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guy at school
I'm a 14 yr. old female and there's a guy in my computer class and we started chatting with each other the other day so I geuss you could say we became friends he's really nice, and I developed a crush on him so I was asking his friend/x-girlfriend some questions about him. but then during another class he stole the note from her and well anyways he thought i was going to ask him out so he started avoiding me then later that day he kinda got over but i told my computer teacher we were chatting the day before and we werent suposed to be and she got infront of the whole class today and basically told everyone that I snitched on myself and him but i didnt mean to and he got mad at me so should i just leave him alone or should I try to get closer and say sorry?even though i already have wrote him a note saying im sorry.
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You should apoligize to him and tell them how you feel and that all you wanted was to find out some stuff about you and that next time that you'll ask him. good luck
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You have nothing to apologise for. You were perfectly within your right. I mean, yes you may of got him into a little bit of trouble, and a simple apology should fix things. If you feel obliged to grovel then he isnt worth it. Charm him over with your uniqueness. Dont play hard to get, but dont be a complete loser either. Try and be you. If he says hes interested, go for it. If he doesnt, be a great friend until the time comes or you get the feeling he likes you. Stand out from everyone else... in a good way. If he doesnt like the real you in that way, dw about it. Someone will. And that someone will be worth the wait. One mnore thing, why dont you try and talk to his ex, find out why they split, what stuff he likes. Best of luck xxxx
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sorry it took me so long to answer your question. i wanted to make sure i gave you the right answer. ok. so. if i get this right. he doesnt like you like that. and why would you tell the teacher you had talked in class? so try this idea for a second.
tell him you had a temporary loss of sanity.
and that you still want to be good friends with him. give up on dating him right now. if hes in your class im guessing hes your age right? well see this is why girls date guys a little older than them. guys your age are normally to immature. hes 14..right? 14 year old boys arnt normally mature enough. see this is how it works. guys never outgrow the 5th grade mentality. so if when their 30 years old they still act like their in 5th grade with their friends....then when their in 8th grade...(which is where im guessing you are) they just arnt mature enough. he prolly still wipes snot on his friends. just give up on him for awhile. k? just be his friend.
hope that helped and that you could make sense of my answer-
jodie
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