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dumb blonde?
OK i'm not blonde but it's just an expression. I think this is how people see me... just a dumb brunette. A lot of people say that I remind them of Jessica Simpson. In some ways I'm flattered (shes pretty, nice, funny, has an amazing husband) but also she acts ditzy. I know I do a lot of the time too but it isnt on purpose. I say things being serious and others think I'm joking... when really I dont know. Also whenever I'm hanging out with people I am ALWAYS the person who gets made fun of. I try not to let it bother me and I know I dont show it that often. what do I do with this??
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Oh Lordy! i know exactly what your going through!! mi two nicknames are Dory(because she forgets easily and she does stupid yet funny things) and JS (jessica simpson!) i just took it as a compliment. i know that jessica simpson is funny, pretty, sweet, and she does stupid things but she either takes it the wrong way or she laughs it off! i usually just laugh it off. and if it just gets to the point where you cant take it anymore, just rationaly talk to your friends and say that you dont like being made fun of as much and that if they could take you more serious you wouldnt be as mad(if that is the case). trust me it helps! hope they quit a little! xoxo ~SYDRA~
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ok i know exactally what you going through...because i was exactally the same way but one day i just couldnt take it anymore and i just went off on everyone around me...it stopped eventually because i kept telling people after that that i didn't apperciate being made fun of and they eventually stopped
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sounds like it's time to ditch em, or tell them to shut up and mind their own buisnee. it might seem kinda crude, but hey, you'll get their attention. and THEN tell them what's up, aye?
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Try to think before you say sumthing. If your friends make fun of you and itz something you wanna change then you should just think of it as an improvement on yourself.hope i helped=)..
-MIZZ_C
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Maybe you could talk to a guidance counseler1
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yes im considered ditzy by my friends too.. and i was the one who alwayz got made fun of but finally i got fed up and i made them sit down n listen to me.. i told em that if they were really my friends then they wudnt keep making fun of me.. everyone can be ditzy at times and im really not its juz i say stuff at the moment as i see it.. i cant help it its juz the way i am.. so i told them it hurt me and they apoligized and they dont do it nemore.. i mean sure they still make fun of me but not more than i make fun of them.. so juz try talkin to ur friends and lettin them know how you feel! hopefully theyll listen and everything will work out in the end!
-*Tay
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In my opinion (always just an opinion) I think you're doing things backwards. Let them know it bothers you. Maybe not when you're in a big group of kids and someone cracks a joke and someone ends up making fun of you, because letting them know right then that it hurts you could be bad. However, you should take your friends aside individually when you think about it and just let them know what bothers you.
-Maisie
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just go with the flow. if u saw me on the street ud think i was a complete idiot but really im pretty smart(and brunette). i just let ppl say wut they want becase its not like ur their to impress ur friends. if u really dont kno sumthing then u really dont kno. i just found out buffalo wings were chicken. i never thought they were buffalo meat but i mean its not sumthing u think about.
*Oreo*
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