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break up...
I just broke up with a guy that i dated for almost 7 months. hes 18 and im 15 and it just got too serious ands i felt like i needed time to myself to hang out by myself n see what else was out there u kno? well we agreed to still be friends because we were before we dated. i still care about him and everything but i realized i was better off. he still walks me to every class, still tells me he loves me, n asks if i miss him n stuff like that and it seems like hes always trying to make me feel bad. of course he denies it. i kno he truly does love me n i thought i loved him but i guessed i mistook lust for something more. i dont wanna be mean to him but i dont want him to be making me cry and making me feel bad all the time. what can i do or say to try and stop all this but remain friends?
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you need to set boundaries. You need to realize that if the relationship wasnt in your best intrest then its better off this way. tell him that it got to serious too fast and that your only 15 and you need time to think and more importantly time to grow up and think about your future. if hes the great guy he sounds like then he will understand and maybe when you're more sure of everything and you're ready for a serious relationship then you two can pick up where you left off.
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You just need to be straight forward with him.
If he really is serious about being friends, then he'll respect what you're saying and stop. If he doesn't, then he's probably not worth it to begin with, friends don't make you feel bad about things you have no control over.
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