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boys, boys, boys: i see how happy my sisters are with their boyfriends and i want what they have!

Question Posted Tuesday July 17 2012, 9:13 am

okay so I'm a 14 year old girl. A guy and i have had a thing for each other since 6th grade. recently things have been getting a lot more "relationship status". We talk 24/7 via text and he is always saying how he wants to hang out with me, so we're going on a double date with my friend to the movies but i dont know if this is a good idea mainly because the other day i was driving with my sisters past his house (we're like neighbors but we live out in the county so a mile or two apart) and a girl that "gets around" was riding on the back of his quad with him and hung out with him all day. this has happened before but every time i ask him he always says that they're just firends and that he likes me. plus he always says super sweet things to me via text. Also i think that one of the main reasons why i dont just stop talking to him is because i see how happy my sisters are with their boyfriends and i want what they have... I'll take any advice :) thank you

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balletbecky answered Tuesday July 17 2012, 7:06 pm:
You seem to really like this guy and he's admitted that he likes you, so go for it! You should definitely hang out with him and see how it goes! If it goes well, that's great, and if it doesn't, oh well! If you really think he's a sweet guy give it a chance and don't worry about that other girl as long as she's just a friend. Go on that double date with him so he knows that you're totally interested! Even if things don't work out work, you're only 14 and have plenty of time to have a good relationship like your sisters do. I hope everything works out well! :)

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xx-me-xx answered Tuesday July 17 2012, 1:42 pm:
Well I say give it a chance. He might just be saying the truth. Instead of seeing her as a threat, tell him you want to meet her. Befriend her and even if she's a go-around girl, maybe you'll find something else. You never know. If he sees that you are trying to be friends with his friends, he'll be happy and you'll be more relaxed. Don't exclude yourself from things that he might want to experience with you. Just put yourself in his shoes, if you hang out with a guy friend and your crush starts to doubt you, how would you feel? If your crush befriended your guy friend and passes more time with both of you, how would you feel? Think about it. Best of luck! {:

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