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I just broke up with a guy that i dated for almost 7 months. hes 18 and im 15 and it just got too serious ands i felt like i needed time to myself to hang out by myself n see what else was out there u kno? well we agreed to still be friends because we were before we dated. i still care about him and everything but i realized i was better off. he still walks me to every class, still tells me he loves me, n asks if i miss him n stuff like that and it seems like hes always trying to make me feel bad. of course he denies it. i kno he truly does love me n i thought i loved him but i guessed i mistook lust for something more. i dont wanna be mean to him but i dont want him to be making me cry and making me feel bad all the time. what can i do or say to try and stop all this but remain friends? (link)
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you need to set boundaries. You need to realize that if the relationship wasnt in your best intrest then its better off this way. tell him that it got to serious too fast and that your only 15 and you need time to think and more importantly time to grow up and think about your future. if hes the great guy he sounds like then he will understand and maybe when you're more sure of everything and you're ready for a serious relationship then you two can pick up where you left off.
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OK i'm not blonde but it's just an expression. I think this is how people see me... just a dumb brunette. A lot of people say that I remind them of Jessica Simpson. In some ways I'm flattered (shes pretty, nice, funny, has an amazing husband) but also she acts ditzy. I know I do a lot of the time too but it isnt on purpose. I say things being serious and others think I'm joking... when really I dont know. Also whenever I'm hanging out with people I am ALWAYS the person who gets made fun of. I try not to let it bother me and I know I dont show it that often. what do I do with this?? (link)
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ok i know exactally what you going through...because i was exactally the same way but one day i just couldnt take it anymore and i just went off on everyone around me...it stopped eventually because i kept telling people after that that i didn't apperciate being made fun of and they eventually stopped
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If you cut yourself once...then realize what you've done is stupid..should you seak help? (link)
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not unless you think you will do it agian...ive cut too and i have realized it was stupid too i have never cut agian...if you know now you will never do it agian under any circumstances then your all good never telling anyone about it
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i bite my nails all the time. somtimes i bet them some much or so hard, they bleed. it really hurts but i cant stop especially when im nervous. what do i do to stop?? (link)
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i used to have that problem too...just not that badly... i stopped by putting a dab of finger nail polish remover on every finger... if you bite them you will get a terrable taste in you mouth for the rest of the day and you wont forget it pretty soon you will stop biting.
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I think I'm in love. what should I do? He has a girlfriend! Maybe even 2! Whenever I see him my heart starts to race. I just want to run up to him and kiss his gorgeus face. How does he feel about me? I will never know. I am a shy girl, all the way from head to toe. When I'm with him I feel as if I could fly. Fly Fly high up into the sky!!!!
What should I do? (link)
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well if this guy has two girlfriends then he sounds like a player and you always want to stay away from those but you said he makes you feel good...well any guy could make you feel like that if you let him...but if you think your in love then think about these things...first of all...do you know him well enough to know you love him or is it just a crush?...second of all...is he the type of guy you want or is he just a really really popular guy who everyone is after? if so then you have major compotition...i say follow your head not your heart in this situation if your head says go then you listen to your heart if they're both saying the same thing then you just might be in love in not then it was just a false alarm...and everyone gets alot of those...just listen to your head and heart carefully.
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OK well.. there is this guy I like. He's 16 (i'm 14). I talk to him on the internet almost everyday. Well we just had this conversation where he was asking me advice and stuff and he was asking about this girl he liked and if he should tell her or not, so i told him to try hinting to her that he liked her. and he said well i just made a major hint. so i thought it was me :\ and i was like well if the person is who i think it is you have nothing to worry about ;) and then he asked me who i thought it was. so i was like well if you are talking about me, i like you, etc etc etc. but he never really responded to that. so i dont know if its me or not, but i feel kind of dumb because we are supposed to go to the movies tomorrow and i really do like him. so i dont know what to do. (link)
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ok all girls have this problem at one point in they're life or another and it always sucks agonizing over weather or not a guy likes her, but if yousaid he kinda hinted that he liked you then i say there is a chance he might like you...and you already told him you like him so that fear of rejection is out of the way so he might take the chance of asking you out...i say just be your normal self and dont' be a neveous wreak... thats always a turn off.
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