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thinking about him after I dumped him
Posted Tuesday January 8 2013, 7:37 am
okay soo . idated this guy for a year and a month. i broke up with him because we would fight all the time , and he changed dramasticly . he gets very very jealous . even though we broke up he would still call me and say he loves me and i would say it back . but one day he called and i finally told him that we cant do this anymore . i told him we cant tell each other that we love each other , or we will get back togather . and we cant be anything more then friends. then he told me he would always love me no matter what and he had gotten me a birthday present .. and it was this braclet that had my name engraved and had our date on it ..
sooo after he told me all that. we havent talked in while. then i find out he went to the movies ...
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Should I date a close friend?
Posted Tuesday January 8 2013, 12:55 am
15/F
So me and this guy have been talking latley and we really like eachother but im not sure if its a smart idea to date him. He's my bestfriend. i've dated a close friend before but im not sure if i should take this chance. what should i do?
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How can i keep my mind off him, and deal with this heartbreak easily?
Posted Monday January 7 2013, 8:59 pm
Hi i'm a 13\F
I just got out of a long distance relationship with my 16 year old now ex, boyfriend.
I didn't really wan to, but he isn't Christian, and i am, which is the reason i broke up with him.
To some of you it may sound silly, but the Bible has a say in that type of relationship.
SO my question is,
How can i keep my mind off him, and deal with this heartbreak easily?
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Cheat-ee has become the Cheat-er: Now I have slept with 7 different men since the time I first cheated on my husband. What am I doing?
Posted Monday January 7 2013, 10:03 am
My husband and I have been married for 3 years. He cheated on me with his ex our entire 3 year engagement, through my pregnancy, and I didn't find out until right before we got married. I still married him because I love him, and I figured it would be a fresh start for us.
Now the tables have turned.
About a year into our marriage, I guess I finally decided that I can't trust him and he wasn't changing his ways, so I ended it. We were apart for a week or so, when I decided to sleep with someone else. I'd never been with another man; I was curious. It was a terrible experience, and I regretted it instantly. My husband and I ended up getting back together, and he has yet to forgive me for what I did. F...
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second thoughts
Posted Monday January 7 2013, 8:50 am
in all honesty i've never done this before but i just feel like i have noone to turn to about this. so i've been working my ass off to save money fly and see this guy. he lives in the states and i live in canada. we met here when he was on vaca meeting some relatives. anywho at first we webcammed texted and talked on the phone and eventually i geuss our lives put more distance then.. we already were. we planned for me to fly over at the end of the month but im having second thoughts we barely talk.. its just how are u okay bye... dull. and now a new guys popped into my life and he's all ears and gives me so much attention. i dont know if i should go we talked for nearly 8 months.... and its fading.. since we live so far communication is so ...
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am I ready for this relationship?
Posted Sunday January 6 2013, 9:57 pm
okay i'm currently 16 I turn 17 in july
I really love my bf and he telling alot of people thagt he believes
i'm the perfect girl he is too 16 almost 17.he tells me that he is ready to settle down and that he wants to get married and have a kid.I really love him alot and yes he does smoke weed and cigarette and yes my parents know he does.he is a really good guy but something is holding me back he is a bit controlling like he gets mad if I talk about other guys and if I go a full two days J seeing him he threatens to take his own life and then he says that we need to runaway and get married idk I love him and always will it's just thode two things that's hurting me
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Uneventful love life and don't know what's right for me
Posted Sunday January 6 2013, 7:21 pm
I can't stop thinking. I'm going on 22 years old and I've never had any experiences with love or sex. The past few months have been a roller coaster of emotions, many extremely positive ones. New changes, particularly significant weight loss have given me confidence I've never experienced before. Having been insecure and somewhat shy, experiencing major confidence for the first time is a remarkable feeling.
In very basic terms, I'm often desperate for male intimacy. I've gone on a couple dates, mildly physical with with one guy, but long story short, we didn't click. I never act on my emotions when things are risky. A lot of my friends engage in sexual behavior with people they don't know but I don't do this. Some of my frie...
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I always feel a bit taken advantage of...
Posted Sunday January 6 2013, 3:37 pm
19F 21M
So I have been dating this guy for nearly a year. It has always been the way it is. I have just always tried harder. Our first date I offered to pay because he was out of work at the time. Over the summer I worked a lot more at my job and was getting bigger checks. He would take me out to a movie once a month maybe twice after he started working. But I would loan him money like 50-100 because he would go without food for a day or two sometimes and needed money to hold him over. Well he is on his feet now and I am proud that we stuck through that together. He has a place and his own car and has gotten 2 promotions at work. I always feel a bit taken advantage of though. I usually make him dinner since when he gets home he is e...
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the play or not...
Posted Sunday January 6 2013, 12:34 pm
I'm 13 and there's this girl i like. I joined the play because she was joining and our characters dance together, but i really don't like to do plays but i still joined. I had to memorize my lines and some songs but i didn't memorize the songs cause i didn't have time. So i just thought i went to the rehearsals without knowing the songs but i really feel bad... what should i do?
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20/f and i never wanna have sex anymore
Posted Sunday January 6 2013, 3:24 am
im 20/f, my bf is 21. We have been together for 2 years and when we didn't live together we had sex a lot. We moved in together a few months ago and it seems since then i never want to. He will try getting intimate and i just push him away. I don't know why i don't want to. I love him very much and i am still attracted to him. I tried taking pills to up my sex drive but it didn't seem to work. Its starting to effect our relationship. what do i do?
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Guy friend confessed, but I like someone else! HELP?
Posted Sunday January 6 2013, 12:42 am
okay, so i started working somewhere about a half a year ago, and my coworkers are REALLY awesome. i get along with a lot of 'em, and have made some pretty great friends. one in particular, Sam, and i have a lot in common, he's a REALLY cool guy. we both are passionate about art, music, theater, etc, and we have a lot of the same interests and hobbies. about 2 or 3 months ago, we started hanging out a lot, going to the mall, movies, art museum, and just plain having fun. He's become a great guy friend of mine.
THEN, there's another coworker, let's call him Will. Will and i have an... interesting relationship. it mainly consists of flirting. at first when we met, he just plain teased me. then as we got to know each other, the ...
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a little smoldering crush...
Posted Saturday January 5 2013, 11:16 pm
hi im bi and ive had a crush on my female bff forever now what can i do 13f fyi.not labeling self...just saying
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Terrified that I might be bisexual
Posted Saturday January 5 2013, 11:12 pm
I've always considered myself straight - no matter how physically appealing/sexually attractive I find some girls, I haven't had the urge to date any of them before. I just started at a religious university this year where homosexuality isn't very supported, and I think I'm crushing pretty hard on my roommate. I've never felt this way before and I'm extremely stressed because I know my parents wouldn't approve, and my roommate doesn't support gays/lesbians either. I feel sick with worry about what this might imply about my sexual orientation and I just don't know what to do anymore. Any advice would be very appreciated!
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he is flying across the country to see another girl :/
Posted Saturday January 5 2013, 9:44 pm
17/f
ive been seeing this guy for 6 months now. we are both really happy. he is friends with this other girl on the other side of the country (they talk like everyday)she has a boyfriend, but apparently the boyfriend is jealous of max (the guy im seeing). This morning max told me, that at the beginning of the previous year he had promised this girl a visit for a week and he asked if id be alright with that.
i trust him, he is really relgious and i know he would never cheat. i just think its weird to travel the country to see another girl and when she has a bf!.
am i being to jealous? or am i right in thinking its a tad off?
any suggestions on how to approach it with him without starting an argument.
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Unsuccessful guy experience
Posted Saturday January 5 2013, 4:20 pm
22f. I recently had my first physical experience with a guy. All we did was make out and sleep in bed together but it was still a big deal to me.
He's handsome but skinny and has a really boyish face and voice. Also some of his outfits are very middle school boy-esque, like his mom went to the store and bought all his clothes. None of these immature things about his appearance dawned on me until we got physical. That one night also made me recognize how TRULY insecure and immature he is as a person. We only hung out like 3 times but I wasn't into him from the start. I have had feelings for guys before and nothing about this even remotely reached that emotional level.
I thought, ok not so much into him but fir...
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what should i do? argh :(
Posted Saturday January 5 2013, 1:04 pm
Okay well im 18, me and my ex boyfriend ended like 7 months ago. The problem is that well yeah he dumped me and such and like im not over him and i know he ain't too.
What bothers me is that he says he doesn't care what i do and stuff... as in date someone else (even though i haven't dated anyone after him)
so then on twitter he goes on like he cares, it's as if he doesn't like me being happy since i show it on twitter... even though he doesn't exactly know i feel ...
why does it feel as if he don't want me happy? does he still care and feel the same?
we decided to be friends well since he came back to me, lol what makes me mad is that he said he missed our friendship but doesnt bother communicating with me? i ...
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Is it right to love your cousin?
Posted Saturday January 5 2013, 12:57 pm
Is it right to love your cousin??
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Im in love with a girl but i know she thinks of me just as a friend.
Posted Saturday January 5 2013, 11:10 am
Im 13 and i really like this girl i asked her out already once but she rejected me and forgot about it now we are "just friends" what can i do to make our relationship bigger and make us closer?
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Lonely.
Posted Saturday January 5 2013, 9:57 am
Hi,
Im a 28 year old female. I dont have any friends & I've never had a boyfriend.
I have been looking for work for the last year, always go to interviews but never get the position.
When I do go out I can never hold a conversation & normally just sit there & listen to everyone else.
I am so lonely & just want to find a husband who love me & respect me.
People who I went to school with are all married and have kids while I live at home.
All I have is my family who I love dearly but just need a man or a friend.
Im a really nice person, Im just really lonely & dont know what to do.
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Can anyone tell me how to know if he love me too?
Posted Saturday January 5 2013, 8:08 am
I really have this crush on a guy can anyone tell me how to know if he love me too
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