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Tell me what will i do regarding my father's second family


Posted Friday August 7 2015, 11:03 pm

Hi. Im a college student from Philippines. My parents broke up when i was twelve, my father's the only one capable of sending me to college so im living with him and his second family now. The problem is, the way they treat me emotionally isnt good. I feel like tortured emotionally. I can actually tell this to my mother or relatives from my mother's side but i might not be able to go to college anymore since no one will support my education, though im a full scholar in our school, no one's gonna support my allowance. And i have a younger sister who has autism. No one, and i mean NO ONE's gonna support her because of she'sentally handicapped, (as what others say, she cannot be used, as a housemaid for example, unlike me who is thankfully no...

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loosing friends


Posted Friday August 7 2015, 5:01 pm

12 year old female.

Anyway, so at camp I told my 'friend' since pre-k how me and another 'friend' got into s fight. I was going to invite her and a few other friends to my party, but I ended up cancelling. So she threw a hissy fit and talked shit about me. I said i wanted to fight her. Anyway, so this camp friend went and told her that. Now this hissy fit friend wants to have her dad go talk to my dad (good luck with that, you'll be in New York while my family is in New Jersey for 2 weeks) so now I lost two friends. Anyway, I already had some elaborate scheme set up about ostrichizing her, and some people already agreed to it. I'm afraid that I'm going to end up friendless, though. Thoughts?

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xasten drug


Posted Friday August 7 2015, 12:31 pm

I have been using xasten for over a month now to gain weight because am very skinny.. But now it give me a fat face and I had to stop taking it.. I just want to know if my face will still return back to its normal look and if No,what can I do or take to make my face normal again?

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My dad dosnt want me around!


Posted Friday August 7 2015, 12:17 pm

i am a 26 year old female and I wrote on here a few times about how my cousins husbabd is like my dad . He use to always tell me that no natter what I do he would never be mad at me but he might be disapointed. But here lately our father daughter reltionship has changed and it seems like he is always pisses off me matter how hard I try and last night he made the comment he dosnt want to be here if iam here and went in his room and shut the door snd sleot the rest of the evening. I dont know what I did. I have always been honest with him about my mistakes it may havr took me a few months to tell him but I have never actually lied to him. He wont speak to me. How do,I fix things and get things bacm to the,way tgey were before when I dont eve...

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How Often Does Parents' and Grandparents' "Equal Love" Happen?


Posted Friday August 7 2015, 2:54 am

I want to apologize in advance if this writing makes it sound like I'm accusing any parents or grandparents on this site of anything. I'm very upset right now, so please excuse me if this seems a little hostile. I don't mean to be nor do I mean to cause any problems, but there's something I need to know. When people say that they love their kids and grandkids equally, how many of them actually mean it? I know that many of them do, but I feel like grandparents say it waaaaay too often and don't mean it at all? I mean, grandkids aren't the same as actual children. Is it just some meaningless platitude grandparents feel they HAVE to say? And why is everyone so convinced that it's normal and does no damage if you don't love them equally?
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Boyfriend going to college... How to cope?


Posted Friday August 7 2015, 2:11 am

This whole day I've been crying on and off since my boyfriend(19) is going to be leaving for college in less than a week... I'm a senior(17) in high school and I'm really looking forward to graduate... But not the in between. I cant imagine going to school without him and I feel like I'm going to be so lonely. We are still planning to date throughout this coming year and I'm planning to go to the same college...
However, on top of all of this I get really scared he will find someone more prettier or more positive than me. He says hes not but I get really scared. I just really love him.
Please do not say that its just young love since its way more than that... I've lost my virginity to him and we've been dating for a while and ...

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i need advice


Posted Friday August 7 2015, 1:32 am


i was 17 nOw .. i Have a baby via cs .. i want to use contraceptive pills .. but i do breastfeed what pills should i use ?

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Dad


Posted Friday August 7 2015, 1:05 am


HI !!
Well problem is that dad and I. We dont talk much. Infact i stopped talkin to my dad just cause he doesn't has a car. I havent even urged him to buy a car...and i can't even say..or tell him to buy a car..as I don't want him to try hard just for me and buy a car.
Likewise, my dad is arrogant too and he doesn't listen to others even if it's for a good cause.
I don't have a mom neither..and since me and dad don't talk much I feel my dad feels lonely and seeing him like that and not able to do anything I feel like a very very very very bad SON!!!
Ii don't know what should I do? should I die?
Damn writing all these makes me tear up for no reason...ik it might sound nonsense but i need your help please!!
Thank you,
Friend.


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Best Movie For A Jude Law Fan


Posted Thursday August 6 2015, 11:49 pm

Jude Law is my favorite actor and long story short, I have less than one day to decide on a couple movies of his to buy. I already have:

The Holiday
Sherlock Holmes
Contagion
Cold Mountain
Hugo
Side Effects
The Imaginarium of Dr. Parnassus
The Aviator

I feel like I should go for one of his bigger ones like The Talented Mr. Ripley or Gattaca, but I don't know. I happened to spot Lemony Snicket's: A Series of Unfortunate Events at Wal-Mart yesterday. In addition to the other movie(s) of his I but, I might buy that one. However, I've seen part of that movie and I know that Law is the narrator who is seen at the end of the movie for a couple of seconds. If I buy it a...

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Capias issued for missing a court date? What do I do?


Posted Thursday August 6 2015, 9:03 pm

Please don't judge me but about a year ago I was in a relationship with somebody who was a very bad influence on me. He convinced me to steal something from a store while I was with him and I got caught. The items were less than $100 so I was charged with Petite Theft and it was my first charge ever. I went through deferred prosecution and I thought I did everything they asked me to do (I paid $200 to the court and $200 as a donation to a company). I thought I was all in the clear. Now about two months have gone by and I just paid a ticket I received for not having proof of insurance (though I did have insurance). The lady on the phone told me I should check on my misdemeanor because it looked like something was going on.

I ...

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how do i make sex easier?


Posted Thursday August 6 2015, 6:18 pm

im 18 f and my boyfriend and i had sex for the first time on the weekend however we had a really difficult time to actually get him to fit inside me. i know that probably just because i was a virgin however i want it to actually be pleasurable for both of us rather than a puzzle we have to solve. i also think that we should perhaps try some other techniques in the bedroom because its probably easier and more rewarding. so i was just wondering wether anyone had any tips ect

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scene/emo type stores?


Posted Thursday August 6 2015, 5:58 pm

Where I live Hot Topic and maybe forever 21, and Urban outfitters (although it's more hipster in my opinion) are the best options that I know of, other than thrift shop stuff. I was wondering if there id any way i can find out what scene/emo stores are in my area, I live in New York but i don't want to give too much information out?

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puberty: when will I stop growing?


Posted Thursday August 6 2015, 4:59 pm

ok i started my peiod when i was 2 now 13 im 5ft7 and size 6 feet but they havebt grown for ages my mom is 5ft4 and my dad is 6ft i want to stop grwoing when will i stop growing


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Grapefruit juice for weight loss?


Posted Thursday August 6 2015, 2:16 pm

I've looked for the answer on the Internet, so does anyone know if grapefruit juice is good for burning fat like a regular grapefruit? I would get the kind that is 100%, but I can't stand the texture of fruit, so mine would have to be juice. Will I get the same, or at least similar, weight loss results with juice instead of straight fruit?

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Metabolism pills recommendations


Posted Thursday August 6 2015, 2:13 pm

Lately I've been dieting, but my birthday is coming up and I'm having a party to celebrate me becoming 17. I want to be able to enjoy myself but I'm afraid I'll gain weight. I decided it would be best to take some supplements for metabolism boost, but I would like some recommendations considering I've never taken any before. I'll be celebrating my birthday this weekend and next weekend is the party. Vacation is the beginning of next month and then comes my sister's birthday. So that's why I want some pills for this. and something I can buy at walmart please because that where I go every week. But nothing expensive please. Something around $10. Thank you!

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Hair for sports


Posted Wednesday August 5 2015, 11:28 pm

I'm field hockey goalie and I have to wear a hot sweaty helmet. But I want to look cute for the first day of school. I have natural hair and it will frizz up from the sweat if I straighten it. I thought about getting crochet braids and then just ponytail it while I play but it would get really stinky. My mom suggested micro braids but last year I got those and I looked horrible. Do you have any suggestions for me and what I can do with my hair?

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why do people glorify depression, self harm, and eating disorders?


Posted Wednesday August 5 2015, 8:15 pm

I'm done with it. It's a terrible message for people suffering from this stuff.

Reality of depression: a mental disorder caused by bullying, abuse, etc where the victim can't feel happy, and is always sad. This person needs to get help and heal.
What it is showed as: an emo kid who is a very shy and misunderstood, a great trait where the amazing emo is deep and poetic. This person should continue on with it because it's romantic and beautiful.

Reality of self harm: something extremely serious, caused by something so intense and traumatizing the victim wants to end his own life. This person needs help (right fucking now)
What it is showed as: something an emo kid does, where he "paints a pictu...

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stage 1 kidney disease


Posted Wednesday August 5 2015, 1:32 pm

I have stage 1 kidney disease. I'm not diabetic, I don't have high blood pressure. I don't drink alcohol any more. I drink a lot of water 5 to 8 glasses of water a day to stay hydrated. My question is sometimes I wake up just feeling awful all over joints, muscles, head feels floaty. I try hard to get moving and be productive but I just feel yucky. This will last a few days and then I wake up one day and feel great for a few days. My husband is very supportive in either case. Any answers or suggestions out there? I have a great Dr. who listens well, but has no answers. I also have a Nephrologist I see rarely but when he does see me also listens well, runs tests, etc., but I'm still feeling this way. Any help anyone?

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Friend didn't make the team


Posted Wednesday August 5 2015, 12:19 pm

Last year my friend convinced me to tryout for the field hockey team and everyone made the team. This year we are in high school an they had to make cut but she didn't get in. I'm goalie so I pretty much knew I was gonna get in because there were only 3 goalies and the other two are on varsity. But she plays field and she got cut and I feel bad because I only did this because she wanted me to and I don't even like to play I just want to stay in shape. But I don't know if I should quit because she didn't make it or stay in. Plus my dad thinks it would be good if I stayed playing. So should I stay or should I quit? And if I stay how do I make my friend feel better that she didn't make it?

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i need bleeding my first night


Posted Wednesday August 5 2015, 6:10 am

i rate hight

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