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fell for friend
Posted Thursday January 26 2006, 5:44 pm
alright, so heres the thing. i was dating a guy (we'll call him K) & i fell for his friend (he's referred to as him). me & him are/were basically best friends because even when K & i went out, we talked a lot online & on the phone.. and we could talk to each other about anything.. we had a close connection. but i never realized that i actually liked him more than a friend until i seen him that weekend he spent the night at K's house on his birthday when i was there.. because there was just something about him when i seen him.. and when i was around him.. i just wanted to like hug him and get really close to him.. and i kept finding myself staring at him.. or trying to touch his hand. why is that? lol is it like that ive like...
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so confused.
Posted Thursday January 26 2006, 5:12 pm
okay so i can never tell anyone this because my friends wouldnt agree to it. ii went out with a boy for uh about a week and i can swear it was love at first site. the first night we started talking i just found out he was amazing and was everything i hoped for in a guy. well when he broke up with me a week later - i continued to like him because hes so amaxing and you cant get over a boy just like that. well we kept hooking up and everytime hed be like yeah im asking her out but he never did. one day when we were going to hook up he said he was affraid of a comitment.i was really sad and stuff and i finally managed to have my heart healed. weLL he turned into a huge ass hole and started being horribly mean to me. i couldnt stand him well on...
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Should I marry him?
Posted Thursday January 26 2006, 12:47 pm
Ok i know it sounds totally weird because im so young (15 very soon) but my boyfriend wants to propose to me for my bday. Hes 17 and i know wont be able to get married for ages and so does he. I think hes still going to propose though. What should I do? We've been going out for 10 months. thanks xx
(Im female by the way...)
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3 seems to be the number..
Posted Thursday January 26 2006, 9:43 am
ok so here it is.
3 guys.
3 different grades.
3 problems.
Yes, it's true, i kinda like 3 guys.
one in 7th, one in 8th, and one in 9th.
I am in 8th.
The 7th grader, i've been out with this past year,
the 8th grader i have also been out with this year, and the 9th grader i havnt been out with, i just like a lot, but he has a gf.
both the 7th and 8th grader like me.
i have no idea what to do.
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My weight has me depressed and its interfering with my love
Posted Thursday January 26 2006, 5:27 am
I'm a 21 year old Female and I have a very big issue with my weight. This issue is affecting my happiness and love life. My question is how can I NOT let this affect me?
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Girlfiend Messed Around
Posted Thursday January 26 2006, 12:59 am
my name is mark im 19 and im a male ... im dating a girl we dated for 2 years on and off we broke up over this past summer and over the summer she did stuff thats bothering me now in our relationship she had sex w. a total of 3 guys multiable times and messed around w/ 3 other guys she told me everything b4 we got back together and it botheres me alot i dont know whwat to do i talked to her about it and shes there for me and all but i dont know what to do i need some advice the only reason im w/ her is because i really love her anyother girl i would tell leave me alone but i need something that will help over that break up i only messed around w/ 2 girls but we didnt have sex or ne thing like that i dont know what to do help me out please
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frienship/guys
Posted Wednesday January 25 2006, 11:54 pm
Ok so i have known this guy all my life! well a few years ago he moved ..but we still kept in touch occasionally. and also we have always considered each other bro and sis, well he moved back this past summer and everything was ok and all but now he calls me at a minimum of 8 times a day! and every weekend he is with me. now dont get me wrong i love the boy to death but he comes with me and my frieds on our "girls night outs" and then staurday nights he comes to my house then sunday he is hear to! and i dont want to be mean and i have even tried saying things in the past liek well why dont u go do this or that...and even trying to be mean dont work because he doesnt take me serious! please HELP ME i dotn no what i am going to do....
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Posted Wednesday January 25 2006, 10:44 pm
me & ryan ex boyfriend, we're realllyyy close. we used to hang out everyday and always talk on the phonnee. then about 2 months ago we stoped. he stoped calling and stoped hanging out with mee. then about 2 weeks ago a girl who likes everyone, started to like him. and i thought i could trust him and no that he wouldnt like her. well he told me he didnt and was pretending then 5 days after this girl sent me proof. a myspace message that he sent her. it said blahblahblahblah i love you. =[ it made me really sad because i knew he wasnt kidding. and he wasnt. i talked him about it and he was like "im sorry for lying and messing things up but there nothing i can do now to make us the way we were. so this is bye." it was very hurtfu...
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guy at school
Posted Wednesday January 25 2006, 8:55 pm
I'm a 14 yr. old female and there's a guy in my computer class and we started chatting with each other the other day so I geuss you could say we became friends he's really nice, and I developed a crush on him so I was asking his friend/x-girlfriend some questions about him. but then during another class he stole the note from her and well anyways he thought i was going to ask him out so he started avoiding me then later that day he kinda got over but i told my computer teacher we were chatting the day before and we werent suposed to be and she got infront of the whole class today and basically told everyone that I snitched on myself and him but i didnt mean to and he got mad at me so should i just leave him alone or should I try to get clos...
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I need to make a decision
Posted Wednesday January 25 2006, 8:33 pm
Hello, my name is Bill, and I'm a 15 year old male. At my school there is a girl I like, named Courtney. I have known Courtney for a few years, and last year I started having more feelings for her. I told her I liked her, but she wasn't sure of her feelings, some people said she liked me and some people said she didn't, so I was very confused. What made it worse was Courtney and I had a fun relationship, she was really funny and was probably the best friend I had that was a girl. When she found out I liked her, she didn't feel as comfortable around me, and we didn't talk very much. Well over the summer I didn't see her much and I lost some of the feelings I had for her, but I still liked her a little bit. When we came back to school, she ta...
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Your 7 step program
Posted Wednesday January 25 2006, 8:19 pm
Hello, I'm a 15 year old male who just started using this website. I was searching through your posts and I realized that you said you had a 7 step program to getting a girl to like you. I don't want to sound odd by asking about this, but there is this girl that I have liked for a long time and I feel like I've tried everything there is. Please respond to this. Thanks!
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old bf's new love?
Posted Wednesday January 25 2006, 8:18 pm
now just warning you this is gonna be a long one..
Last year I was dateing this guy and everything was going totally perfect but I still wasnt "in love" like I just never felt like he was the one. Then I met this kid, John. He blew me out of the wate, he was hysterical and Im deff.. attracted to funny people he was literally amazing he could make me laugh like no one else and immediatly i knew i liked him but i waited and i didnt break up with my current boyfriend because i wanted to be sure since he really had done nothing wrong. I knew that john liked me and when he asked how i felt in return i told him i liked him too and i wanted to get to know him better so that week i broke up with my bf for john. a week or tw...
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When will he make a flipping move?
Posted Wednesday January 25 2006, 7:57 pm
Hiya, my name is Diane I'm 13. I really like this guy, lets call him Tom. Tom and I used to hangout every Friday and I mean we've kissed and stuff during spin the bottle but it has never ment anything. In november i was at my friend Joe's party. Joe was with his girlfriend, Joe's other friend John was with his girlfriend and I was just with Tom like walking around this park we went to. Since we were alone we talked alot and he put his arm around me for a good 10 minuets...until I kindof push him off. Anyway since then we've been really close friends. We flirt all the time even when his girlfriend walks by (one girl dumped him cause of that). And he tells people he wants to hangout with me, but I want him to make a move already I mean ...
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break up...
Posted Wednesday January 25 2006, 7:23 pm
I just broke up with a guy that i dated for almost 7 months. hes 18 and im 15 and it just got too serious ands i felt like i needed time to myself to hang out by myself n see what else was out there u kno? well we agreed to still be friends because we were before we dated. i still care about him and everything but i realized i was better off. he still walks me to every class, still tells me he loves me, n asks if i miss him n stuff like that and it seems like hes always trying to make me feel bad. of course he denies it. i kno he truly does love me n i thought i loved him but i guessed i mistook lust for something more. i dont wanna be mean to him but i dont want him to be making me cry and making me feel bad all the time. what can i do or say to try and stop all this but remain friends?
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Boy Troubles.
Posted Wednesday January 25 2006, 7:18 pm
So I'm a 17 year old female, and I need to give you a little back story so you can better understand this. This past week and a half, this boy and I got close working on the school play together. He was really flirty and I was flirting back. Then on Saturday, I found out he went out with this girl the night before that he's been pining after for a while, and she told him that she likes him back. The flirting kind of ended for a day, and then it started back up a little by Sunday. I know that this is just a weekend, but I fell hard.
My question is, should I tell him that I like him, just to let him know, or should I let it go and let him be happy with this other girl?
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macaroni and cheese
Posted Wednesday January 25 2006, 7:13 pm
okay.. i ride a bus home.. and the guy ive been crushin on sat with me today.. well we were tickling each other, holdin hand, and all that stuff... and his ex (not exactly, they didnt date.. just flirted ALOT) was staring at us.. shes kinda my friend too.. ne ways.. well how will i get her off my back?
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what are the signs...
Posted Wednesday January 25 2006, 7:00 pm
what are some signs of when a guy likes you? because theres this guy i like and im not sure if he likes me...please help ill rate <33 danielle
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Try Again??
Posted Wednesday January 25 2006, 6:58 pm
Alright well I'm a 14/f and I went out with this guy for 9months and he was sweet and stuff but we fought too much and my parents don't approve of him so we broke up well it's been about a month since then,we dont talk at all anymore and i really miss him, but I get these days where all I can think about is him and I wish we were going back out and then other days I dont wanna go back out.How can I figure if I want to be with him or not? Should I talk to him and tell him how I feel or just find a way to get over him? PLZ HELP
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so..is he into me??
Posted Wednesday January 25 2006, 6:41 pm
Ok, i like this guy at my school and he used to bark and me and all this wierd crap well evrytime imj not at school or not aroudn he's always around..and today i missed school to go to the doctor's and he was all around my friends and they were talking with him ALOT today...well my friend and him were walking and he's like so where's your friend, and my friend K* goes uhh ur gonna have to narrow it down..and he goes the one with blue eyes...K's like o ya (my nick name) nd he's like thats her name..nd K's like no it's C*...he's like ya C..where is she???
Ok sorry if that confusing..but anyway do you think he lieks me? I mean how often does a guy actually notic eyour eye color!
*I rate!!
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Should I stop this secret affair or not? (i rate =) )
Posted Wednesday January 25 2006, 6:35 pm
Right, i have a best mate called rowan (he's a guy im a girl but im called roHan lol) im 14 he's 14 and we'v been best mates kinda on an off for about 3 years, a month ago our friend nikki had a party and we were laying down and just watching a movie when we started kinda flirting and touching each other up then it prgressed and he fingered me and i gave him a handjob nobody saw us though, Since then we'v had a thing going in secret, we'l go up an alley for a *talk* after school, and stuff will happen, iv gievn him head twice and we'v talked online about fucking and stuff iv had 1 bf during this thing and he's had 2 gfs, its stopped then, thing is i dont actually have a crush on him and he doesnt have one on me, im just a lil confused an al...
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