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Jail bate
Ok, here's my situation, I really care for this guy who is turning 18 in July and im 15. Me and him both really care So0o much for each other and know this only my parents don't liek the fact that hes turning 18 soon and that hes black...we don't want to stop doing what we're doing with the worry of my parents putting a Restaining order on him or have him sent to jail. What do I do? Is it legall to date him with out parental consultance at 16?
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yea its totally illegal.my boyfriend and i broke up cuz he was turning 18 n my parents had a major problem wit it.ur parents cant get a restraining order if he does nothing 2 u.but if u all have sex after he is 18 then they can get him n ALOT of trouble...hope i helped
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jessica
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i think so. But personally the fact that hez 18 and your 15 i can see why your parents would worry. Cause most parents would your parents are no differnt. but the fact that your parents dont like him because hez black iz WAy WAY to racist for me 2 even imagine. How does him being black affect anything at all.Because a man of any other race can possibly do w/e they feel that the black man would do. Either it be rape or anything thing else that parents would thinkof. i suggest yoy get your parents to change the way their thinking before a neighbor or somebode outz them on a talkshow.
-MIZZ_C
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Yes, its illegal.. Just talk to your parents . Tell them that you really care for each other. show your parents that your responsible, Im shure they will soon enough understand......
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u can date him. i dont think they can put a restraining order on him without a valid reason. just because they dont like him doesnt mean hes a bad person. i think itd b illegal if u were 15 and he wa like 22 or sumthin like that. but u guys r fine.
*Oreo*
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i really dont know bout if its legal or not so i cant help you on that one.. but i use to date a black guy and my parents didnt approve and it was extremely hard on the both of us.. finally we decided that it was juz best we left my parents out of it.. i mean they knew about us but basically i just didnt tell them nething bout my life and kept it at that.. so if yall truly care for each other then try to keep yalls relationship going.. i mean dont lie to ur parents but at the same time dont go around talkin bout him all the time cause that wud be disrespectful to ur parents.. i hope it works out for yall and yall are able to over come this and work it out!
-*Tay
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Dating is legal, period. As long as he doesn't hurt you or show any threat of hurting you, your parents should not be able to get away with filing a restraining order. HOWEVER, laws state that pretty much any physical contact between the two of you is illegal until you are of an age of consent. I don't know what the two of you do, but if it's anything physical, you should definitely keep it to yourselves. Keep in mind, though, that it is not illegal for your parents to make you have a physical, which may reveal to them more than you would want them to know.
-Maisie
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