I don't really know that my guy likes me or not...
Question Posted Saturday January 5 2013, 2:17 pm
I don't really know that my guy likes me or not but i think so that kind of he likes me ......... But sometimes he just shows that he hates to hell and sometimes he just turns back looks at me....... i seriously don't know what to do plz!!!!! I am from INDIA
DDiazella3 answered Friday March 13 2015, 10:13 pm: Men have awful social skills, based on what you said there is no way of knowing? You should just ask him.
I assume if he is with you by choice, he likes you. You should just ask him. Say "I can't tell if you like me or not? Are you into me? Do you want to be in this relationship?"
Are you living in India now? I know that India is not the best country for womens rights. However, if you have a choice about your partner, you should choose someone that treats you good.
If he acts like he hates you and is violent or verbally abusive to you, GET OUT! If you have a choice, don't put up with abuse. Let him know you want to be with a man that is good to woman. If that man is not him, he should tell you so you can find someone else. End of story NO COMPROMISE, don't put up with men treating you badly.
I'm sorry this is happening. I'm sure it's very confusing. I hope you're able to talk about it with him.
missundersmock answered Thursday March 12 2015, 4:09 am: if he isnt showing you he likes you then you should leave him. you should demand better for yourself as a person and as a guy he should be trying to show you he cares. if he says he DOES care he just doesnt always know how to tell you or show you then SAY to him "well i need to here it im sorry but thats just how it is when your dating."
Women need to hear and be SHOWN that they are loved and cared for, if he refuses to do that then i think you might want to move on.
alexus21 answered Wednesday March 11 2015, 3:52 am: Well, depending on your age guys show how much they like a girl depending on their age. Also it also depends on the guy .. seeing that he's looking at you is kinda tricky to say. If he stares at you til you notice and he acts shy.. Then he probably does. Do you guys speak to each other? I think you should try talking to him. . If not maybe try doing things to show him that you like him (if you like him back) overall it really just depends on the type of guy he is. But I do strongly advise to talk to him. Good luck I hope this helped in some way ♡ [ alexus21's advice column | Ask alexus21 A Question ]
MsAdvicenator answered Tuesday March 10 2015, 3:55 am: It sounds like he is playing hard to get and teasing you a bit. Guys take longer to mature than girls. Some longer than others. If he wants to play games than you can either also act uninterested sometimes & tease him, & play his game OR ignore him and act like you do not know he is there to show you will not play his game. Guys, when they are young, tease girls when they really like them ..it is confusing. So basically tease him back or ignore him and act like you do not care if he doesn't like you ..even though you do. I hope this makes sense. He is immature and does not know how to just say he likes you so he plays with you. Do what comes natural to you. Readily flirting back or acting like you could care less.. whichever is easier for you. Hope this helps. Good luck! [ MsAdvicenator's advice column | Ask MsAdvicenator A Question ]
Dragonflymagic answered Monday March 9 2015, 5:13 pm: You say 'my guy' which could be a person you have a crush on but no relationship, or a boyfriend, fiancee or husband. I have no idea what your real situation is. Yes people end up in marriages where they are like strangers and have no idea if the other even likes them or loves them or why they even married you.
I will take a guess, that you are young, and you are attracted to this guy and waiting for him to notice you. When a guy likes you, you'll catch him staring at you a lot. Such a guy will find opportunitys to get close to where you are or walk by and smile and say Hello, even if nothing else due to shyness. If this is consistent, theres an attraction on his part too. Whether he really 'like's you as a person, your character and personality, is yet to be discovered by spending time together. It is then a person discovers whether they like a person or not. If they like you, the next step is dating to learn more and during that time, is there is chemistry between you both, you fall in love or you don't and break up as being in relationship where theres no romance due to the other feeling more like a sibling, is not a good thing.
You have not said if this particular guy even smiles at you or says hello. You used the word hate in a sentence I didn't understand. If you feel the energy and emotion of hate focused towards you from him, it's best not to pursue him or even hope for him to ask you out, because there are different personality types and some do not mesh at all, they'd always be in conflict. You can do the young school kid thing, no matter your age if you're too shy to walk up and try conversing with him, write a note with the question "Do you like me?" with a box to check for yes, and one to check for no. This is one way to find out. So far, I haven't heard enough to feel positive that he is interested in you. It could go either way. The only way to really find out is to approach him in some way and try a way you;re comfortable with to start chatting with him. If he seems to want to end the conversation, or in a hurry to take off and you can see by his expression that he's really not focused on you, then he's likely not interested at all and simply trying to appear polite. If he enters the conversation, seems fascinated, smiles alot, maybe laughs too, then he's interested. [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
princess2015 answered Monday March 9 2015, 12:56 am: well to be honest i think you should sit him down and ask him how do you feel about me ? he shouldnt treat you like he hate you . i think he should be more like being honest with you he probably doing that to you so you think he likes you , guys picks on girls all the time to show the girl he likes her like throwing spitball in your hair, etc. [ princess2015's advice column | Ask princess2015 A Question ]
Ladylala answered Sunday March 8 2015, 4:23 pm: Does he talk to you a lot? Does he look at you a lot? Do you ever catch him looking at you when he thinks you're not looking at him? Does he ever hug you? When he's around you does he position his chest facing you? [ Ladylala's advice column | Ask Ladylala A Question ]
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