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Me and this guy we have a great connection between us we were goin out but then last night when the topic arose we started talking about how he'll be 18 soon and it'd be illegal for us to do anything (im 15). So pretty much we held out the offer of (keeping everything between me and him) friends with benifits. I care so much for him that i wouldn't let him go, so i said ok (hasitation but thats pretty much it) Only think is i'm not all for friends with benifits i'd rather be dating because benifits confuse me...i don't know what to do...please help?
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First off, you need to check with the laws in your state to see what's legal and what's not, don't just take his word for it. Many states do have "statutory rape" laws to keep minors from danger. I know in Kansas, if an 18 year old had sex with a 15 year old, he'd go to jail. At 15, you have not reached the "age of consent". Check out the answer board at [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) to get more unofficial info on this topic.
The dating part isn't what's illegal, it's the "benefits" or so he's saying (that's usually what people mean when they say "friends with benefits"... friends who have sex.) Unless your dating takes you across state lines (transporting a minor) you're fine to go to movies and hold hands and make out and do whatever you want to do. Sexual activity may get both of you, especially him, into legal trouble.
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its not illegal if u choose to be wit him..if hes forcing u or if u sleep wit him and ur parents call the cops and u tell them that u wanted to its not a problem i knew someone wit that problem hope i helped rate me
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yall might as well just be together cause itll be illegal for yall to be friends with benefits too cuz thats still doing stuff.. so just stay together and be happy with each other
*plez rate me! :)*
-*Tay
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