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Hi! I'm Becky and I'm 16 years old. I'm passionate about ballet and volunteering and I love giving good advice! I love life and keep an optimistic outlook. I consider myself very open and understanding and I believe that life is what you make it! Ask me anything and I'll be more than happy to help out!
E-mail: becky266@gmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: California
Occupation: Student
Age: 16
Member Since: July 15, 2012
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Last Update: July 17, 2012
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Is 2 years and 6 months older creepy? People tell me 2 years isn't that bad. But does the extra 6 months make a difference? I'm going to be a senior in HS. (link)
I personally don't think it's creepy but every situation is different. If you're going to be a senior I'm guessing you're 17 so dating a 19 year old doesn't seem too crazy. A 19 year old is probably at a different place in their life than a 17 year old but if you're mature a relationship with someone 2.5 years older than you is definitely possible! If you think you can handle the age difference then by all means go for it! Good luck!


okay so I'm a 14 year old girl. A guy and i have had a thing for each other since 6th grade. recently things have been getting a lot more "relationship status". We talk 24/7 via text and he is always saying how he wants to hang out with me, so we're going on a double date with my friend to the movies but i dont know if this is a good idea mainly because the other day i was driving with my sisters past his house (we're like neighbors but we live out in the county so a mile or two apart) and a girl that "gets around" was riding on the back of his quad with him and hung out with him all day. this has happened before but every time i ask him he always says that they're just firends and that he likes me. plus he always says super sweet things to me via text. Also i think that one of the main reasons why i dont just stop talking to him is because i see how happy my sisters are with their boyfriends and i want what they have... I'll take any advice :) thank you (link)
You seem to really like this guy and he's admitted that he likes you, so go for it! You should definitely hang out with him and see how it goes! If it goes well, that's great, and if it doesn't, oh well! If you really think he's a sweet guy give it a chance and don't worry about that other girl as long as she's just a friend. Go on that double date with him so he knows that you're totally interested! Even if things don't work out work, you're only 14 and have plenty of time to have a good relationship like your sisters do. I hope everything works out well! :)


I'm 13 years old and really thinking about getting my belly button pierced, should I?? I'm only holding back because they might think I'm a s**t or too young but my mum approves but I don't know bout school?? Plz help;) (link)
I think you should wait. If you're not 100% sure about wanting it then you shouldn't do it! Wait 4 or 5 years. You might want it now and in a few years change you could change your mind. You have the rest of your life to decide it you want to get it done so don't rush into it.


There is this boy I've dated 6 times this passed yearand I totally liked him a lot but he keeps going out with my friend and I found out he really liked her. I want to know if he likes me still? If we could still go out?
I know I should be over him by now but I. Can't get him out of my head. What do I do? How do I get over him? Or how do I get him to like me? (link)
I definitely think you need to move on! If you two have gone out 6 times that means you two have also broken up 6 times and that means you guys probably aren't right for each other. If he really loved you he wouldn't keep going out with your friend! Nice guys don't do that! You might still have feelings for him but you need to realize that a relationship with him won't be good for you! He doesn't seem like he appreciates you and you'll be so much happier with a guy who really cares about you and respects you! Don't try to make him like you because a real guy will like you for who are you are and you won't have to try. There are so many guys in the world so forget this one! There is a guy out there who will love you unconditionally so keep that in mind whenever you think about going back to him!


im going into 7th grade this year, and in 2 days i will be going to all girls sleepaway camp for a week. it is grades 7-12, so i'll be the youngest going.

how can i:
-make friends really fast (there is a 5 hour bus ride)
-fit in with the older girls?
-be fun and liked while still being myself?
thanks, and please respond asap as im leaving on sun. morning (link)
Be yourself and be friendly! A good way to start a conversation with someone is by giving them a compliment. Don't be afraid to talk to people because a lot of the other girls are probably a little nervous too! The 5 hour bus ride is a good time to really get to know the girls around you. By the time the bus ride is over you'll most likely know a few girls pretty well just by talking to them about things like hobbies and school. As for fitting in with the older girls just be nice! You probably wont't be bffs with a 12th grader but be yourself around them and you can still be on friendly terms with the older girls. Don't try to act older just to get older girls to like you because they probably won't fall for it and it will make you look immature. If you just be yourself and are kind to everyone you'll definitely make some good friends. Have fun!




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