their way back to you. Guys have a tendency of sweet talking and if it didn't work out the first few times with him then you know your wasting your time.
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