I'm 13 and there's this girl i like. I joined the play because she was joining and our characters dance together, but i really don't like to do plays but i still joined. I had to memorize my lines and some songs but i didn't memorize the songs cause i didn't have time. So i just thought i went to the rehearsals without knowing the songs but i really feel bad... what should i do?
solidadvice4teens answered Sunday January 6 2013, 11:32 pm: Everyone has worked hard on that play to ensure its success and because they love it. You will quickly be resented for screwing around and not learning the routines if they don't dump you first. You certainly will not be in favor with her after.
You need to come clean with her and tell her that you really like her and only joined to get to know her better and haven't put in the work. Now you realize that you like her you want to see the play do well but didn't approach it seriously.
Ask for her help in learning the routines and tell the director the truth about needing help. Hopefully, they have time in the rehearsal schedule to do this. If they don't you'll have to leave and handle the consequences. [ solidadvice4teens's advice column | Ask solidadvice4teens A Question ]
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