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thinking about him after I dumped him
okay soo . idated this guy for a year and a month. i broke up with him because we would fight all the time , and he changed dramasticly . he gets very very jealous . even though we broke up he would still call me and say he loves me and i would say it back . but one day he called and i finally told him that we cant do this anymore . i told him we cant tell each other that we love each other , or we will get back togather . and we cant be anything more then friends. then he told me he would always love me no matter what and he had gotten me a birthday present .. and it was this braclet that had my name engraved and had our date on it ..
sooo after he told me all that. we havent talked in while. then i find out he went to the movies with some girl and they kissed .
wooooow . im so heart broken. and i cant stop thinking about him . and i dont want to call himm or text him . but its werid he still has all our picturs on facebook and instgram. i dont know what to do . if he calls i dnt know what to say ?
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Hahaha Sillyrob...Dude you crack me up. Ok so here goes another one. Honestly, I agree with sillyrob. You guys are obviously both young. It's that old saying, you really don't realize what you have until you've lost it. This guy seems like he is starting to have his cake and his ice cream too. Girl, don't put yourself in that position where he creates you as his safety net. Like if something goes wrong with the other girl he always has you on the side. First off, you always argued. This is not a healthy relationship. That's not something you should be in. If he calls don't answer. He obviously doesn't have problems going on dates with other girls and kissing them huh. Now if he really loved you would he do that. Come on. Think about it. You should make yourself happy. Who cares what he thinks. Trust me. In 5 to 7 years he is just going to be one of your past exes. LOL.
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You need to either break up or be with him and stick firmly to the choice you make. All of this texting and I love yous and present getting isn't seeming very broken up, now is it? No wonder your heart is broken, allowing yourself to be only halfassed broke up.
You don't want to call him and text him? You want to be broke up? If he calls, tell him it's over, don't call again, then don't answer his calls, don't read his texts. You've already discovered that doing so only causes you more heartache. Plus it will take you that much longer to get over the guy, and sounds to me like he's a guy worth getting over.
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Don't talk to him, don't think about him, and don't give a shit if he has your pictures on Facebook. You fought all the time, and obviously weren't going to work out. I'm going to assume you're both young, so it's not worth it. Just move on, find a guy you don't fight with.
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If he calls, there's nothing to say.
You told him yourself that you guys are nothing more than friends.
Even better, don't answer if he calls. It's time for you to move on.
You're going to think about him after you guys broke up but you can find someone else who is better for you. You need to find someone who you won't fight with.
Who knows what he's thinking on his end. You two are over so he can do what he wants but he's probably just on the rebound. He probably just doesn't know what he wants anymore or he's trying to move on.
Anyways, I think it's best if you try to move on. It'll take awhile but it would be so much better than being in a relationship where you two are always fighting or thinking about him and what he's doing.
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