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what should i do? argh :(


Question Posted Saturday January 5 2013, 1:04 pm

Okay well im 18, me and my ex boyfriend ended like 7 months ago. The problem is that well yeah he dumped me and such and like im not over him and i know he ain't too.
What bothers me is that he says he doesn't care what i do and stuff... as in date someone else (even though i haven't dated anyone after him)
so then on twitter he goes on like he cares, it's as if he doesn't like me being happy since i show it on twitter... even though he doesn't exactly know i feel ...
why does it feel as if he don't want me happy? does he still care and feel the same?
we decided to be friends well since he came back to me, lol what makes me mad is that he said he missed our friendship but doesnt bother communicating with me? i bet it's cause he knows im there. Well too bad i'm not cause i don't want him to see that i care anymore, he obviously doesn't care..
i know he goes out with girls and stuff, i actually don't see why he said 'lets be friends?' must that mean something? on new years it was me who wished him a new years, not him..
he got drunk and said all these things at the end he was like how he misses me..
next morning he goes he was chatting rubbish typical right?
ah i acc don't know what to do anymore this sucks cause i do feel alot for him ah please try help me...


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Brandi_S answered Wednesday January 9 2013, 6:11 pm:
This ended 7 months ago, and you're still worried over "why does it feel as if he don't want me happy?"
He's 7 months gone... Why should you care what he thinks?
Stop trying to be friends, or whatever it is you got going on, because it's not working so well, is it. You need to be able to move on, and moving on you're not.
It's not healthy for you at all.

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StarPrincess answered Sunday January 6 2013, 7:03 am:
Just move on. As you can see,he's constantly on and off about how he feels. I'm sure you're a great girl and you deserve someone who will come clean with their feelings. You can't know how he feels,as sad as it may sound. Guys are just like that. I've been there. You don't need to date someone right away. Give yourself time to heal and get over it. But whatever you do,DO NOT get back with this guy. It's bad for your health,cause you seem to be stressing out too much. It worked for me. Later,I found a great guy who treated me right. Still does. Don't cling on to him. It's over. Gone. What you can do now is try to entertain yourself or go out with friends to help you stop thinking about him. This guy sounds like trash. And you don't go picking up trash after you throw it away. So just relax and live on.
Good luck,
StarPrincess

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