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he is flying across the country to see another girl :/
17/f
ive been seeing this guy for 6 months now. we are both really happy. he is friends with this other girl on the other side of the country (they talk like everyday)she has a boyfriend, but apparently the boyfriend is jealous of max (the guy im seeing). This morning max told me, that at the beginning of the previous year he had promised this girl a visit for a week and he asked if id be alright with that.
i trust him, he is really relgious and i know he would never cheat. i just think its weird to travel the country to see another girl and when she has a bf!.
am i being to jealous? or am i right in thinking its a tad off?
any suggestions on how to approach it with him without starting an argument.
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It is good that you trust him. Having a strong trust is always important. I think you should trust him because HEY! AT LEAST HE TOLD YOU, RIGHT? I mean, it's not like he's hiding what he's doing behind your back. He asked for your permission so I think you should trust him.
It's okay to have a little jealousy because it shows that you care.
I'm sure you guys won't start in an argument unless you let this situation get to you. Maybe you should keep in contact with him at least once a day or something. Have him call you or you call him to make sure that both of you are okay.
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This really depends on your security. Do you believe guys can just be friends with a girl? Do you trust nothing is going on between them? Just think if you had a guy friend across the country that you had no feelings for and you had the chance to visit, would you expect him to freak out or understand that it's your friend and trust that is the truth.
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You are not seeing the bigger picture. Your boyfriend may be religious but that does not always prevent someone from cheating. Also, Why would he feel the need to visit another girl when he is happy with you?
It sounds to me there is a logical explanation for why this Max is jealous. Your boyfriend did not consider your feelings, he thought about himself.
There may be more going on then what you want to believe. I would call it quits
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