alright, so heres the thing. i was dating a guy (we'll call him K) & i fell for his friend (he's referred to as him). me & him are/were basically best friends because even when K & i went out, we talked a lot online & on the phone.. and we could talk to each other about anything.. we had a close connection. but i never realized that i actually liked him more than a friend until i seen him that weekend he spent the night at K's house on his birthday when i was there.. because there was just something about him when i seen him.. and when i was around him.. i just wanted to like hug him and get really close to him.. and i kept finding myself staring at him.. or trying to touch his hand. why is that? lol is it like that ive liked him all along and i didnt realize it until then? or like we are meant to be together? and like after that weekend, i came home & all i could think about was him.. there was like a connection..
AEangel589 answered Saturday January 28 2006, 3:01 pm: if you and K aren't together any longer, and i did say IF, then hang out with HIM alone. maybe he likes you too? maybe things could work out between you and him. and if you like him, don't let him get away, do something about it.
Teza answered Thursday January 26 2006, 5:54 pm: I don't really know what your question is and I don't know if you and K are still together, but you really do seem to have a thing for him. You probablly didn't know you had a thing for him because you were still with K and you didn't want things to get in between. It happend to me, but when I finally realized I liked that other guy, I was really shocked. You were staring at him and trying to touch his hand because you like him. You are attracted to him and his personality and that's fine. The only bad thing is that he is K's best friend and that might cause conflict. Just keep flirting with the guy and see if those feelings are still there or if they were just a one time thing. If the feelings are still there, talk to him more. Get to know him and you never know what might happen later on. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
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