im 20/f, my bf is 21. We have been together for 2 years and when we didn't live together we had sex a lot. We moved in together a few months ago and it seems since then i never want to. He will try getting intimate and i just push him away. I don't know why i don't want to. I love him very much and i am still attracted to him. I tried taking pills to up my sex drive but it didn't seem to work. Its starting to effect our relationship. what do i do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Lakerz33 answered Thursday January 10 2013, 5:13 am: Ok so braiden is right that medication can affect your libido sometimes. Libido is your sex drive. But honestly, you guys need to do more than just spice it up. First off, why do you at that age have to take medication to enhance your sex drive? Are you kidding me. Or are you on some other drugs like 420 or a downer that decrease it and you are trying to take these drugs to up to enhancement? Hahaha. Obviously you guys are doing something wrong. He obviously isn't doing what he needs to and you are probably just growing bored. I suggest trying something new also and lay off the medication, it's not good for you to be taking at your age. Damn its like him taking viagra at his age. WTF? I also suggest you guys learn more about sex. See people just move in with each other, grow bored, blah blah blah, then they cheat, then they blame each other, same old story. [ Lakerz33's advice column | Ask Lakerz33 A Question ]
Xui answered Sunday January 6 2013, 7:09 pm: You both have gotten used to one another The thing that rings a bell is you mentioned you both had sex a lot. Perhaps you need to spice things up and try new things with your boyfriend. Try things you haven't done.
One another note, Are you on medication? Sometimes this can play a big role in your sex drive as well as birth control.
Pol0 answered Sunday January 6 2013, 8:56 am: try masturbate, and even if you dont want to do just do it. you can also watch porn. [ Pol0's advice column | Ask Pol0 A Question ]
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